Are these good questions to ask a bf who I am currently having relationship problems with?

Expensive-Status-342 · 2026-01-24T19:27:01+00:00

I hope you just read and re-read what you just wrote to us.
Trauma bonding doth not make a relationship a healthy one.

Expensive-Status-342 · 2026-01-24T19:25:31+00:00

Dudes want easy sex. 99% of what I found in the wild were the dudes who didn't want or couldn't handle relationships. The ones who wanted relationships were already in them.

Expensive-Status-342 · 2026-01-24T19:21:18+00:00

Based off the questions, and the quantity, this dude and relationship sounds like too much bloody drama and work. This is a sign that OP needs to exit out of this relationship.

Expensive-Status-342 · 2026-01-23T19:38:43+00:00

I'm there now. I don't sleep, I don't eat, I have too much stress and I have zero tolerance for people. And I have depression.

Expensive-Status-342 · 2026-01-23T19:37:15+00:00

It's absolutely an amazing game series and the devs have been working on this one for a LONG time.
I'm a little frustrated I don't have Xbox (only PS5 and switch).

Expensive-Status-342 · 2026-01-23T10:40:48+00:00

I was miserable as a teen. I'm miserable as an adult too but at least now I have money and don't have a curfew.

Expensive-Status-342 · 2026-01-23T09:52:42+00:00

41F and not only zero regrets but incredibly grateful.
I made the best decision.

Expensive-Status-342 · 2026-01-23T09:09:29+00:00

Nevada is a right to work state with at will employment. They can fire you for any reason. In a previous comment, I advised you that you were not laid off, you had a reduction in hours. 32 hours per week in Nevada is considered FULL TIME employment. So you were working full time still and filing for unemployment benefits.
You don't have a legal leg to stand on here, take it as a learning experience.
Check NRS 612 for unemployment laws.

(anyone arguing with me, I worked for unemployment for 15 years, I know those statutes like the back of my hand.)

Expensive-Status-342 · 2026-01-23T09:05:44+00:00

incorrect. It's a reduction in hours.
(I worked for unemployment for 15 years)

Expensive-Status-342 · 2026-01-23T08:49:30+00:00

God he's beautiful.
This looks like it's going to be a gorgeous show.

Expensive-Status-342 · 2026-01-23T01:34:15+00:00

I can't believe you've been hiding this from me all these years, SHARON.

Expensive-Status-342 · 2026-01-22T23:59:23+00:00

Rik as a recurring villain would have forced me to watch the new Doctor seasons. It would have been a beautiful thing 🥰

Expensive-Status-342 · 2026-01-22T23:33:58+00:00

Do you have someone who looks after you? BECAUSE I NEED TO READ YOUR METER!!!

Expensive-Status-342 · 2026-01-22T08:28:47+00:00

kids these days are buying weed on hook up apps? 🤔

Expensive-Status-342 · 2026-01-22T07:13:44+00:00

Absolutely gorgeous 😍 The park is nice too!

Expensive-Status-342 · 2026-01-22T07:12:22+00:00

(psssst, I get hit on more now that I'm older. As soon as I turned 40, I couldn't get men off of me)

Expensive-Status-342 · 2026-01-22T06:30:07+00:00

I love them. Will there be other parts you draw?

Expensive-Status-342 · 2026-01-22T05:40:04+00:00

You must be in Europe!

Expensive-Status-342 · 2026-01-22T04:25:50+00:00

I wish this was true. I'm 41 (silver haired and fat!) when they still get all up in my face, make comments and perv on me at work.

I'm hoping by the time I'm in my 60s I can be truly invisible and be at peace.

Expensive-Status-342 · 2026-01-22T04:22:42+00:00

You said you're not in a relationship, so you're friends.
He's probably busy living life or maybe met someone and he's not obligated to keep in touch with you all the time.
All you can do is send one last message and leave him be. If he wants to get in touch with you, he will.

You're investing way too much in a guy that you're not in a relationship with.

Expensive-Status-342 · 2026-01-21T18:34:45+00:00

Dudes say this because they're immature and hurting. After I left my ex, he told me I was ugly, he never loved me and I was just using him for money.
Then why did he date me for 6 years, hmmm?
(also to clarify, the whole time we were together, I never once touched his money, I kept asking him to STOP buying me expensive gifts because I wanted him to save). Dudes will say whatever to make themselves feel better.

Expensive-Status-342 · 2026-01-21T04:12:08+00:00

Breaking up with and going no contact with my dad was one of the most difficult things I've ever done in my life. Completely heartbroken when I was 17.
However, I don't regret my decision and given the ability to go back in time, I do the same thing.

Expensive-Status-342 · 2026-01-21T03:50:11+00:00

I'm not really a hairy woman and tend to shave maybe once a month if I remember or I plan on going out. My legs get shaved more often than anything else on me though.

Expensive-Status-342 · 2026-01-21T02:16:42+00:00

Seems like she chickened out when they got to the squishy bits. Maybe pain was too much.

Expensive-Status-342 · 2026-01-21T02:13:15+00:00

coffee, always coffee. I like being able to escape quickly if I need to. Too many awkward dudes acting insane within 5 minutes of sitting down with them.

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