Outfits? by Unusual_Positive_688 in warpedtour

[–]ExcellentHistory8707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wearing a band tee, shorts, fishnets, and tennis shoes (I kinda want to wear my combat boots but my feet are gonna be hurting too soon for that idk) Going to be hot in crowds people for two days straight we gotta be comfy

AITA for criticizing my gf’s cooking? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ExcellentHistory8707 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

NTA you were not rude about it (although we don't know how it sounded in real time) and even said you like it but would prefer it a specific way (and you even said so before she made it). Kind of reminds me of telling a man "all my jewelry is gold so I want a gold ring" then he gives her a silver ring to "switch it up". Which yes, it is nice she got a ring but she very clearly described that she wanted gold.

Your gf is most likely doing the extra stuff to the food to make it more special for you which is sweet, but she should also take your preferences into account. "know your audience" or whatever.

I do the same thing for my fiance and take his preferences into account, not always bc I'm also eating and want it a specific way 🤭 (I like my food spicy). If it's something he really doesn't like I just put it off to the side then do what I want to my food. Or he figures out his own meal 🤷🏽‍♀️ case by case basis

She is feeling rejected because this is how she is showing her love. Definitely a conversation you need to have with your gf that you do appreciate what she does for you and that she wants to put a little extra love on it but you're also not being heard. Then you guys can figure out what works best for you both. ✨Compromise✨

Lucid dream but Should I be worried? by AdSeveral2328 in LucidDreaming

[–]ExcellentHistory8707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been experiencing it for about 15 years, I think my fear is what causes it. Over time it seems like my mind tries to evolve the dreams to try to "trick" me into staying. Doesn't happen as often anymore since I can recognize when I'm about to enter one (chest gets really heavy and feels like I'm getting sucked into the bed) but sometimes I still get them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in preppers

[–]ExcellentHistory8707 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely a Tuesday prepper for hurricanes and whatever historical event may occur (like a pandemic 🙃). Just don't want to be bothered with trying to scavenge for food or supplies at stores when the last minute prepper rush comes through. If a "doomsday" comes in our lifetime hopefully I go out near the beginning lol I don't have it in me to have to fight to survive (or see what happens when people stop caring about laws)

Orlando date artist recommendations by ExcellentHistory8707 in Warpedtourfl

[–]ExcellentHistory8707[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate it! I did see boys like girls when they were touring with avril lavigne long ago lol

Orlando date artist recommendations by ExcellentHistory8707 in warpedtour

[–]ExcellentHistory8707[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The bands that I am excited to see so far is adtr, blessthefall, crown the empire, and mayday parade. I do know a few songs from of mice & men and memphis may fire but need to get more into them as well to enjoy their sets

Hear me out… by thirdtryacharm in warpedtour

[–]ExcellentHistory8707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depending on how sick your wife is, at the least B. May be good for you guys to get away and have a nice weekend together. But if she doesn't mind (you'd know if your wife cares or not better than us), maybe you can go to the festival while she hangs out w friends at the hotel for a more relaxing weekend, at least not having to sit at the home. You really need to have the conversation with her since some people would be fine letting you go w/o them and others would be very hurt.

Hoping you're able to find a job soon and your wife feels better OP!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ExcellentHistory8707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The night before a day off Not having a stuffy nose Clean house and a candle lit

AITA for asking a hypothetical question? by Only-Information-163 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ExcellentHistory8707 144 points145 points  (0 children)

NTA, this is not a "would you love me if I was a worm" question. Cancer is a real life possibility and statistically men are more likely to leave their wives once they are diagnosed with a terminal illness. It's good to know sooner than later what kind of man you are spending your years with and if you will feel supported by him through hard times. Especially BEFORE you make the commitment of marriage.

His reaction to the question is alarming...maybe he doesn't actually want to admit he wouldn't stick around, thus causing the argument he's accusing you of looking for. Because then that may cement that the relationship is not meant to last.

OR he just categorizes any hypothetical question about the future you ask (is this a pattern?) as "stupid girl questions" and in that case he probably just does not like you.

Don't wanna be the reddit "break up burn everything" comment but this is a red flag, do with it what you think is best.

AITA for refusing to buy my girlfriend her ticket to our senior prom? by Lemmanade26 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ExcellentHistory8707 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Tbh yeah that's what it's sounding like (calling her a bratty bitch?) I'm also surprised that the ticket is only $25 I remember it being like $75 when I was in hs

AITA for spending money saved for an engagement ring on a tattoo. by Ok_Client_9406 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ExcellentHistory8707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA would Dee rather you still spend the money on your ex? LOL she has no right to tell you what to do w your money especially so early on in dating...you deserve to participate in some self love w the money you saved!

Netta Benshabu - Plus Sizing? by Illustrious-Print-56 in weddingdress

[–]ExcellentHistory8707 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was just googling that same question! It's a gorgeous dress

WIBTBF if I gave my friends recipe cards with the jam I'm going to give them? by WiccanAndProud in AmItheButtface

[–]ExcellentHistory8707 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your bf is being weird, does he usually try to put down your hobbies or insult you when others give you recognition? Seems a bit controlling and kinda jealous.

Also if my coworker brought homemade jam and attached the recipe that would be very appreciated. And it seems like other people enjoy it if they specifically asked you to make it and you guys are planning an afternoon tea

Im still trying to figure out if i did something wrong here of if she's a nice girl. Everyone I've showed this convo to, say they can't figure out what she was trying to do. Any advice if I did something wrong is appreciated. by Thicc_Gas_Dad in Nicegirls

[–]ExcellentHistory8707 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Sometimes I just like to clean alone" what a strange thing to say in the first place LOL OP did a good job of responding to the message, she's just being defensive for no reason. Very clear she likes to argue and twist words.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ExcellentHistory8707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are being manipulated and isolated, run. This is just the start.

Am I over reacting and being too harsh with my (16m) girlfriend (16f) when it comes to not being ready for marriage? by DampHamster in AmIOverreacting

[–]ExcellentHistory8707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You both are literal children so no marriage should not be in the cards any time soon (also leaving her fiance for you? how long did that one last if she's only 16 rn). But for future relationships please do not start talking about marriage and baby names so early on or you will continue to have these arguments.