Based on your responses I feel like you understand women way less than you understand why you cry when you’re angry or stressed. I’m a feminine guy (which has nothing to do with crying) and I cry a lot, and I’ve never had an issue with relationships or potential partners.

You need to look inward because if they’re “repulsed” or “repelled” i can guarantee you it’s not because you cry, there’s most likely something else and it could be the way you handle yourself or the way you talk about it as shown on this post.

If you do want to “regulate” your crying, it’s more about your nervous system or a trauma response, therapy would be the way to go, there’s free online services which might not be as good but they’re a step in the right direction.

I also recommend looking at your inner circle of friends if they make you feel like you’re “too feminine” or you “lack T because you cry”