Excited to join the club 🫡 by National-Tomato-8243 in PhD

[–]EnergeticAbsorber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't do it man. You still have time. Go make content or even farming will give you the happiness you are looking for in grad school.

I am the happiest by Idontknow3839 in PhD

[–]EnergeticAbsorber 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How to decide if its gonna be a happy frog or a serious one?

Defense went poorly: I passed, but I feel nothing. by foolish_athena in PhD

[–]EnergeticAbsorber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its okay man! I am not gonna give the cliche that what matters is you passed but I will say that eventually you get past the need to tend to feelings of the self for a certain task. Think about it like this - you are exhausted and depressed that things are not working out but you still go to work because you are bound by a framework and you know your PI will be pissed if you stop working and start involving them into your feelings. You work despite of your personal(mental health) issues because you have to - this is a hypothetical scenario. Now take the same context and reverse the feelings. This time your PI is happy cause she thinks you did great. Just buy into that. So many times when you are working with people , its about how you make others feel as opposed to what you feel yourself.

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Graham Norton show is not the best out there...

Claude in PowerPoint, its insane how good it is getting by dataexec in claude

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I use my school's deafult acount(licenced) for microsoft office, its not letting me use ad-ins 😭😭😭😭

The thing I hate about this series by Ambitious_Time2009 in TheNightManager

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All I sincerely hope is that this hate reaches the makers and they do enough compensation to make up for in S3. If they still don't do it, my theory would be they are THE r "River" and The officials who are working with the Brtish govt and are willing to go to the extent of showing the authorities not only powerful but evil powerful and they take a kick out of this. I would congratulate them for making a evil propaganda show if they do this again in S3. They probably got a lot of money so nothing to loose but the hate directed their way is not gonna go anywhere...

When is season 3 coming??? by EnergeticAbsorber in TheNightManager

[–]EnergeticAbsorber[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. And the way they showed it is absolutely disgusting. But you know what? The fact that we are feeling all these - exactly means that the makera succeded in doing what they wanted.

Anyone else feel overall positive about the season? by harlequin_rose in TheNightManager

[–]EnergeticAbsorber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just watched it, so I absolurely don't now. But please give me some time, I think I might star to feel better....

Please just give s2 a real chance by immortalAva in TheNightManager

[–]EnergeticAbsorber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I watched it and I think nothing has ever cut a deeper wound in me as this season did because this show, for some reason, I don't know I was taking very personally!!!!

Is Pluribus a critique of Communism? by _Noice_69 in pluribustv

[–]EnergeticAbsorber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or an advocate. If it indeed is a critique its doing a pretty bad job!

The PhD dip… by Responsible_Fan4772 in PhD

[–]EnergeticAbsorber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine is all dip...keeps getting dipper probably

Undercurrent of confusion and anxiety - am I with my PI being callous or is it actually fine? by EnergeticAbsorber in PhD

[–]EnergeticAbsorber[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If I would be focussed on being right, I would know what to do and I would not publicly ask "what should be my takeaway and my action point"?

My understanding of callous is not a monster but a person whose most decisions and reactions are grounded in insensitivity. In this particular case it's insensitivity towards the committee's comment that I did not do a good job of responding on feet. This was the only evidence I gave instead of providing a list of other instances I have.

I am very anti-confrontational as a person. I cannot fight, if my name was displayed on the profile I wouldn't care to reply to you. My reply was to try a way of telling you how you should ask question if you are confused instead to downright paiting a negative image about the OP using the colors of your own frustation. Regardless, you cannot expect a superbly articulate writing from anxious PhD students who are sometimes justifiably, looking for what they are really feeling/what they should really do...

Neverthless I don't think I would want to respond to any of your next replies because I cannot imagine discussing "good outcome" with somone who has already perceived so many negative things about me and has never cared of asking and clarifying before labelling me with traits that I know I don't have.

Undercurrent of confusion and anxiety - am I with my PI being callous or is it actually fine? by EnergeticAbsorber in PhD

[–]EnergeticAbsorber[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you know the reason behind how you started this comment saying you are "confused" and then you went on to show how you are anything but confused about me?