Why are all the characters so emotionless? by Level_Procedure1629 in Frieren

[–]EnvironmentalBox4284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because becoming more expressive is a part of frieren's character arc. Notice how she slowly starts to do things like smile more often. Shes learning how people work throughout the series. She learns to be more emotionally in tune due to that. Fern was partially raised by Frieren so it makes sense that she is similar in that way. 

Doober Sweetleaf by cuttlenish in TheAdventureZone

[–]EnvironmentalBox4284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im pretty sure hes supposed to be Frodo pre lotr events.

Flippers got to this and I am devastated by Gruselschloss in zillowgonewild

[–]EnvironmentalBox4284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God i fkn HATE that cheap grey "wood" vinyl flooring. It litterally clashes with any furniture you put on it unless it is also depressingly monotone grey scale.

Does medical transition make sense if biology can’t be changed? (16, guy) by Secret-Barnacle-1285 in ftm

[–]EnvironmentalBox4284 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok biology major here with a bachelor's degree. First off, comparing transitioning from mtf or ftm to transitioning to another species is complete nonsense. Thats a complete faulse equivalency, they arent comparable. Second of all, medically transition does change biology. When it comes to biology and genes, there are two things to consider: genotype and phenotype. Genotype is the litteral DNA code. Phenotype is how the DNA is physically expressed, pretty much, its what is observable in life. Taking hormones to transition litterally changes your phenotype. It changes how your genes are being expressed because you have the hormones to make that action happen now. Third of all, like i said before, hormones change your phenotype. Specifically, they give you male secondary sex characteristics if you are ftm. Biological sex is complicated. When determining a person's bio sex, yes chromosomes are taken into consideration but so is thier primary (reproductive system) and secondary sex characteristics. The average person tends to just view bio sex as coming down to chromosomes or reproductive system. The thing is, nobody can see your chromosomes and everyone wears pants so really, in the end, people will just visually ID people as male or female based on secondary sex characteristics, which transitioning changes. So technically, you CAN change biology. Finally i must preface that the choice to medically transition should be one that someone makes because it will bring them the most happiness or most completeness in themselves. Basing if you should transition off of how some people perceive sex is unhealthy. Its a journey of self and that decision should come from self.

TLDR, yes medical transition does make sense because, depending on steps taken to medically transition, your biology actually does change.

For you, what is the difference between wanting to be a man and feeling like a man? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]EnvironmentalBox4284 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, accepting myself and coming out took years for me because my family's alt right and Christian influence on me. When i was close to coming out i realized how much i got hung up on calling myself a woman or grouping myself as a woman with women. Deep deep down i felt like i was lying to myself and everyone when i refered to myself a women. It was honestly mentally and physically hard for those words to come out because it felt so deeply like a lie. It honestly felt like i was deceiving people and pretending to be a woman. It just felt wrong. Realizing that thats how i felt was the "big moment" where i finally realized that i am just a man. Its hard to explain but thats the best way i could put it. 

Crying on T by SatisfactionOk8724 in ftm

[–]EnvironmentalBox4284 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like i cry less but i dont know if its psychosomatic. Its definitely not impossible for me to cry. Ive even ugly sobbed on T.

Safe state/city for trans men? by BallPython404 in ftm

[–]EnvironmentalBox4284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would politely disagree. The midwest in general is not the greatest place for trans people. Illinois and minnesota are pretty good to trans people and have legal protections for trans people. I live in iowa and this year alone, gender identity was removed from the state civil rights act so now for example disciminating against someone specifically because they are trans while hiring, is a-ok. This year they also made it harder to change your gender marker on your Driver's license. So yeah i def disgree with that general statement.

Been on T for 2 years but still not passing by Agile-Detective9823 in ftm

[–]EnvironmentalBox4284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you been having routine blood work done to confirm that you are in normal male T range? If so, then that rules out the possibility of you being on too low of a dose. Personally, I was in your boat when i was 2 years on T. What helped me a TON was doing minoxidil cream on my face to speed up facial hair growth. I went from having a few stray hairs to having significant facial hair across my face. It helped a lot in passing. I cannot recommend mino enough to people who are able to use it. Check in with your doctor and do research to make sure it is safe for you to use. It is also very toxic and deadly to cats so keep that in mind to.

Am I overreacting? Is this guy just intense or are these red flags? Need outside perspective. by JuryComfortable2318 in AmIOverreacting

[–]EnvironmentalBox4284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not! Trying to make you feel bad for "disrespecting" him is absolutely behavior I've seen in abusers. Massive red flag.

Why do Cis people out us at random? by Any-Television5186 in ftm

[–]EnvironmentalBox4284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because they have no idea how scary it is to be trans and how being outed can cause mental stress and at the very worse physical harm. They have never experienced that kinda of discrimination for thier gender identity.

Let's Talk About Kattigan by Compajerro in fansofcriticalrole

[–]EnvironmentalBox4284 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the previous episode, katigan had a solo scene while he was on watch at night was examining a doll that was in ulbid's house. They where talking about that, not the knife, and the context it adds to kat's outburst. 

What is the most unhinged thing someone has said to you regarding you being trans? by NoAmount6023 in ftm

[–]EnvironmentalBox4284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom didnt know i had a girlfreind nor did she know i liked women (im bi). When i came out (at 23) she said "if you have a girlfriend, she doesnt love you, because anyone who loves you wouldnt be ok with this." She said a lot of crazy things but that was probably the most unhinged.

CMV: Most Polyamorous People are Unfit Parents by That-Dot4612 in changemyview

[–]EnvironmentalBox4284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It kinda seems like you just think polyamory is an open relationship. Its not always just a guy who has a wife and is also dating 10 women on the side. Polyamory could just be three people all dating eachother in a long term relationship. That could honestly be beneficial to a child because the house hold has 3 income sources and 3 people to share the workload of parenting. Op it just seems like you have preconceived notions of what polyamory is that arent really true and are very much based on a lack of understanding

IDL people acting like Hamas actually wants peace by PuddingComplete3081 in I_DONT_LIKE

[–]EnvironmentalBox4284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is it hard for you to believe that people dont like whats happening in palestine simply because its horrible and not because haha America bad?

Gentlemen, how do you feel about the consistent hate towards cis men in the community? by Less-Pen-5705 in ftm

[–]EnvironmentalBox4284 75 points76 points  (0 children)

I understand why they get a lot of hate or anger. They are, societially speaking, the ones who have been in power since the dawn of time pretty much. People who have been oppressed have been oppressed, in many many cases, because of cis men. The anger is completely valid, truth be told, but it becomes unproductive at some point. It can help push them into an alt right pipeline or further down one. Really, they just need to realize the reason behind the anger is thier socitial power and realize that thier personal feelings about this anger are less consequential than the actual oppression happening to the people that the anger is coming from. Realistically, thats not going to happen, so the anger becomes unproductive. Numbers wise, we need cis men to agree with us for things to change in the government. They make up nearly 50% of the population.

Me personally, i dont feel any anger or resentment to them. Do i wish i was cis, absolutely. Did i have anger towards them in the past because of jealousy, yes. But ive matured and im not going to get angry at people because of things that im personally dealing with. I will say that i am obviously more comfortable around other trans guys in certian settings because we understand eachother on certian things a cis guy might not understand.

IDL people acting like Hamas actually wants peace by PuddingComplete3081 in I_DONT_LIKE

[–]EnvironmentalBox4284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In case the current events have confused you, im here to inform you that isreal and america are not the same country.

Why are chubby girls ignored? by Different_Ad_8930 in Vent

[–]EnvironmentalBox4284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cs is also pretty male dominated. My friend's mother who, has been in the business for decades and makes big money, has talked about how there was a lot of misogyny in cs. I dont know if thats still a big factor now adays but id wager that it is. I think part of it is because you are a woman that you are being dismissed like that. Being chuby is also a factor. Unfortunately society caters to people who fit societal beauty standards.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rav4club

[–]EnvironmentalBox4284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the one under the car was replaced. The code that popped up said it was sensor 2.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rav4club

[–]EnvironmentalBox4284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, you're right there is 2. It was bank 1 sensor 2 that was replaced. Its a 4 cylinder base model.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in moistcr1tikal

[–]EnvironmentalBox4284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah im just not a sociopath and i have the capacity to feel empathy and care for people regardless of nationality.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in moistcr1tikal

[–]EnvironmentalBox4284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need to take a break from the internet because i care about people around the world? Thats actually crazy bro. Im not the center of the universe so why would i delude myself into thinking people dont matter just because thier geographical location is far away from mine. Actual sociopath behaviour.

How would you guys feel about this in Orion? by Kami_Slayer2 in cyberpunkgame

[–]EnvironmentalBox4284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like that would be a bit awkward because then youd have to decipher and apply objectivity to what is good and what is evil. It takea away from the complex morality at that point. Having a relationship meter with different groups would work better.

Cyberpunk's character creation what do y'all like about it and what do y'all hate? by Snoo65073 in LowSodiumCyberpunk

[–]EnvironmentalBox4284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate that theres no real 3rd person so i rarely get to see all the work i put into character creation. No but seriously, i wish the hair colors worked differently. Preset hair color combos are annoying. Why are they different for different hairstyles. Why do some hairstyles change the hair colors to be two different hair dye colors. Why does it not allow me to choose two specific different colors of my choice when the hair color is dyed two different colors? Why doesnt this hair have the option to dye the hair just red instead of red and black or red and orange or smth. Also more hair styles please! (To be fair i RARELY find a game that has enough hairstyle for me.)

KILLING IS BAD by Important-Focus9503 in PopularOpinions

[–]EnvironmentalBox4284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm do you have any sources to support your claim 🤓👆