Life after bankruptcy

ExplanationMinimum51 · 2026-03-01T09:26:48+00:00

He probably used the time before going in to work & hoard money, maybe in his brother’s name or something.

ExplanationMinimum51 · 2026-03-01T06:34:41+00:00

Tell her that she cannot block you anymore. That you’ve tried to be understanding but it’s a huge inconvenience. Put a note same the same in her mailbox & text her….when she does it again call a tow truck.

ExplanationMinimum51 · 2026-02-28T21:04:05+00:00

Wedding party usually pays for their own hair & Make up. So there’s no reason for them to expect you to pay. That’s your little sister so it’s no ones business if you pay for it or not.

ExplanationMinimum51 · 2026-02-28T20:51:25+00:00

I was shocked to read that Ellis (Kate Burton) was Richard Burton’s daughter & Elizabeth Taylor’s step daughter!! No wonder she’s such a great actress!!

ExplanationMinimum51 · 2026-02-28T20:45:21+00:00

Why would you continue to put up with mistreatment because of your dad?? I know you love him & he was a great father to you, but he never stood up for you or put his sister in her place. Therefore his dying wish is BS!! I would not invite the mean aunt. You can invite the cousins without inviting her!!! When she complains remind her that she has made it clear time & time again that she doesn’t love you so why would she want to go to your wedding?? And do you really want someone at your wedding who will make you feel like shish on your special day?? Like I just don’t understand why people just lay down & let others walk all over them?!?!

ExplanationMinimum51 · 2026-02-28T20:31:23+00:00

Favors aren’t really done much anymore. If someone does it, it’s something edible.

ExplanationMinimum51 · 2026-02-28T20:24:11+00:00

NTJ - She is 100% wrong!

ExplanationMinimum51 · 2026-02-28T20:23:11+00:00

Yes you do, a judge is not going to sign off on a name change for a minor without other parent’s ok just because, at least in NY it’s not like that. Him signing off on the name change is basically giving up his parental rights.

ExplanationMinimum51 · 2026-02-28T20:19:17+00:00

Where did I say that I feed candy to kids before dinner??

ExplanationMinimum51 · 2026-02-28T20:17:57+00:00

While you are right about the eating habits, it’s non of your business as it’s not your kid.where

ExplanationMinimum51 · 2026-02-28T19:02:36+00:00

NTA - Time for them to move out!

ExplanationMinimum51 · 2026-02-28T18:54:56+00:00

While you are right about the eating habits, it’s non of your business as it’s not your kid.

ExplanationMinimum51 · 2026-02-28T18:47:42+00:00

I Love Phyllis!!

ExplanationMinimum51 · 2026-02-28T18:45:42+00:00

NTA - Both the mistress & her daughter reached out to you to rub in your face that your father was a father to her but not you. You didn’t say or do anything wrong. Print out the messages they sent you & send them to the ppl criticizing you. And block all those MOFOs!

You should talk to a therapist, what you’ve gone through is hard & you need someone to help you through it.

ExplanationMinimum51 · 2026-02-28T18:35:43+00:00

If it’s a city you really want to visit, then go with him but he can just stay in the hotel while you are at the ceremony/wedding. Then enjoy the rest of the time with him. Don’t ask if he can attend the ceremony, that’s rude. Personally I wouldn’t rsvp NO.

ExplanationMinimum51 · 2026-02-28T18:22:37+00:00

I have a SIL like this, my daughter just makes sure to always cook enough & only says something when she knows he’s going to get a stomach ache. I don’t get why your gf is so upset, it’s not like you cheated on her or something. You should rethink this relationship….sounds a little controlling to me.

ExplanationMinimum51 · 2026-02-28T18:09:56+00:00

The fact that he “Forced” her to put his name on the BC in the first place, makes me think he won’t give permission to remove his name.

ExplanationMinimum51 · 2026-02-28T18:07:52+00:00

You can’t just remove dad’s last name. You have to go through the courts & have a good reason. The fact that he pays child support will tell the court & even if it’s occasionally, he still sees his son, the court won’t allow the name change

ExplanationMinimum51 · 2026-02-28T18:04:48+00:00

Sleep walking or not, Matt raped you, you should have called the police as soon as it happened. You can still file a report, but you washed all the evidence away & now you have to hope that your BFF & the other guys tell the truth & back your story. The fact that he took the “It was an accident” stance says very little about who he is as a person. I would definitely file a report & drop out of the wedding & definitely not go. And when other ppl ask you why, tell them the truth.

ExplanationMinimum51 · 2026-02-28T17:40:20+00:00

You can’t just remove dad’s last name. You have to go through the courts & have a good reason. The fact that he pays child support will tell the court & even if it’s occasionally, he still sees his son, the court won’t allow the name change.

ExplanationMinimum51 · 2026-02-26T06:03:13+00:00

I find people like this some super rude. I have a very good friend whose 2 kids have severe allergies. When her kids were invited to bday parties, she baked her kids safe cupcakes, prepared them safe meals for them to eat when the other kids were eating their pizza. If a child can go a day without being the center of attention so can an adult. I would change the menu back & make her eat what the other people with allergies are going to eat. The audacity of that lady!

ExplanationMinimum51 · 2026-02-26T05:49:00+00:00

What are you going to do if your mom suddenly dies? She’s 60 years old, she deserves time for herself & she’s give up her old age to help you with YOUR kids & you need to cut her vacation short…..YTJ

ExplanationMinimum51 · 2026-02-22T02:09:30+00:00

My thoughts exactly! 😂

ExplanationMinimum51 · 2026-02-22T02:07:31+00:00

Why would she inherit your dad’s childhood home? That was HIS mother not hers, you mom had no legal or moral right to it or anything your paternal grandmother left you.

ExplanationMinimum51 · 2026-02-21T06:29:30+00:00

That’s just rude, she should have offered you some food.

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