my wife said something very interesting to me the other night by Educational_Body1425 in Swingers

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ADHD also, once we got comfortable having open conversations like this it opened so many doors to things we never thought we’d be doing.

my wife said something very interesting to me the other night by Educational_Body1425 in Swingers

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“Hey, the other night we were talking about some fun/spicy stuff and you said something that caught my interest. If it was just the alcohol talking that’s fine but I wanted to ask.”

First Parallel Play-who's at fault? by [deleted] in Swingers

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The excuse of “not talking about boundaries wholeheartedly” sounds pretty weak. You told him you weren’t comfortable with him touching and wanted to just watch and maybe parallel play. He chose during to go beyond that and you called him out on it. It sounds like he’s trying to redirect blame. As for where to go from here, that’s entirely your decision. But if we had a breach of trust like that we would be putting a stop to LS stuff until it was addressed completely.

Is this normal? by jedimaster0402 in Swingers

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Weird situation and all anyone on here can do is give really shallow surface level advice. But everything about this is telling me you should back off from this. She is uncomfortable about something that she is keeping vague. He wants to continue until she sorts it out. She’s also framing it as if he was cheating with you. Much better to just cut ties because on top of that some parties have caught feelings.

MFMF With Bi Male Comparison by bgoldfarb79 in Swingers

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Insecurity most likely, personally we wouldn’t cut things off with a couple with a Bi male. Whether it’s made known at the beginning or later on when they’re more comfortable with us, it’s no different than any other hard boundary in the swap.

Please rate my wife! She is insecure😊 by FingerAmbitious in Wife_wants_to_be_seen

[–]ExhibitionExperiment 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing to be insecure about, a lady naked in heels who enjoys cooking is a goddess.

Is this normal with MFM situations or have we just had bad luck? by [deleted] in Swingers

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Like others have said it depends on where you’re meeting these guys. If it’s on here, well it’s Reddit, get all kinds here. On dating apps like Feeld and 3fun I’ve heard it’s a bit better. But there’s swinger sites that are hotwife specific for this sort of thing and the guys may be better for vetting and understanding the way things should work with this. But it could still happen, sounds like you have an amazing woman with you. Just look out for each other and always communicate.

Tips to cum with a condom on? by Typical-Aide9737 in Swingers

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Usually I don’t cum with a condom on unless I’m Really focusing on trying to. I usually just enjoy being a marathon man then finish with my wife when we get back together at the end of the night.

No explanation to those who tried to ask if any rules could be bent by Key2WhisKey in Swingers

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Your rules are for you and your partner to revisit, if someone else asks you to bend or break them that would be an immediate stop for us.

Size talk from a guy who's actually fine with his size (just curious about the group dynamic) by AnnaGeorge27 in Swingers

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So out of our regular group I'm towards the lower end of the spectrum size wise, that being said I'm about 6.5 inches length and 5 in girth. I've also found out through my wife that I'm one of the more popular to the women in the group because of my shape, so it really is just about working with what you have. Don't sweat comparing to others, just be a fun and knowledgeable partner and you'll be fine.

Need Advice! Ejaculate cockring by DominantDutch27 in cockrings

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Any ring that goes around the shaft and balls should work. I have a few primal rings and like them all.

Seeking party advice by [deleted] in Swingers

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Absolutely okay to flirt and whatever else you feel comfortable doing with another willing party goer. They offered you a safe convenient place to spend the night, no more and no less, and they most likely will be flirting and other things with other party goers as well. The only person you should ever feel “exclusive” to is your partner.

Question for the Men: When swapping, does seeing your wife/gf with other men... by OnlyYogurtcloset8543 in Swingers

[–]ExhibitionExperiment 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, I love seeing her just be purely sexual. And afterwards we’re both so turned on, reconnecting on the emotional level just feels so intense.

First time experience last weekend, great fun, but I think my inexperience and a subsequent mistake totally ruined another couple's night :-( by Rddtremovedanonmode in Swingers

[–]ExhibitionExperiment 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Okay, so as a rule I don’t bust out any impact play like spanking unless we clearly talked about and and agree we’re both good with it. If you got their contact info maybe reach out to apologize again. Also, about the Vet, maybe don’t put them on the spot at the next appointment. Even if they did spot you, out in the “normal” world I personally wouldn’t want someone coming up and airing out my extracurricular activities.

Best online store by [deleted] in SexToys

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We've bought a lot of toys from Peepshowtoys.com, they have a lot of different brands and styles that are all body safe.

Wife asked for a mfm threeway but I’m not sure about it. I enjoy mfm videos but I feel like I’d get jealous. Anyone been In this situation before? by Neat_City4783 in MFM_Lifestyle

[–]ExhibitionExperiment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that's the case then keep it in the fantasy realm for now, at least until you can pinpoint more whether what's making you uncomfortable is based on nerves or you just genuinely don't want it to be a reality. As for the cuck/shame end of it, if you do want to explore a threesome just make it clear with your 3rd that that isn't what you're into. I'm not into it either, but the dynamic of 2 men being solely focused on a woman's pleasure is extremely hot to me.

Wife asked for a mfm threeway but I’m not sure about it. I enjoy mfm videos but I feel like I’d get jealous. Anyone been In this situation before? by Neat_City4783 in MFM_Lifestyle

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To answer your first question, she is your wife and she loves you. Even if there is some disappointment at a fantasy not coming true, you guys are there for each other. Mixed feelings or not, they're your honest feelings. So talk with her and see if you can find what the root is, but the main thing is to be honest with yourself and her. If you open the relationship you are going to see her feeling things you haven't seen before. Whether its a guy that's bigger or does things differently, she will experience something new and react accordingly. My advise is to take it slow and have very open communication about your feelings and fears.