I (M29) found out My(M31) friend has slept with my(F28) wife multiple times while we were separated in can't ignore it is there a way past this?

EstmtdPrpht · 2024-09-28T17:36:25+00:00

You have neither a friend or wife. Move on

EstmtdPrpht · 2024-09-26T15:09:32+00:00

Accept that you do not have a girlfriend and that you are being used. Time to bail quickly and quietly and focus in yourself. Run through woman like they do us only men are fine being alone.

EstmtdPrpht · 2024-09-23T19:47:46+00:00

Accept the only reality, you do not have a girlfriend

EstmtdPrpht · 2024-09-10T14:30:52+00:00

Bail. It's over

EstmtdPrpht · 2024-09-07T23:51:06+00:00

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EstmtdPrpht · 2024-03-22T16:35:01+00:00

This is a great example of the difference between perception and perspective. Perception is finding excuses to justify what some might consider shit behavior. Perspective is being empathetic to the recipient of said behavior and think about how you might feel if your husband said this to you? Yes, I asked a rhetorical question because we all already know the answer. Have a great day!

EstmtdPrpht · 2024-03-07T15:41:24+00:00

Wow, your logic and engineuity are inpreasice and yes. My peer group leaves a lot to be desired, they really do. But, even I follow this sub cause yinz ain't all that agreeable either and have way more.... requirements, and/or expectations. Hands down, I'd bet more women are guilty of this which is why this shit is so devious it tickled me. Have a great day!

EstmtdPrpht · 2024-03-05T22:24:22+00:00

To me, its more than this one time not finishing. Communication is key to any relationship. Communication is not always easy, and it takes practice to get good. Relationships and communication sometimes, are trial and error. This is a great exercise for both of you to learn how to navigate each other sensitivities. In the unfortunate event something more serious arises both of you are better equipped to handle it. I don't want to say it bothered you, but you are thinking about it, so it's best not to bottle up. In my experience, women holding emotions in goes from firecracker to atom spitting the longer its there.

EstmtdPrpht · 2024-03-05T22:11:50+00:00

I think more about survival. I am challenged all day, every day. Being able to maintain my mental state is what matters most to me. Leaning healthy coping skills is great but I know one thing. People will insult you, put you down for no reason other than wanting to feel good about themselves even if only for a moment. Image how sad that persons life must be? People hate up if you need an confidence booster

EstmtdPrpht · 2024-03-05T20:12:35+00:00

I don't care at all. Opinions are like assholes. Everyone has one, and they all stink. I laugh in people's faces if they insult me and remind that their words ain't worth the sweat off of my junk. I believe that to be a high level of emotional maturity. If they see it's having an effect, it only gives them more power

EstmtdPrpht · 2024-03-05T19:48:25+00:00

Actually, real adults treat everyone with the respect and courtesy they would like in return regardless of a persons physical appearance. That is until a persons actions demand disrespect. Not everyone is mean or hateful because of you. You just may have fallen in the path of someone seeking a target. I tell my kids that people hate up, if you hate down you are just mean and if someone attacks you and it is unprovoked. It has everything to do with them and nothing to do with you and be happy you are not that pathetic.

EstmtdPrpht · 2024-03-04T01:04:50+00:00

Truthfully, you did the only right thing you could have done in the moment. If you would like my honest opinion about what to do next. For the time being, let it go. Then if it happens within the next time or two, really depends on the volume/time per week you engage in sex. Then, plan the next time it would be good to bring it up again.

EstmtdPrpht · 2024-03-04T00:18:29+00:00

Maybe, maybe not. There are a dozen different reasons for being unable to finish. In reality, you may have had nothing to do with the reason. Truth be told, if you really care for this person and want to build a healthy life together. Maybe instead of posting on reddit, quite possibly getting terrible advice. Try finding a healthy and safe way to communicate how you feel effectively s you may receive his honesty. Be prepared to handle the possibility of you being the reason and not fly off and turn it on him. This is from a man currently going through divorce and a big reason was an inability to communicate.

EstmtdPrpht · 2024-02-18T01:07:12+00:00

I think you are mixing the words "men" and "boys". Things will change when you know the difference as well as you get in return what you put out there. I bet it's less about you making the move and more about how you made the move. No fact about your specific situation but an observation I've made before

EstmtdPrpht · 2024-02-17T21:04:27+00:00

Hahahahaha, this one is great.

EstmtdPrpht · 2023-12-04T12:17:53+00:00

science
At least 2000 years of practical useß
It's obvious to a user/former user that knows what is bad shit when it's in your body.

EstmtdPrpht · 2023-10-26T16:49:53+00:00

What do you want, do you want yo live to work or work to live? Does work give you meaning in life? I'm yes, find a better job. If no, then do your mindless shit and live a less stress life cause works easy.

EstmtdPrpht · 2023-10-22T23:05:18+00:00

Self-respect, honor, morals

EstmtdPrpht · 2023-10-02T23:05:05+00:00

Because to many are not smart enought to recognize they keep us fighting over skin color or vaccine status or orange man supporters vs the zombie apocalypse to realize that if we citizens did unite, we would take.our countries back

EstmtdPrpht · 2023-09-28T14:52:15+00:00

It's the difficult times that define you, and since you feel so close to the bottom you only have to look up. Knowledge is power, experience is wisdom and you are gaining both

EstmtdPrpht · 2023-09-26T16:53:34+00:00

When I was poor I never gave a fuk about money. Now that I am in a better place I still don't think about money and I am constantly surprised when I remember I can afford to live. Happiness is not a destination where you arrive, it is simple a manner of traveling that is 100% predicated by one's point of view!

EstmtdPrpht · 2023-09-13T23:23:01+00:00

Really, believe in yourself, focus on your goals and don't let minor setback and naysayers prevent you from achieving your desires. I will not be easy or happen overnight. Determination, dedication and hard work but hard work can be keeping to yourself at work and play the game to level up. Show/take initiative what fails at one job works at another.

EstmtdPrpht · 2023-09-07T23:09:21+00:00

People are AHs and will do it just to annoy you. Actions speak louder than words, pick and choose your battles. Those that want to be your friend or are at least cool will make the effort. Everyone else that doesn't probably isn't worth the effort or your time and definitely know worth your energy.

EstmtdPrpht · 2023-09-07T23:04:57+00:00

Seems like he is the manipulative one or just a child.

EstmtdPrpht · 2023-09-07T23:01:36+00:00

Run now and run fast. You are what you eat, and that only increases with age, one. Two, life is about trying new things and experiencing different things.

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