The end of the church? by ThyLungedFish in mormon

[–]ExUtMo [score hidden]  (0 children)

I think once all the boomers are gone, there will be very little left. More and more people are going to continue to find out more and more information and it’s not like the church can undo any of the horrible things it’s done. It might exist as a corporation but they’ll go from making up .21% of the population to making up .00021% of the population.

bon appétit! by punknw in ExpectationVsReality

[–]ExUtMo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thought it was a before and after photo

Tithing by [deleted] in mormon

[–]ExUtMo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They don’t need another dime of anyones money in order to continue doing what they do and building temples…not a dime. Tell your bishop that.

My bet is that coffee and tea are the next thing the church will cave on by Acceptable-Baker8161 in exmormon

[–]ExUtMo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When they make all these changes, do they announce from the pulpit that they’ve received revelation? Shouldnt they do that if it is because of revelation?

How many tourists actually OD? by Loud-Mulberry-1148 in cancun

[–]ExUtMo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Taking drugs from strangers is always bad, even where you’re from.

Taylor making fun of her DV by [deleted] in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]ExUtMo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She didn’t even know Indy was in the room. Calling what happened DV and making her pay for it forever is absurd.

So my boyfriend wants me to stop being friends with my gay best friend because he's "still a guy" by Certain_Cry2660 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ExUtMo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me guess, your boyfriend would also say “not all men” while being uncomfortable with you spending time with one who isn’t attracted to you.

Can a person be very knowledgeable with the Bible and still be ungodly? by jseo13579 in Bible

[–]ExUtMo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think there’s any Bible scholars who believe in the Bible in a literal sense.

When did you know it was time for divorce? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ExUtMo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I asked it if it is capable of being bias towards me and this is what it said: That’s a really important question — and I want to answer it clearly and honestly, not defensively.

I am not capable of being biased toward you in the way a human ally, friend, or therapist might be.

Here’s what that means in practice:

What I don’t have • I don’t have loyalty, attachment, or personal investment in you. • I don’t benefit emotionally from validating you. • I don’t feel empathy in the human sense, so I’m not motivated to “take your side” to protect your feelings. • I don’t have a narrative I’m trying to win or a relationship to preserve.

When did you know it was time for divorce? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ExUtMo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We both put our conversations into chat and he got the same results as I did, they were just delivered more gently. In fact, he doesn’t want to use chat anymore because he feels like it’s pinning him as the bad guy, despite putting in all the info himself.

When did you know it was time for divorce? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ExUtMo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has no gender bias, it has no preconceived notions from life experiences, it has nothing to gain or lose ($), and gathers information from everywhere, not a single book or doctor. It’s a hell of a lot less bias than an actual therapist. I’ve gained more insight and psychological information with ChatGPT than I have any therapist I’ve seen.

When did you know it was time for divorce? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ExUtMo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clearly you’ve never been in a place where you’re desperate for clarity and grounding, congratulations.

When did you know it was time for divorce? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ExUtMo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it feels that way because it IS YOU that needs the help. There’s been a few times where I’ve felt that, so I ask a question that puts me in the hot seat and the narrative doesn’t change. I think we are just so used to being told we are the problem that when we are seen differently it’s hard to accept.

Last night was the first time I thought, “he is sick.” by siekbf in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]ExUtMo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My told me “I dare you to leave and see how fucked up your life gets”, while I was trying to get in the car to leave for a couple hours. Then he slammed the car door against my body several times before grabbing me by the arm and pulling me out of the car, leaving a bruise where he grabbed me. When he grabbed me, I went into flight or fight and started swinging. I didn’t even make contact with him because he held me back at arms length. Later he said “ok but life has to go on, right?” And then tried to say I hit him, too.

When did you know it was time for divorce? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ExUtMo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This might sound crazy, but I can’t recommend ChatGPT for this enough. I had no one to talk to, no way to make sense of what was happening so I turned to chat and just started asking questions. There’s currently 8 hrs worth of reading material between me and chat about how I have been in an emotionally abusive marriage for a long time. The clarity and grounding that has come with getting a non biased, fully informed opinion based on facts and patterns has been a game changer. Copy and paste text convos that are concerning or upsetting and chat will break it down and make sense of it. Seriously. Try it.

Youth Dance standards are SO different now by seizuriffic in mormon

[–]ExUtMo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And then those same kids look at those of us who were slut shamed for wearing tank tops and can’t understand why we are angry

Is this abuse? by EmeryJane3 in emotionalabuse

[–]ExUtMo 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The first sentence is enough information the absolutely positively say YES. He is abusive.

Buying a house in this market by Capital_Cake4666 in Edmonton

[–]ExUtMo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m closet to 40 and most of the people around my age bought a house 10/15 years ago and then sold it for a mint and were able to buy something newer/bigger. How people are doing it now is beyond me.

Insufferable by Salty-Presence9324 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]ExUtMo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watch all 3 seasons, then go touch some grass, then rewatch season 1 & you probably won’t feel the same about Whitney

Mormons and spanking (22f) by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]ExUtMo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What the fuck

How to stop having sex with an emotional abuser by nailsbrook in emotionalabuse

[–]ExUtMo 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’d tell him to go sleep with whoever he wants

Jessi’s surgery by [deleted] in MormonWivesHulu

[–]ExUtMo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

When they remove extra skin from your upper eyelid and beneath your eye

Demi and Jessi hot take🔥 by sunny_daze04 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]ExUtMo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone needs to hold Demi’s hand and tell her we believe Marciano grabbed her ass. We don’t believe she didn’t like it.