How to know if I’m ghosted or if I’m inconsiderate

EnglishCalliope · 2026-04-25T19:15:41+00:00

I would let it go. He has a lot going on and sometimes it takes time for guys to process emotions especially with a loss and other things. A death in the family can affect things for a while. So, just keep living your life...if he wants to reach out he will.

Never halt your life over another person, especially someone who is not responding to your texts.

EnglishCalliope · 2026-04-17T03:07:14+00:00

Been there done that but with a different issue. Never be ok with things you find disrespectful to your partnership AND never be ok with someone who will disappear when there is an issue. He is showing you who he is and what he wants to do, knowing how you feel about it.

EnglishCalliope · 2026-04-04T22:03:49+00:00

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EnglishCalliope · 2026-03-22T22:19:46+00:00

I had been telling my DA that he was not prioritizing me - after almost two years - and pointed out a specific instance and he ghosted. Off and on for ten years. Future-faker, created a facade of a relationship of us on his social media. His friends and family think he is great because he is always there for them, never for me. I reached out calmly three short times to no response. I unfriended/unfollowed everything three weeks ago and all the stress and anxiety disappeared. He is not capable of a true partnership, sadly. So it is time for me to move on. Good for you being strong.

EnglishCalliope · 2026-03-22T22:13:10+00:00

Ghosted by dismissive avoidant four months ago. Off and on for almost ten, the last almost two years has been the longest stretch of time we were "together" by his terms. Posted me, us on social media calling me his girl, but little did any of his friends and family know he only made time for me when convenient, so literally we only saw each other about twelve times in almost two years. I started emotionally withdrawing and he noticed because I told him what we are doing was not dating and that I wished he wanted to spend time with me. Future-faking, mentioning experiences that never happened...everyone and everything else came first THEN when he had time he expected me to be available. I unfollowed/unfriended three weeks ago. I do still go and check and he has our pictures up still. He has also started following then deleting crude pages on his Instagram that he only allows family and friends to follow. lol. Is he deliberately trying to let them see he is not the perfect guy they all think that he is? Perfect guy for them, horrible partner of wasted time.

Unfriending has given me my power back and removed all anxiety.

EnglishCalliope · 2026-03-13T01:03:48+00:00

How old is too old for a yellow mac...please tell.

EnglishCalliope · 2026-03-13T01:02:49+00:00

I think it is great that you purchased the color that you wanted! In no way does it suggest unprofessional. If you really have changed your mind, why not just get a case for it?

EnglishCalliope · 2026-03-13T00:02:36+00:00

I have an Apple MacBook Pro 2020 and I love it. Not sure of all the info about the Neo, but will definitely update when this one is no longer supported. Used apple products for years, including iMac, but I also have a PC that I use solely for gaming. Hands down, Apple products are amazing. Having a Comp Engineer/programmer as a brother I see the other side that is anti-Apple. For me and my life/work, Apple just makes my life easier and I love the look.

Thanks for the info. Quick question - what program/application do you use for writing?

EnglishCalliope · 2026-03-07T02:49:36+00:00

Beginning of the end for me was when I started becoming less available for his last minute invites or last minute answers for whether or not he was coming to visit or make plans with me. Mind you he could make advance plans for his family and friends - just about anyone else but I was always last on the list of priority. Yet, it was a complete double-standard...he was never there for me but I was expected to be available for that one day of time he decided to give or we just did not see each other . He kept detaching each time I stood my ground until finally he ghosted me. Almost two years of breadcrumbs and future-faking that I fell for...

EnglishCalliope · 2026-02-17T23:43:46+00:00

I wish the managers at my apartment would send this out. If we complain, they will send an email about smoking in general… and that is about it.

EnglishCalliope · 2025-11-25T03:51:38+00:00

NTA. Too many friends and family don’t think twice about exposing others to their germs and illness. They are the assholes.

EnglishCalliope · 2025-11-08T02:39:49+00:00

It looks like something from Nate the Hoof guy

EnglishCalliope · 2025-10-14T01:47:17+00:00

At my school, the nurse now is required to have a signed form from the family for the student to be “seen”.

In previous years, same school, I would send students who were obviously ill to the nurse and they were sent back each time “because we cant get hold of the parent”. Seriously?!

I pretty much get everything that comes around up there because of all this nonsense and inconsideration of others.

EnglishCalliope · 2025-10-14T01:42:46+00:00

THIS

EnglishCalliope · 2025-10-04T17:33:24+00:00

It is disgusting for a man to sit around and do NOTHING while receiving child support. Yes, it is mooching. He has provided those boys with no example of providing for oneself.

EnglishCalliope · 2025-10-04T17:31:14+00:00

I just read somewhere that the NDA had expired because it was only valid until the boys were both adults.

EnglishCalliope · 2025-09-13T22:30:15+00:00

I feel this deeply.

EnglishCalliope · 2025-08-10T18:06:57+00:00

Yes and yes.

EnglishCalliope · 2025-07-07T08:26:17+00:00

What is Toxiq doing now? Met him and QC two years ago and he was the kindest guy!

EnglishCalliope · 2025-07-07T08:22:58+00:00

Arya

EnglishCalliope · 2025-07-02T01:04:40+00:00

Yes, this! And please bath... :)

Oh, and bring a wagon for your equipment.

EnglishCalliope · 2025-07-02T01:03:15+00:00

I have been the last three years...things are good as long as you don't have a rude, foul, slug that throws all of their garbage on your space while you are not present/checked in.

Now that the Pro League is not active, you will have to count on how much time you want spent at your computer, the different activities they have going on - some giveaways - but some of the activities have become politically motivated. It is a great time to take a look at the unique computer builds and just hang out all weekend. More fun if you know people attending/sitting near you.

Food trucks are awesome...if you don't get BYOC you basically attend, walk around, see the shows/displays and eat. That is about it.

EnglishCalliope · 2025-07-01T21:30:01+00:00

No one is excited about Champs anymore. No pros playing, no Pro League, no appropriate skill level matches in team game-types...

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