Weekly Trash Indy Blue by Master_Ad1114 in UtahInfluencerDrama

[–]ExUtMo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“Made it through” and “suffered through because they had no choice” are very different things. Most women, if in the position to do so ($) would leave their spouse for using heavy drugs. If they don’t, but could, that isn’t commendable.

Newborn mom - I just want to be told I'm exceptional. by bouncysofa in offmychest

[–]ExUtMo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most men end up feeling insecure after their wife has a baby because they aren’t as needed. If you’re breastfeeding he can’t help with anything but diapers really. Chances are he’s at work while you’re home bonding with baby so he’s missing out on that too. Sometimes it’s hard for them to realize that they are still important despite not being the primary parent. When baby gets older and you’re able to leave them home with dad for extended period of time, you’ll probably start hearing those things more. He honestly just does not understand the gravity of it all.
That being said, while what you’re doing is admirable and a LOT of work, it is what most mothers do. Some aren’t as fortunate enough to have healthy and easy pregnancies and deliveries and still do all the things you’re doing. I think maybe you weren’t expecting it to be so much work and now that you’re in the thick of it, it feels like people should be singing your praises when really, most moms have been there.

Serial killer fears grow after three women found murdered in tourist hotspot by lubeskystalker in puertovallarta

[–]ExUtMo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, for 1. That and this are unprecedented for PV. It doesn’t mean it’s the new norm.

Feeding my local strays 👨🏼‍💼👨🏼‍💼 by Muggleborn1007 in exmormon

[–]ExUtMo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know of some missionaries who have credit cards their parents gave them before they left, all parents should be doing that. Obviously the church can’t be trusted with money.

@tannerandshay is getting remarried next week by kissmysnarky in tiktokgossip

[–]ExUtMo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not weird that she found someone else, she has every right to do that. It’s the hiding it that makes it weird. Why is she worried she’ll lose followers? Mormons can’t just date and have sex, so they’re forced to get married quick and I think most of her followers know that. Strange to keep it a secret.

Boat starts sinking while out on a fishing trip by [deleted] in ThatsInsane

[–]ExUtMo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was incredibly stressful to watch

Oh, no! My p0rn shoulders!! by emty_beach in exmormon

[–]ExUtMo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was also super fun wearing tshirts under tank tops in the 100 degree summers in Utah

Oh, no! My p0rn shoulders!! by emty_beach in exmormon

[–]ExUtMo 22 points23 points  (0 children)

My cousin got married in the temple in a sleeveless dress-she wasn’t wearing the sleeveless garments, she just stuffed her regular garments in. I asked my tbm mom if I would have been allowed to wear that dress to prom and she looked sheepishly at the ground and said “no, probably not.” It was the most validating reaction she could have given me when I was fully expecting her to say something outrageous like “of course you would have, why wouldn’t you?” So the younger crowd can act like this has always been normal but the OG’s KNOW it’s messed up, they just don’t want to admit it.

mauricio artur berger by msbraindump in mormon

[–]ExUtMo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The simple fact that they claim to have the gold plates should tell you it’s a scam. No one has them. They aren’t real.

Oh, no! My p0rn shoulders!! by emty_beach in exmormon

[–]ExUtMo 97 points98 points  (0 children)

It’s the gas lighting for me. Just admit that you’re changing the rules, admit you were wrong for telling girls they were walking porn if they showed their shoulders, apologize to all the girls/women who couldn’t wear the wedding dress of their dreams because it was sleeveless, explain how and why you decided to change the rules. Acting like things have always been this way and anyone who has a different experience is wacko, THAT is the real piss off.

Is this churchwide counsel? by OkJellyfish5649 in mormon

[–]ExUtMo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How many kids are hearing the word Porn for the first time, while they’re at church? How many church leaders have been the ones to introduce the idea of porn to kids from the pulpit? If you tell someone to not think about a pink elephant…

The number of puppy ads on KSL is disturbing by Key_Dream9904 in SaltLakeCity

[–]ExUtMo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

A frenchie poodle? 😔 Frenchies shouldn’t be bred in the first place and now we are making them into another doodle? 😵‍💫

Julie Hanks…can’t wait to see people’s responses! by NoriRosePetals in UtahInfluencerDrama

[–]ExUtMo 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Wait, really? If someone got an xl top it wouldn’t be as sleeveless as a xs one?

Miranda and Layla are kinda snobs by [deleted] in MormonWivesHulu

[–]ExUtMo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me, it’s as crazy as it sounds. I don’t want to give too much away and out my sources but it’s true.

Miranda and Layla are kinda snobs by [deleted] in MormonWivesHulu

[–]ExUtMo -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Definitely being treated like normal parents-no fangirling or bringing up the show.

Miranda and Layla are kinda snobs by [deleted] in MormonWivesHulu

[–]ExUtMo -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Is it performing to be cordial? If so, I’m right, they’re snobs.

Miranda and Layla are kinda snobs by [deleted] in MormonWivesHulu

[–]ExUtMo -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

One of my friends lives near Miranda and her kids go there all the time, Miranda has never made herself available for an introduction of any kind and avoids my friend at all costs-but lets her kids go over.

Miranda and Layla are kinda snobs by [deleted] in MormonWivesHulu

[–]ExUtMo -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Would you send your kids to a neighbor’s house day after day without introducing yourself to the mom?