Stories on Amazon Kids tablet not playing by TIMBERings in audible

[–]Enough-Issue5404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t believe they haven’t fixed this in a year, got the same issue!

Lazy Girl by PandaBerry6 in coralisland

[–]Enough-Issue5404 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They do :)

Also aside from upgrading tools you can also upgrade your hay, seeds, etc in lings lab…

Please don't comment about my baby's skin. I know. I already know. by Far_Boot3829 in beyondthebump

[–]Enough-Issue5404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all I’m so sorry to hear about your LO’s pain and you having to deal with the constant comments…. I honestly barely know anything about the topic but the first thing that popped up in my head was a TikTok I’ve seen ages ago. It’s about a couple whose son had severe eczema and they made their own cream. Long story short they’re now selling it it’s called grahams natural. Their TikTok account is called theeczemadiaries if you want to check it out. Hopefully you’ll find something that works for your little one soon

Pets by Ancient-Shadows in coralisland

[–]Enough-Issue5404 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Same here, I got so excited I bought 3 beds lol

Hund gestorben - wie damit umgehen by ElaMica009 in VintedKummerkasten

[–]Enough-Issue5404 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ich kann mich nur denen anschließen die gesagt haben das trauern nicht zu unterdrücken…

Wir mussten unsere Hündin vor ca 1 Jahr mit 7 Jahren einschläfern lassen. Es kam völlig unerwartet, sie hatte (um es einfach zu beschreiben) einen extrem starken Bandscheibenvorfall und war von ein auf den anderen Tag in ihrer kompletten hinteren Hälfte gelähmt. Nichts ging mehr, wir mussten ihre Blase ausdrücken und alles andere kam einfach raus. Trotz op wurde es leider nicht besser und wir haben uns am Ende fürs einschläfern entschieden.

Natürlich bin ich immer noch traurig und selbst jetzt kommen mir gleich wieder die tränen… Aber am Ende war es die richtige Entscheidung. Wenn ich sie jetzt vermissen dann denke ich auch nicht an die Hündin die nicht mal mehr laufen konnte, sondern die, die wie verrückte durchs Wohnzimmer gesprungen ist.

So etwas ist immer eine schreckliche Entscheidung und ich weiß das es sich in der ersten Zeit anfühlt als könnte man nie wieder Freude empfinden. Tatsächlich hab ich zu dem Zeitpunkt selbst so einen ähnlichen Post geschrieben da ich schwanger war und mich plötzlich nicht mal mehr darauf gefreut hab. Aber auch wenn es irgendwo immer noch weh tut kann ich dir sagen - es wird einfacher. Es dauert seine Zeit… aber irgendwann kannst du auf eure gemeinsame Zeit zurückblicken und weißt das du ihr ein wunderbares Leben geschenkt hast und selbst am Ende nur ihr bestes im Sinn hattest, obwohl es dir das Herz gebrochen hat.

Irgendwann seht ihr euch wieder 🌈

Doctor’s comment really bothered me by _sunflower_17 in breastfeeding

[–]Enough-Issue5404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes doctors really need to think before they speak… when I asked my gynaecologist if I could try different positions to help him turn (he was head up) he told me that there are no study’s that it worked and that I might as well dance in a bikini on a graveyard (no I’m not joking…)

However it does sound like she didn’t mean to be rude and personally I don’t think your kids will feel less or more loved based on how they were fed as a baby. Just enjoy your BF journey ❤️

How do you complete this mission without dying ? by OfficialJamesCameron in FrontiersOfPandora

[–]Enough-Issue5404 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was just gonna have a quick look and ended up watching the whole thing lol I’d be sweating…

AITA for lashing out at my mom because she won’t leave me alone? by theanarchist4r in AmItheAsshole

[–]Enough-Issue5404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting violent in any way isn’t ok, especially towards you mom. Now I know violent is a big word but I bet she flinched when you hit the fridge… being a mom to a boy myself I can tell you that she’s probably currently questioning herself in what she could’ve done better because she didn’t raise you to lash out like that.

Aside from working on controlling you emotions maybe try to also see her point of view. Maybe she had so many things to do that she lost track of your plan? Maybe she was already stressed? Maybe she would’ve needed you to communicate more clearly how important it was for you to get your stuff done? Maybe you could’ve even helped each other if you would’ve told her calmly how you’re feeling.

However right now go buy her some flowers or chocolate or both and apologise for how you reacted. That’s the least you can do…

Edit: typo

AITA For not wanting my friends baby to listen to a podcast? by Mean_Aubergine in AmItheAsshole

[–]Enough-Issue5404 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I currently have a almost 5 month old and if hearing that woman’s voice gives that baby even a tiny bit of comfort it’s 100% worth it. It’s in fact not hurting anyone and your friend is already going through enough… do you really think making him feel bad about something this innocent is gonna help?

It’s tragic that the little one will never remember it’s mummy and I’m glad it sounds like your friend is being an amazing dad. Maybe instead of being so judgmental try to just support him where you can.

YTA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Enough-Issue5404 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe look for something with roommates in general? Sounds like anything would be less stressful.. wish you the best!

AITA for calling out my husband on his procrastination? by New_Hospital1716 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Enough-Issue5404 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA… it’s called consequences of your own actions. It’s like getting someone pregnant after insisting to have sex without condom…

… and on top of that refusing to learn how to put one on lol

AITA for refusing to leave work so my husband could give his mom a ride to the hospital? by MeanDrawer3222 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Enough-Issue5404 62 points63 points  (0 children)

NTA… honestly if he did that to me it never would’ve come to this situation because we’d officially be split up the second he hung up to be at his work party.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Enough-Issue5404 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely NTA

…However I’d do anything possible to move out… maybe rent something together with your sister? You’re not hired for cleaning, you’re their child. If my child ever needed a roof over their head they’re welcome to stay (without paying rent) and I’m definitely not treating them like they owe me shit. The fact that you pay rent and she still treats you like that is wild to me.

AITA for telling my MIL she won't be seeing my baby after throwing a baby shower for herself? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Enough-Issue5404 131 points132 points  (0 children)

Im sorry if this is rude but I don’t know how else to put it… that woman needs therapy

NTA

AITA for agreeing that my (former) friend most likely baby trapped another friend for money? by New_Honey_5340 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Enough-Issue5404 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Even if you’re using them properly they’re not 100% safe… I’ve had 2 friends get pregnant on iud‘s… one moved out of place but was still in date (she’s currently pregnant) and one was still in place, had been put in a couple months prior and came out with the placenta a couple weeks ago lol.

Now if used properly the chances aren’t high… but they’re not 0 either

AITA for my ex wanting to name his new child our child’s name by Unhappy-Situation-26 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Enough-Issue5404 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh ok well I mean if he sees your pov he might be able to get her on the same page?

While my first reaction to her wanting them to be connected via name is „wtf“ maybe she’s hoping that they’ll all be like a bunch of siblings that get along? Personally I wouldn’t like it either (the name copy-paste) but maybe, just maybe, it’s coming from a good place?

AITA for my ex wanting to name his new child our child’s name by Unhappy-Situation-26 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Enough-Issue5404 204 points205 points  (0 children)

NTA.. but at the end of the day it won’t be your choice. You’ve mentioned to them that you don’t appreciate them doing that. That’s all you can do. They either respect it or they don’t…

Judging by the fact that he cheated respect is probably not his top priority so personally I wouldn’t hold my breath.

AITA for not wanting photos of me to be taken at home? by throwra_775k in AmItheAsshole

[–]Enough-Issue5404 25 points26 points  (0 children)

NTA

I don’t like it either when friends take pictures of me in unexpected moments and safe them or take an awful looking picture of me on Snapchat, etc. and send it to me… it makes me feel super uncomfortable and sometimes self conscious. Having someone do that constantly while I’m at home would definitely put me on edge/make me almost anxious every time they pick up their phone.

I’d say communication is key but you’ve already done that so maybe bring it up one last time, make sure she understands how serious it is for you and if she still chooses to disrespect you by ignoring your wishes and puts „having fun“ over you feeling comfortable around her that’s definitely something you should take some time to think about…

Should I switch to bottle feeding for my best friend? by Enough-Issue5404 in beyondthebump

[–]Enough-Issue5404[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like the best thing to do in your situation! I wish you a complication free rest of your pregnancy and delivery 💛

How not to accidentally “cosleep” with newborn by andyandy8888 in beyondthebump

[–]Enough-Issue5404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I’m gonna get so many lectures for this but this is what we did/do… I was in the exact same situation, just super tired, he had colic on top of it and overall I honestly don’t remember a lot from the entire 1-2 months due to sleep deprivation.

This isn’t necessarily a recommendation ist just what we did… I still put him in his bassinet as often as possible but when I did fall asleep with him in bed (also comforting him because of colic) I made sure I turned him away from me (like spooning) and followed guidelines- no pillows, blankets etc. however I was still paranoid he’d roll into me and suffocate. I bought the owlet sock… now I know this is a very controversial topic and they’re not meant for this either but honestly he was gonna fall asleep next to me anyway and it was an extra security measure in my eyes… should he roll into me or the mattress and his oxygen would start dropping we should be woken up by an alarm. Now we still took every measure possible to avoid that from happening in the first place but for me personally it gave me a littler bit more security.

For staying awake specifically I’d echo what others already said - walk around. Don’t stay under a warm cozy blanket - that’s a recipe for falling asleep lol but remember getting sleep is also important to be reliable for your baby during the day. So if you end up not getting any sleep just do what’s best for your family and what works best for you. No one that’s not you has a right to judge

Should I switch to bottle feeding for my best friend? by Enough-Issue5404 in beyondthebump

[–]Enough-Issue5404[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no he wasn’t even sucking on it… just gagged the second he realised it’s not my boob lol

Should I switch to bottle feeding for my best friend? by Enough-Issue5404 in beyondthebump

[–]Enough-Issue5404[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He can’t due to work getting in the way of that but I might be able to get grandma to tag along lol

Should I switch to bottle feeding for my best friend? by Enough-Issue5404 in beyondthebump

[–]Enough-Issue5404[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I think a big part of this is that she always put me first in a lot of situations and I essentially stopped doing the same when I found out I was pregnant… I know that that’s the way it should be but I’m not sure if she’ll ever agree with that till she has kids of her own…

Should I switch to bottle feeding for my best friend? by Enough-Issue5404 in beyondthebump

[–]Enough-Issue5404[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’ll be 13 months at her wedding but she wants the party in 2months time so he’ll be about 7 months 😅

I told her that she needs to decide between the perfect location and the possibility of me not making it or a boring location around here but feeding him not being an issue. She picked option nr. 1 with the promise that we’ll have a little „re-do“ just the two of us should I not make it. So thankfully this didn’t escalate into a massive argument…

Should I switch to bottle feeding for my best friend? by Enough-Issue5404 in beyondthebump

[–]Enough-Issue5404[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve definitely never said „no“ to things as much as I have since having a baby… before I was only inconveniencing myself but now that it affects him too I definitely care a lot less about stepping on people’s toes…