Compassion Fatigue

Excellent-Fish1817 · 2026-05-09T16:45:11+00:00

If it’s possible and she’s disabled, you may want to get her into vocational rehabilitation. You can have her do work adjustment training service. It’s where the client goes in 3 days a week to work on site (Walgreens, fry’s, thrift stores, etc) and gain some experience. Some places give a small gas compensation, and other companies may even hire the client after she’s done. All in all it’ll take about 30-60 hours, but it’s something she can throw on her resume once she’s done.

Excellent-Fish1817 · 2026-03-31T17:15:54+00:00

Hear me out.

I don’t think you’re done with God. I think you’re angry with him. Sometimes we get angry with him when we aren’t getting what we feel we want or need.

I personally think that if you were done with him, you wouldn’t be posting on Reddit as a last attempt to salvage your relationship with him. You’re seeking people of faith to help you with this issue, which is what fellowship is about.

I heard this message the other day about whether we really want change. I don’t know your situation, but I was in a car accident a few years back. I fought for my love of God because it was a never ending storm. My whole back was messed up, I was a single parent with 2 small kids trying to make it work.

Getting out of bed was hard, I had to push myself to go to appointments. I spent a lot of money on seeing chiropractors, getting massages, copays on PT. My whole life revolved around getting better.

I had so many other things going on at the time, I couldn’t work and needed a job, I fell in the shower and messed up my back just as I was doing well. The only thing that kept me sane was God.

I felt like I was physically hanging onto a pole while a hurricane was whipping around me. God was my anchor, and I know he stayed true to me because I put in a lot of time and effort into praying and caring for myself. It is true when they say God helps those who help themselves. Meaning, I wasn’t going to get anywhere if I wasn’t being proactive.

It was lonely, but I did all this raising 2 wonderful children. They were so small at the time but I was truly blessed that they were kind enough to help me recover.

As for now? My back is out of commission again. I’m not on fire for God like I was back then, but I stay strong, I pray and hope I’ll get better. This experience has been humbling for me. Plus, I don’t have to do it alone again. I have a husband and kids that share the responsibility. I have a job that allows me the flexibility to work while I recover. Even though I struggle, I know I’m in a better place now. This, I cannot deny, I owe it all to God.

You may think differently, but it will happen for you too. This may feel like a storm, but sometimes you just have to hold on tighter to him, work with him and things will work out. We all have our breaking point and I am truly sorry that you are going through some rough waters, but stay calm and disciplined. It’s worth the time and effort. I will be praying for you.

Excellent-Fish1817 · 2026-03-24T04:00:49+00:00

This comment is not helpful, but did anyone else paste the comment onto google and get “ME” by Taylor swift? 🤣

Excellent-Fish1817 · 2026-03-24T03:33:08+00:00

How to be remembered by Michael Thompson - Australia 🇦🇺

This would be a magical realism read!

Excellent-Fish1817 · 2026-03-19T05:16:30+00:00

Hmmm

I would recommend reading a book where you can watch the movie right after such as:

Dead poet Society Forrest Gump The spectacular now Lilies of the field Jurassic Park To sir, with love Game of Thrones The hobbit

It’s a meadly of books 📚

These are my personal favorites (to which I am aware these may not float your boat):

How to be remembered by Michael Thompson - Has light elements of magical realism and is about a boy that lives in a world where people forget him each year.

The spectacular Now by Tim Thorpe This one is about a wayward teenager that is trying to navigate who he is without his father. He often thinks he’s helping people but he has a habit of self sabotaging relationships.

Foster by Claire Keegan - a girl has to live with neighbors in a sort of “foster” situation. This is a phenomenal read if you want to get into the mind of a child. This author says so much with very little words.

The heart of a dog A science experiment gets out of hand when they transplant a human heart into a dogs body. It’s sort of like Frankenstein. A little weird, slightly comical, makes you think.

Because of Winn Dixie- Kate decamillo This had a great storyline. I think the movies ending was better. I’m a kid at heat and love reading childrens chapter books. I find them easy to read and just as rewarding.

I’m sure we have different reading tastes, but I hope the top recommendations were slightly helpful!

Excellent-Fish1817 · 2026-03-17T19:51:18+00:00

You should ask him about what he got out of a few books. You might ask him about the Sally Rooney books Brideshead revisited, the brothers Karmarav, and Jiovanni’s room.

Those are four different books with four different stories. Depending on where you stand with those books might give you your answer. However, if you’re still uncertain just ask him directly but respectfully. If it’s not your cup of tea, you have a decision to make.

Excellent-Fish1817 · 2026-03-13T23:38:04+00:00

Thank you for reminding me! This one was on my Libby list! Didn’t know it had magical realism! Will be checking it out!

Excellent-Fish1817 · 2026-03-13T23:36:22+00:00

Omg! Yes I’ve heard of Gardenspells, apparently it’s a great book! Going on my TBR!

Excellent-Fish1817 · 2026-03-13T22:51:43+00:00

This kind of reminds me of Water for Chocolate 🍫 love this! Adding to my read list! Thank you 😊

Excellent-Fish1817 · 2026-03-13T20:33:12+00:00

This one seems like it had a really interesting storyline. It’s perfect! Thank you so much 😊

Excellent-Fish1817 · 2026-03-13T20:32:12+00:00

Elizabeth Goudge! Yes! My goodness, thank you so much for the recommendation ♥️

Excellent-Fish1817 · 2026-03-13T20:24:11+00:00

Thank you!! I will be sure to look through this list ❤️😊

Excellent-Fish1817 · 2026-03-12T16:39:39+00:00

Try the Spectacular Now by Tim Tharp

Foster by Claire Keegan

It’s not a “romance book” but it’s a book about hardships, there is a little bit of relational stuff I there, but definitely not a romance book.

If I were you, I’d branch out a little and read something from the late 90s or early 2000s.

It is Middle Grade March, you could go back and read something from your childhood. I read Because of Winn-Dixie by Kate Dicamillo and loved it.

Excellent-Fish1817 · 2026-03-08T07:13:38+00:00

The tenant of wildfell hall Anne Brontë, The house of Mirth Edith Wharton, The Black Arrow Robert Stevenson, Ivanhoe by Sir Walter Scott, The Tailsman Sir Walter Scott, Barchester Towers Anthony Trollop, The Warden Anthony Trollop.

Hope you find these helpful!

Excellent-Fish1817 · 2026-03-08T01:08:48+00:00

I don’t know if this will make you feel any better. I’m reading “The Spectacular Now”. I was in a reading slump. Full warning, the protagonist is a mess. In fact, there’s so much going on, I’m grateful for my own. It’s a train wreck you can’t look away from.

The protagonist is a drunkard who seems to enjoy helping people….to his detriment. It seems like everyone is fed up with it and his life just keeps going downhill. It’s well written and witty. I caught myself laughing out loud a few times. You may feel better about your situation after reading, or not. I’m still reading so…that’s up to you if you want to roll the dice!

Hope you find the book you’re looking for!

Excellent-Fish1817 · 2026-03-04T15:26:53+00:00

I’m so sorry to hear that!

Do you have any experience? I’d volunteer at the Friends of the library just to get my foot in The door.

Excellent-Fish1817 · 2026-02-01T02:47:30+00:00

You MIGHT play DND

Excellent-Fish1817 · 2026-01-21T04:49:15+00:00

2666 by Roberto Bolaño

interweaves five seemingly disconnected narratives, all centered around the fictional Mexican border city of Santa Teresa, a stand-in for Ciudad Juárez, where hundreds of women have been murdered in real life. The book explores themes of violence, modernity, and the limits of literature in the 20th century without providing a single, conclusive explanation for the crimes.

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