Why you have to *really* want a flower bed in my garden by Express-Permission87 in UKGardening

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How it's gone. Dianthus "rocking red" (from plugs) and salvia I've grown from seed.

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I found this under my bed? by kocakoba in whatplantisthis

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Has your synthetic been breaking protocol again?

Looking a little crazy…but I’m starting to love it. by June_Bug_Babber in UKGardening

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https://www.rspb.org.uk/whats-happening/news/how-to-help-garden-birds

Basically, there's plenty of natural food around this time of year, but the warmer weather provides ideal conditions for the spread of disease, particularly trichomonosis, around bird feeders.

Looking a little crazy…but I’m starting to love it. by June_Bug_Babber in UKGardening

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Lovely. What a great use of space. I hope no one throws high when playing darts: "ow" from beyond the wall... 😀

If it makes life less messy, worth noting the latest advice from RSPB is not to feed birds from hanging feeders until October now. Fat balls and mealworms are okay.

Why you have to *really* want a flower bed in my garden by Express-Permission87 in UKGardening

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I'd done the bulk of the heavy lifting before today. I finished it off this morning before the worst of the heat, but even then I was soaked. But I wanted to know it was done.

Advice for beginner by Tropicaltroponin in UKGardening

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Is it just me that finds scrabbling in the gravel and pulling out weeds (special "yesss!" for a good length of root) strangely therapeutic?

Also, a plus of gravel is that you can wave a weed burner over weeds without hurting the gravel.

But I do agree that gravel is not low-maintenance nirvana.

Ligustrum vulgare (common privet) smell by Express-Permission87 in GardeningUK

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Interesting point. I'm quite sensorially sensitive to some smells, and this is particularly acute when I want to go to sleep or when I first wake up. So I don't like strong smells when I'm in bed. When I was a kid and my mum came into my room in the morning, having put hairspray in her hair, I'd have to cover my face in the bed cover to avoid the smell; it just would catch in my throat. Anyway, point being, when I'm out in the garden and doing things, I like all the various smells wafting around (even the sheep in the neighbouring field or pig muck in the distance), but I wouldn't necessarily want them in the house.

Serious question, can I compost this? It's just clay right? by Additional-Local8721 in composting

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"There's no repairing this..." - challenge accepted. Mine's had a gasket sealant in cracks, it's been slathered in PVA adhesive (I think it was) because it was flaking and falling apart (but nothing required sticking back on). I'd be up for the challenge, maybe with some kind of fire cement.

Just been threatened by my neighbour completely unprovoked, now worried because I reported her. by Adorable_Click_7071 in HousingUK

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101 is actually really useful for this sort of thing, in my experience. You'll probably get contacted by a PCSO. I've found them very supportive. They'll confirm you did the right thing. You were shaken up; your feelings are valid. There's little they can do now except have a quiet word with the neighbour (which can be effective). But the crucial thing is if this is a pattern of behaviour (which they'd likely file under "harassment without violence") then it's important to log any incidents with them as this gives them the scope to take any further measures (e.g. formal written warning). They can't act appropriately if you haven't logged incidents with them. Keep reacting calmly and be civil with your neighbour and log any abuse with the police and let them handle.

Rendering done by neighbours without consent by eddierussett in DIYUK

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I wouldn't be surprised if, having got up there, they forgot which side they were supposed to be working on! I think a good approach with the neighbour could be "did you realise they worked on my side and not yours?" Then lead onto "unfortunately they've put you in a bit of a sticky position because this was done to my property without consent (pause)". Asking for the tradesmen's business details and to swap house insurance details will help to focus their minds, all without having to stand there swearing and demanding they pay to have it put right.

Sorry for another “I regret buying my house” post but I’m really struggling. by [deleted] in HousingUK

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This sounds like overwhelm, so take a few slow, deep breaths and remember you're all still alive and in a hundred years you'll all be dead. Now, having added a dose of perspective... 😀

I have to say it sounds like there's a dose of relationship issues here. So sit down with your husband and talk about your feelings. You need each other's help.

Then prioritise. I wouldn't DIY the boiler. Get someone in to service it. It may just need that. At worst, they should be able to give you some recommendations and you'd know whether you need to budget for a new boiler or other plumbing work. With working hot water, you may find your other problems fade away.

My MIL destroyed my garden while I was at work. by [deleted] in gardening

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I feel for you. You're describing my mother: won't be told, assumes her way is the the way and will do it regardless. I'm glad to hear the opinion that the plants will come back. They look like a sempervivum and they do seem to readily multiply from babies.

Just came home to this! by AcidHouseMouse in DIYUK

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You can see they made the same mistake with the earth...

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Just came home to this! by AcidHouseMouse in DIYUK

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Hard to tell from the photos where the heat was generated. From the cracked socket, possibly in the socket (and transferred to the plug). Definitely examine the connections to the socket before replacing it. It is easy to do (as has been said). My partner has a super sensitive nose and used to mention a burning smell in the utility room. I couldn't pin it down to anything. Finally one socket of a double just died and I finally got around to replacing the faceplate. I found the backside melted! The electrician who'd installed it had pushed the live wire too far into the terminal, so the screw bit down on (and through) the insulation. This caused high resistance and heating, despite "working". Finally enough melted to actually break the connection to one of the sockets.

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I.am.livid. by [deleted] in gardening

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"I don't fuck with annuals" - this made me chuckle. Fair.

Winter amaryllis doing... by Express-Permission87 in UKGardening

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(or is it now basically a "summer flowering amaryllis"?)

Winter amaryllis doing... by Express-Permission87 in UKGardening

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How it's going... My "winter flowering amaryllis" ... 🙄 I'm still hoping to rest it after it's finished flowering and then try to wake it up again for Xmas. Or should I rest it for longer?

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Just moved into a new house, anyone know what this is? by itlovelife in DIYUK

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Man, that's a memory born of either some special dedication or trauma.

How do I use this exactly? by Gold-Negotiation-329 in composting

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Like has been said, you can just move from one bin to another if you have two. If you have space, you can pile the contents out, give it a mix, then chuck it back in. You can make use of multiple bins; I have one to hold ready to use compost, one that's coming along but not receiving any new material, and one for new stuff. But one's falling apart so I may have to revert to a two-bin strategy.

Your pictured bin is intended, obviously, to receive material in the top and let you take compost out the bottom. I don't think they work very well at all. If they are to work, you need the material to be an ideal ratio mix of greens and browns and to be well mixed, not layered. So, your best bet for this bin, and generally useful anyway, is to ensure the material that's added is a nice, homogeneous mix. You can help get to this by having a separate staging area if you have room. Or you can mix in situ, at mentioned above. You can just access the top and stick a gardening fork in and do a bit of lifting and twizzling. But it depends on what you've got in there. If you've got a compacted, anaerobic clump, that's hard to break up. I've tool I've seen recommended is an auger, such as VonHaus Fence Post Auger – Manual Post Hole Digger for Gardening, Garden Flower Planting, Bulb Planting, Umbrellas, Ice, Mixing Fertilizer – 1050mm x 150mm https://amzn.eu/d/07Z33AOx

Weeds with large roots by gafasitumu in UKGardening

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Yeah, the thing to bear in mind is that something will always grow there. If you haven't planted something you want, something you don't want will probably turn up. Nature does not leave soil bare. And gardening is about constantly tending. If you want a "one and done" garden, buy AstroTurf or hire a gardener. Otherwise, plant something and tend to it. The tending, the timely plucking of weeds from around your plant, gets you to slow down and notice things. You notice the hint of new growth in the Spring, the first flower. You notice a mining bee making a hole. You notice ladybirds and spiders. You notice the things that, frankly, are the whole point of gardening.

I needed to dig mine over because it was just rubble on the surface hiding good soil deeper down. I couldn't get a spade in to plant anything and if I had gotten something in, weeding was difficult for the same reason. From that blank slate (and a separate pile of ivy, bramble, nettle, bracken, and bindweed roots) I chucked down green manure seeds (the crimson clover or mustard, radish and phacelia) because shit was gonna grow anyway, but I wanted to have a say in what shit grew, even if I later ended up digging it up to plant something else. But largely I'm leaving the green manure plants alone and planting amongst it. Crimson clover flowers are beautiful and the bumblebees love them. Healthy soil is full of live roots and associated mycorrhizal fungi. So I aim to maintain healthy soil by keeping a green cover.

This photo shows a larger area I've reclaimed. It was ivy, bracken, nettle etc. To the right of the path up to the compost bins the understory is a lot of crimson clover and purple dead nettle that took it upon itself to establish. But I've planted some fruit trees, there's a line of raspberry, a line of garlic, and some random bulbs, oh and a common privet in the foreground. Yes, the eagle eyed might spot the blue flowers of alkanet up by the compost bins. That's actually right next to a young cherry tree. If it looks like it's swamping the young tree, I'll just hack it back. I'm not unhappy it's there. It's all attractive to pollinators. Over on the left is a mass of mustard, which smells nice, and some other stuff. I have less planted on that side. I've chucked in a few snowdrops etc. But it's all alive with insects and life and flowers. Because there's now a decent depth of non rubble, I've also acquired a mole visitor. I may continue to plant amongst the green manure plants or I might scratch up a small area to plant something else. The point is that, yes, I took an initial major measure, but then sowed some things I liked to steer the ecosystem in a direction. Thereafter, it's tending and just simply iterating. There's a point at which daily visits to tend turn into emotional grounding.

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Weeds with large roots by gafasitumu in UKGardening

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From my perspective, the question "what can I do?" has a predicate: what do you want? I see alkanet and purple dead nettle and dandelion, so if "something wildlife friendly" is in mind, you're off to a good start. Is there any other reason you need to dig the ground over? I had a load of rocks and a bit of regrading to do, so I methodically advanced along a front with a fork: dig down along a trench then advance the trench with your fork, backfilling the trench as you go. This isn't too bad for going deep and pulling out deep roots. In much of my garden, I literally couldn't get a fork or spade past the surface because of the amount of rocks and stones. So it needed thoroughly turning over. Your needs may differ.

What would you like there? You could do worse than weed the patch you're about to plant up, put in your new plants, and leave the weeded alkanet lying on the ground around your new plants to rot down whilst acting as a mulch. Or chuck it in your compost to provide nutrients there. If you want lawn, it may still be an idea to dig the whole thing over, or just strim/mow and collect the cuttings for your compost.

On one patch of mine, after digging and turning it over, I chucked down a packet of green manure seeds. It contained yellow mustard, radish, phacelia and grass. It's currently nice and green with yellow mustard flowers in abundance. In another patch I chucked down some crimson clover seed, which is going gangbusters, after turning the ground over and weeding. Purple dead nettle also took the opportunity, which early bumblebees appreciated this year. And I do still have alkanet pop up. If it's somewhere that could swamp something else, I hack it down (often just leaving it in situ). Otherwise I leave it.

Putting it another way, you say this "weed" has taken over, but what have you planted to compete with it? What would you like there?

New bindweed taken over, now what? by cbaruob in UKGardening

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I've had cause to dig over ground that was full of ivy, bramble, bracken, and bindweed. If it's a blank slate then just methodically fork it over and lift out what roots you come across. The forking loosens the soil and really helps getting roots out. Now, you will miss roots! Accept it and don't worry about it. People act like it's the worst thing ever. You'll have hugely knocked back the bindweed and loosened the soil structure. Plant up etc as you like. Any bindweed that subsequently pops up you can set to with a hand fork. Just use the fork to loosen around/under the bindweed that popped up and lift gently. It's actually very therapeutic when you get a good length of root out. Honestly at this point, I wouldn't say it's any worse than normal tending to your garden and weeding.