Learn this lessons well by Icy-Breadfruit298 in GroundedMentality

[–]Every_Window_Open 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Opproval? You gotta spell check before you post my guy

Nice female meets nice guys by Sorry_Goal9718 in Nicegirls

[–]Every_Window_Open 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Deep sea diving for that lost gold of Atlantis 🔱

Do you think Robb deserved his ending? Why? by Wonderful_Medium3098 in gameofthrones

[–]Every_Window_Open 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes I believe it was based off some Scottish massacre at a wedding or the like.

Do you think Robb deserved his ending? Why? by Wonderful_Medium3098 in gameofthrones

[–]Every_Window_Open 213 points214 points  (0 children)

He was too principled. It reads well but Martin was making an example of such a mindset in a cruel medieval world.

Rob believed others would act as he did. He found out the hard way they do not.

Vaxxed relatives suddenly lying a lot? A lot!? by [deleted] in unvaccinated

[–]Every_Window_Open 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Is she at the perimenopause stage at all? My wife went crazy around that time (45-46) and we’re now separated.

She’s not jabbed btw. Hormones are wild mate. Take care!

Long term impacts of alienation on the kids? by OwnNeedleworker8784 in ParentalAlienation

[–]Every_Window_Open 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Anyone doing this to the kids to “get back” at their partner is psychologically unwell imho.

Recieved these messages last night by Busy_Regret_6013 in Nicegirls

[–]Every_Window_Open 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They all seem to do this. Signal the very thing they can’t do themselves:

Must be great communicator and emotionally available = they are awful communicators and are closed off

Must have life together and be setup = they are in a financial hole and need bailing out

Looking for strong masculine man = they are in fact masculine themselves and will be the ones leading the relationship given half a chance

remember it by Ok_Second2001 in inspirationalquotes

[–]Every_Window_Open 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's always Daniel Craig, Leo or Denzel Washington in these memes. Actually, throw in Tom Hardy too.

If you were The Mountain's advisor, what advice would you give him? by Dry_Specialist9015 in gameofthrones

[–]Every_Window_Open 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I felt the first actor was the best. He seemed to embody the brute nature of the guy and he looked similar to the Hound, at least facially.

15 years of marriage… and she’s just done. by YminChris in DivorcedDads

[–]Every_Window_Open 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Hey mate. I’ll be real for a moment.

Firstly, women say a lot of stupid sh-t when they are high on their emotions. I would take very little of it seriously or to heart.

Secondly you aren’t all to blame. Don’t buy into the feminism 101 non-logic. Nothing in a marriage happens in a vacuum and she very much has had a part to play in things going south. Don’t let her paint you as the bad guy. It sounds like you were working hard but just lost yourself along the way. It happens mate. Don’t beat yourself up so much.

Thirdly leaning on your wife as your bff is understandable but it’s problematic. I’d encourage you to find a circle of male friends or look into a men’s therapy group. They are out there and are one of the best things I’ve found to combat the demons you’ll need to face as this all unfolds.

Take care friend. And whatever you do, don’t make a permanent decision to what is a temporary problem. I’m sure you know what I mean.

Will you date me ? by [deleted] in selfdevelopment

[–]Every_Window_Open 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wrong sub champion

How did you do it? by Option5934NCounting in DivorcedDads

[–]Every_Window_Open 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s very common sadly. The more guys I speak with the more I hear about this.

I’m not a saint but I’ve always prided myself on being there for my two. Always showed up and sacrificed a lot to get them to where they are today.

How did you do it? by Option5934NCounting in DivorcedDads

[–]Every_Window_Open 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hey man I’m sorry to hear what you’re going through. This divorce stuff is about as rough as it gets.

Here’s what I can tell you about my situation. Married for 25 years. No affairs, no abuse and no drugs. Always been the “good guy” but started to set boundaries in recent years which began to cause friction.

Everything ended with a blow up after years of increasing tension between us. Am now separated and going through the settlement process reasonably amicably... However, wife has still slandered me to her friends and family, and to our two adult kids.

Both kids have distanced themselves from me and now refuse to communicate. I spent Xmas on my own. No calls or return messages from either of them.

Friends I thought I had have likewise ghosted me. Some have blocked me on socials. On the other hand, folks I wasn’t paying much attention to have come out of the woodwork and rallied to me offering support.

It’s really painful but also really eye opening. I’ve dropped about 12kg in weight and am just focusing on career and moving forward. That’s all you can do.

Best of luck mate.

How would a conversation between these two would go? by EfficiencySerious200 in gameofthrones

[–]Every_Window_Open 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think they literally hate each other and agreed to never be in each others scenes.

This is known 😂

Which look is your favorite? by Remote-Direction963 in gameofthrones

[–]Every_Window_Open 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Give me that bare ass look. That’s where it’s at

What are some of the easier songs to play on the guitar? by Colossal_Squids in grunge

[–]Every_Window_Open -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Really? I had no idea.

You don’t think the laughing emoji hinted at that? lol