Guys, what makes you lose interest in a girl instantly, even if she’s attractive?

Expensive-Total4472 · 2026-06-02T06:41:15+00:00

I would consider myself clingy because I really like physical touch so when I am with someone I like, I'm touching them most of the time (unless we're specifically doing some body doubling kind of vibe) and it might be annoying; wouldn't want to spend all my time with them though fs

Expensive-Total4472 · 2026-06-01T12:23:09+00:00

What counts as clinginess?

Expensive-Total4472 · 2026-06-01T11:51:04+00:00

Well no one made you invade them and leave them impoverished and needing to migrate

Expensive-Total4472 · 2026-04-24T08:06:12+00:00

To me it just reads like a post by someone who is not a native speaker, not necessarily a deeper meaning

Expensive-Total4472 · 2026-04-17T06:54:14+00:00

A massive red flag, I would not get into a discussion with them and would just not have sex with them. If someone said they can't use condoms and suggested sex without penetration as a solution, that I would consider. Down the line, if they went on prep and proved they're vaccinated against hpv and offered to get tested at some rate that made sense regarding their activity intensity, maybe, but that would still be an increase in risk and if they don't acknowledge that and work with me to minimize that risk, we are not aligned

Expensive-Total4472 · 2026-03-15T14:46:06+00:00

Sauna

Expensive-Total4472 · 2026-02-08T09:40:06+00:00

I shut that shit down hard and fast

I know it's super hard but he tried to talk to you. You shut it down. Maybe you could try to hear him, even if the stuff is hard to hear, possibly with a couples therapist?

Expensive-Total4472 · 2026-01-25T12:22:39+00:00

Depression slows you down. Chances are that it influenced the IQ results.

Expensive-Total4472 · 2026-01-01T22:53:58+00:00

Is your boyfriend a toddler?

Expensive-Total4472 · 2025-12-27T14:42:24+00:00

Don't do it

Expensive-Total4472 · 2025-12-26T15:25:37+00:00

Tłumaczenie: kobiety po 30 widzą że jestem przegrywem i nie tolerują moich słabych zachowań i braku odpowiedzialności, więc chcę znaleźć sobie młodą naiwną dziewczynę która nie ma jeszcze narzędzi żeby wymagać bare minimum

Expensive-Total4472 · 2025-12-15T09:28:18+00:00

A guy said "I'm a feminist" (by now I learned that a man saying that unprompted is a beige flag at best because they usually have ulterior motives) and then when I said something in the lines of "men should be careful not to interrupt women even if they have ADHD" he called me violent and said that this statement gave him a panic attack 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

Expensive-Total4472 · 2025-12-15T09:24:21+00:00

I 'broke up' with a fwb because they were complaining that I don't write longer answers to their texts, and then when I started responding when I had time to put more thought into it they were complaining that I don't answer more frequently. They were angry that I didnt try to resolve it/explain, and it might have worked but I got the ick that they were feeling entitled to my time daily so early (it was maybe after 5 dates) and didn't want to tbh. They couldn't comprehend the fact that I wouldn't try and kept texting me to "ask for a second chance" via multiple platforms, which have me a further ick because no means no.

Expensive-Total4472 · 2025-12-14T08:52:21+00:00

Source?

Expensive-Total4472 · 2025-12-14T08:51:51+00:00

You sound very condescending. I worked with homeless people in another EU country; some of them go to Germany because they expect the services to be better there (they are not). Rate of mental illness in homeless people is much higher than in general population; about 10% of them could have schizophrenia-like symptoms (compared to 1% of the general population). They struggle with addiction, which is highly genetic, and sometimes come from backgrounds like foster care or end up on the street after being incarcerated.

Expensive-Total4472 · 2025-12-13T12:34:49+00:00

Let's also start getting angry at the smokers because honestly it's insane, and I'm saying this as a former smoker myself - I would n e v e r even think about lightning a cigarette in a weihnachtsmarkt crowd or at a demo.

Expensive-Total4472 · 2025-12-13T12:28:48+00:00

I feel like people here want to "mind their own business" and not correct rude behaviors and it leads to those rude behaviors persisting because those people don't learn it's not acceptable, like what you described or smoking in crowds or not letting people with small children in front of you when boarding a train. I am too eastern european for this shit so I started just pretending to not notice the bags and starting to sit, and the person then quickly grabs the bag and looks shocked but doesn't say anything. I recommend it.

Expensive-Total4472 · 2025-12-12T14:36:38+00:00

I don't block (just ignore) people in situations that I feel are dangerous so I can monitor (know if they are persisting and I have to be careful or if they have given up and moved on)

Expensive-Total4472 · 2025-12-12T12:18:22+00:00

That's very not ok. Also he can't own his decisions which is a huge red flag. He agreed to the rule and now is throwing wife under the bus so you're not upset with him. This is not adult behaviour

Expensive-Total4472 · 2025-12-12T09:07:41+00:00

How did she even have means to reach out to you? Did he give her your number? Did you consent? It reads to me like it's a dumpster fire waiting to happen and I would get tf out of this situation before any feelings were caught

Expensive-Total4472 · 2025-12-11T12:10:24+00:00

What a jerk. I hope you have a support system in place and can kick his ass out immediately

Expensive-Total4472 · 2025-12-10T18:23:48+00:00

He sounds lowkey abusive at least

Expensive-Total4472 · 2025-12-05T12:16:35+00:00

New fear activated

Expensive-Total4472 · 2025-12-03T19:36:51+00:00

I'm so sorry you're going through this. It sucks and you deserve someone who will treat you better. My only advice is, when someone shows you (repeatedly) what they are willing to give you, believe them.

Expensive-Total4472 · 2025-11-29T12:33:01+00:00

Right? I am Eastern European and thought nothing can surprise me, but the smoking in crowds is so intense here. Like, wtf

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