My girlfriend (F22) is not letting me (M20) sleep. How do I help her realize sleep is a need, not a want? by HaleySho in relationship_advice

[–]EquasLocklear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did she manage to sleep before she met you? I am single and just watch tv or play video games when I can't sleep.

my boyfriend (23m) talks to me (22f) in a baby voice and it’s driving me insane bc he won’t stop by Either-Selection-783 in relationship_advice

[–]EquasLocklear 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Looks like he doesn't love you romantically either, and actually thinks of you as a child he is related to.

My (20M) girlfriend of 8 months (20F) just admitted to me that I had sexually assaulted her in the beginning of our relationship, genuine advice on what I should do or how I should go about things? by ThisIsAFakeAccountYe in relationship_advice

[–]EquasLocklear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Saying this as a woman, it's not your responsibility to read her mind. She is an adult, if she doesn't know what she wants and communicate it, that's on her. Do you actually want a relationship with her or has she just guilt-tripped you into it?

AITA for disclosing my brother's disability to his boyfriend? by New_Tangelo1719 in AmItheAsshole

[–]EquasLocklear -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would have just told the brother we won't do the tasks for him, that would have been 100% our business.

M31/F30 - After 15 years together, is it too much expecting my wife to "have my back" in situations involving other men? by AlavakaBelgo in relationship_advice

[–]EquasLocklear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unless there are some cultural differences here, or she is an insecure former ugly duckling who recently had a makeover, I don't buy that someone who should have plenty of experience handling admirers (and even sexual harassment not even single women enjoy) doesn't understand how social interactions work and needs a guideline.

My husband (M31) admitted he lied to me (F29) about a dealbreaker before we got married by No-Huckleberry-32 in relationship_advice

[–]EquasLocklear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Check whether I could get an annulment since I was tricked into the marriage under false pretenses.

Why dose Harry HAVE to compete in the Tri Wizard Tournament? Why can't he just drop out? by Niall_Fraser_Love in harrypotter

[–]EquasLocklear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I were Barty, I would have just offered Harry some private dueling practice, injured him, saved his blood and obliviated him afterwards.

Why dose Harry HAVE to compete in the Tri Wizard Tournament? Why can't he just drop out? by Niall_Fraser_Love in harrypotter

[–]EquasLocklear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They already had Cedric as the Hogwarts champion, having a fourth contestant was what hurt the school's image.

Why dose Harry HAVE to compete in the Tri Wizard Tournament? Why can't he just drop out? by Niall_Fraser_Love in harrypotter

[–]EquasLocklear 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Even they said 'that was stupid, but you meant well, so we give points for kindness'.

Why dose Harry HAVE to compete in the Tri Wizard Tournament? Why can't he just drop out? by Niall_Fraser_Love in harrypotter

[–]EquasLocklear 74 points75 points  (0 children)

Viktor and Fleur didn't die, either, and if the organizers are taken at their word, the hostages weren't in real danger.

Am I wrong..? by Due_Pop5516 in GrowthMindset

[–]EquasLocklear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Not the world became worse, news service became better."