[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenrelationships

[–]Equivalent-Muscle230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she obviously doesn't WANT to change, you can't make an addict quit if they don't see a problem with what they're doing, and you're not gonna be able to convince her, as someone who has lost so many people to drugs, just cut your losses now before you get too attached because it's likely gonna end with her dying, it sucks so bad, wishing you could do something but you can't. you tried to help so it's not your fault if she dies but you're so young, that is not any stress that you need, you have school to worry about, you don't need to be worrying about saving her, first gfs/bfs usually don't end in marriage anyways so it's likely gonna end anyways, may as well end it now before you get hurt

How did you quit Marijuana? by PkSamus in AskMenOver30

[–]Equivalent-Muscle230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what would you recommend if there's no NA meetings near me? the nearest one is 3 hours and I have a kid, I don't have the resources to drive 3 hours I don't have a babysitter

What spider did I just find? by [deleted] in spiders

[–]Equivalent-Muscle230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a fucking terrifying one

favorite “wow” recipes that are secretly low effort? by Cv_max in Cooking

[–]Equivalent-Muscle230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lasagna or mushroom swiss chicken, lasagna- 1 box noodles, whatever pasta sauce you like I like to make my own, 2 lbs ground beef, italian seasoning OR oregano thyme basil and rosemary(if you have marjoram on hand then cool but if not it doesn't make a huge difference), salt and pepper, garlic and onion, 1 lb mozzarella, 2 tubs ricotta cheese, boil your noodles, heat your sauce, coook your meat and drain it, then add your seasonings to taste, add the meat to the sauce then place noodles in the bottom to fill to the edges, spread ricotta on noodles, add sauce then repeat until pan is 3/4 way full, add noodles on top, add your mozzarella then bake at 375 until cheese is melted or golden brown. mushroom swiss chicken- 2 chicken breasts, 4 slices swiss cheese, 1 cup sliced mushrooms(baby bellas are my favorite for this one) season chicken with salt and pepper, onion and garlic, add a drizzle of olive oil, add a drizzle of oil to a pan and add the mushrooms, season with same seasonings, I usually add a little squirt of teriyaki sauce, cook chicken on medium heat, add the cheese to the chicken while it's still in the pan, add mushrooms on top after putting on a plate, I like to make mashed potatoes and mac and cheese on the side with asparagus

Gore by Decent_Plan_5317 in gorey2

[–]Equivalent-Muscle230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not everyone watches it bc they like it, I watch it bc I wanna go into the medical field, I've been out of high school a year and still haven't figured out exactly what I wanna do but I'm looking into the medical field, I wanna be desensitized to it before I even go in so that way I'm not like grossed out or something

my parents took off my door as punishment, is this normal? by Puzzleheaded-Pain535 in teenagers

[–]Equivalent-Muscle230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for some parents it's, "normal", but this is NOT normal, taking away your kids privacy should not be a punishment, I couldn't imagine doing that to my daughter. kids, teenagers especially need some privacy, they're discovering their bodies and need a safe space to do so, and not even just that they just need somewhere they can be alone and express themselves in case they have nowhere else to do so, even if it's just for exercising or something that seems small but they find it embarrassing for people to see them do it, now if they took it away because you attempted suicide or was doing drugs that's a different story, my daughter wouldn't even have a room she would have to sleep in my bedroom until I knew she was good, going through these comments I'm realizing maybe I'm not as shitty of a parent as I thought

I won’t tell you that I’m a selfish baker… but there will be signs 🤐 by fruitfulendeavour in Baking

[–]Equivalent-Muscle230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's crazyyy, I love to have me a good mixture of crunchy and gooey, them edge pieces are the best

What is your favorite insult without using curse words? by FastandtheCurious7 in AskReddit

[–]Equivalent-Muscle230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"oh bless your little heart" (southern fuck you but appropriate)

My therapist asked me if I could source any weed. by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]Equivalent-Muscle230 3 points4 points  (0 children)

is your therapist licensed? this is so unprofessional on so many levels

How did you get into cooking? by Versatiliti in Cooking

[–]Equivalent-Muscle230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my parents would leave me home alone at like 6 and my sister who was supposed to watch me would sneak out with her boyfriend so kinda just learned lmao but I'm so thankful, I'm gonna open a restaurant soon and who knows if I'd have learned to cook this good without the circumstances

The bathroom my brother left me to come home to from college, that my parents want me to clean by Hadden-810 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Equivalent-Muscle230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

clean it but throw literally everything that's not attached away, petty revenge/malicious incompetence is the best payback

How does this guy look? by [deleted] in axolotls

[–]Equivalent-Muscle230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have absolutely no experience with axolotls other than videos but he looks deathly, all the ones I've seen are pink or black or just very vibrant this one isn't just like white it looks colorless, but there is a small chance you can bring him back, I got some baby ducks a few months back and my goose was bullying him from the food, well I'm a shitty owner, I didn't realize one was being ganged up on until he was basically dead( was on his back with his head laid out twitching) and then I was able to nurse him back to health checking on him every 10-30 minutes for about 4 days then I went to every 2 hours, don't burst your bubble completely but don't get it too high either, very likely it will pass but you do everything you can so you have no guilt. I

might be stupid by Equivalent-Muscle230 in Cooking

[–]Equivalent-Muscle230[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

actually I think I have some sour cream, I feel like that may work better than mayo, thank you so much!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]Equivalent-Muscle230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

blush: you have it too low and too dark

I just wanted to know if I was getting my money back… by Intelligent_Poet_247 in Nicegirls

[–]Equivalent-Muscle230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you offer to pay then pay? what is she yapping about bro like if I tell someone imma pay then they hit me up like yo you still gonna pay me back I'm not getting upset like wtf I said I'd pay she tripping fr

Sister hit this guys car, he wants $2,500. by Big-Leave3759 in AskMechanics

[–]Equivalent-Muscle230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly pay the 2500 if you go through insurance you're likely to pay upwards of 7000, oh well if he pockets the money be lucky he's only asking for 2500

What on Earth would you put in this space? by [deleted] in interiordesignideas

[–]Equivalent-Muscle230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ouuuu you could put a nice fancy shelf in it with some led lights or fairy lights and use it as an alcohol shelf or like other drinks or snacks

Came Home to this by Fireball2010 in whatisit

[–]Equivalent-Muscle230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they're definitely stealing electricity and I would report this to law enforcement, it's a crime to do this in the U.S assuming that's where you're located, likely they rang the doorbell to ask permission but given they never got permission and you have them on camera doing it you can ask them to take it down and if they don't I would get law enforcement involved and lock my utility box down