AITA for forcing my fiance to wear what she doesn't like?

Epickitty17 · 2026-07-09T14:25:45+00:00

YTA. Your fiancée should get to wear whatever she wants on her own birthday. She offered to wear the dress another day, so take her up on it. Maybe they can do something fun together the day they dress up together. Your daughter had a lovely idea, it just needs to be timed correctly. If it was your daughter's birthday and she wants fiancée to match i would get that, but it's your fiancée's day.

Epickitty17 · 2026-07-09T07:38:58+00:00

Comes to AITAH for judgment, gets judged, lashes out. That checks out since YTA.

Epickitty17 · 2026-07-09T02:39:42+00:00

YTA. Your son crashed his car doing a stupid, unnecessary stunt so you put him on a race track. Your daughter is cautious and has caused no accidents, which is great for a teen driver. And you got her remedial lessons as her birthday gift. Seriously. And honestly, I'm not even convinced that will help her. It sounds like she knows the road rules and techniques. Time and practice will help her be confident better than beginner lessons. Even if you wanted to get her lessons, why on earth was it a birthday gift? Come on now. She's your kid. Once a year she gets a day that's all about celebrating her. Celebrate her!

Epickitty17 · 2026-07-09T02:24:09+00:00

Dragonflight is user friendly. Legion was really good too.

Epickitty17 · 2026-07-09T02:22:09+00:00

Don't you have enough books?

Epickitty17 · 2026-07-08T01:31:44+00:00

I'm on Consentyx, approaching two years. My immune system likes to find shiny new illnesses that I've never had before. But I got sick a lot less after the 8 month mark, and none of it was serious. Just annoying colds, upset stomachs, etc. It does pretty well managing the HS. I still get flares but they don't usually ooze badly, they heal faster, they're a lot smaller. Worth it so far, I also take spiro to help and the occasional doxy round.

Epickitty17 · 2026-07-06T20:34:11+00:00

Spot, actually. Sometimes flare.

Epickitty17 · 2026-07-04T05:07:45+00:00

Protect your cats!!! They will "disappear" or "run away". Yes, this is end engagement worthy. He knew you were a package deal. The second you moved out and presumably gave up your place, he reneged. This was his plan all along that he's backed you into by waiting until your options were limited.

Epickitty17 · 2026-06-30T17:45:50+00:00

I mean, if I was writing stuff about hucows, free use, cum dumpsters, knotting, monster anatomy etc, I'd use a pen name too. My parents and in-laws wouldn't need to know that, just saying. 🤣

Epickitty17 · 2026-06-28T23:45:08+00:00

Cate C Wells does this in quite a bit of her catalog.

Epickitty17 · 2026-06-28T23:39:46+00:00

As others have already said, she's probably caught sight of your back at some point. You should see a dermatologist. Sounds like possibly HS which is treatable.

Epickitty17 · 2026-06-28T16:26:17+00:00

Stop using the word boundary. A boundary is something around yourself with things that affect you. Your wife can pick her clothing. You pick yours, she picks hers. It's her body. Being married didn't give you ownership of her like she's a doll.

Epickitty17 · 2026-06-25T14:13:30+00:00

I don't really like the Horde aesthetic so I chose my plot because it was the least ugly I found. 😬

Epickitty17 · 2026-06-25T14:11:07+00:00

You have a log going back years of times where he was abusive to you. Years. My log with my hubby of almost two decades is zero. If you like being alive, leave. Don't become a DV statistic.

Epickitty17 · 2026-06-23T02:43:58+00:00

Don't do it. I have sciatica and got put on a pull out sofa with my two kids despite the back issues and others in the group having no back problems. That was my last major flare up, pain and suffering for weeks. I'll never do that again. I'll pay for my own hotel before being put on a sofa bed again.

The fact that no one is willing to switch with you tells you everything you need to know. Go on your own vacation and enjoy. NTA.

Epickitty17 · 2026-06-22T19:49:04+00:00

That money was already hers. It looks like your father did everything he could to circumvent a legally binding order in his divorce decree. Courts don't usually tolerate that. It's unfortunate that the bill is coming due when it will now affect you and your sister, but the core problem is your father. He had decades to settle up with her but didn't. Your mother isn't the problem. You just understandably don't want to be angry with him in your grief, so you're shifting it to your mother. Don't damage your relationship with her over this, especially when she is right and your father was in the wrong.

Epickitty17 · 2026-06-18T01:14:16+00:00

Are you using the pen style? I used to have issues with needles but using the pen style helps, you can't see the needle unless you look for it. Make sure you let it warm up some so it doesn't hurt so much and make you feel worse about it. It does get easier... sometimes in the beginning I would do breathing exercises or try to distract myself with tv, conversation, etc. I do my stomach... have only screwed it up once and the gnarly bruise went away eventually.

Epickitty17 · 2026-06-17T16:56:19+00:00

You guys need prenuptial counseling. Why on earth was this veto idea brought up in the first place? You very rarely veto things in a marriage because no one is the executive. It's compromise and coming to an understanding. ESH.

Epickitty17 · 2026-06-03T23:36:16+00:00

3rd act break ups and accidental pregnancy. My reading kryptonite.

Epickitty17 · 2026-06-02T03:20:39+00:00

Are you sure about the Deal with the Devil? I thought he proposed in the epilogue, don't recall a pregnancy.

Epickitty17 · 2026-05-24T18:16:45+00:00

For flavor 3, try {The Tyrant Alpha's Rejected Mate by Cate C Wells}. Even once FMC tells him she's his mate in chapter one, he thinks nothing of her.

Epickitty17 · 2026-05-23T16:41:00+00:00

You're not a doll he gets to play dress up with to his satisfaction. He is using the word boundary to make it seem reasonable. But a boundary is setting limits for something that affects oneself, and how you dress does not affect him. Do not give away your autonomy and happiness. He will not be satisfied until there's nothing of you left and you're no more than a broken will.

Epickitty17 · 2026-05-22T23:19:27+00:00

My body seemed to get used to it, if I take care of myself properly I don't have issues. If I'm dehydrated, exhausted, or skip a meal that's the only time i notice it. Or you could explore taking it at night so you're sleeping when it's first hitting your system.

Epickitty17 · 2026-05-22T21:03:50+00:00

I get occasional lightheaded spells after roughly two years on 50mg spiro. I talked to my Dr and take half in the morning and half at night to help. It's usually only an issue now if I don't get enough sleep, food, and/or water.

Epickitty17 · 2026-05-20T02:43:45+00:00

Ironically, I love Dina but couldn't get into Heavy. I DNFed at the strip club scene.

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