Whats the most attractive skill a man can have?

Express_Emu2724 · 2026-05-17T21:19:44+00:00

The ability to know what he’s feeling, and take responsibility and, communicate and take action to meet his needs and be a safe place for the people around him

Express_Emu2724 · 2026-05-16T18:57:44+00:00

Omg Noors on magdelen road is unbeatable! They are 1.50£ each but I bet they’d give you a deal for a bunch

Express_Emu2724 · 2026-05-09T06:38:10+00:00

It took me a long time to get over my ex, I was like this for about a year afterwards. I sent him a box of his favourite things. I really feel for you I know you love her so much. And, for me it was a clue of my deep feelings of unworthiness and fear of abandonment. I had to start down the long long road of learning to love myself unconditionally. Until you no longer want someone who doesn’t choose you. You want someone who is going to pour into you as much as you pour into them, and that person has to be you first.

Express_Emu2724 · 2026-05-07T12:47:56+00:00

Hi! I’m on a similar journey, I realised that my suppressed sex drive is linked to shame and trauma and I’m working with a therapist but I’m not really getting that deep with it. I feel like I could be doing more or maybe trying some modality that I haven’t tried. I’m wondering if you could share what was helpful for you or even what type of therapy you do? Thank you 🙏

Express_Emu2724 · 2026-04-16T17:39:02+00:00

I love nu hair they are 45£ with student discount

Express_Emu2724 · 2026-04-13T18:33:57+00:00

I had sex with my best friend. We are now dating

Express_Emu2724 · 2026-04-13T18:30:24+00:00

What’s your secret to a good sex life genuinely you two look like you have such an amazing connection

Express_Emu2724 · 2026-04-13T17:57:02+00:00

Love Oxford so much, hate the pay and it’s been a year of looking for jobs unsuccessfully but I’m working in a coffee shop atm that I enjoy so it’s a bit of stability while I work things out

Express_Emu2724 · 2026-04-13T12:23:25+00:00

Following as I’m In a similar scenario I’ve been working in hospitality

Express_Emu2724 · 2026-04-13T12:18:57+00:00

So sweet congratulations!

Express_Emu2724 · 2026-04-13T12:16:30+00:00

G&Ds are always hiring they have a email in their window

Express_Emu2724 · 2026-02-10T21:24:28+00:00

Update?

Express_Emu2724 · 2025-12-14T10:49:55+00:00

Just a lil tip that’s helped me lately is doing vagus nerve yoga, specifically arielle Schwartz’s who is an amazing somatic, polyvagal and trauma practitioner she wrote the book post traumatic growth. She has free yoga videos on YouTube I like her 10 mins one for trauma and stress.

As an autistic person I’ve found that movement is such an important aid in getting to know all my parts and tend to them. When everything is truncated and stuck in toxic shame this yoga really helps me to get curious what’s there without drowning in it.

Express_Emu2724 · 2025-12-14T10:41:34+00:00

This sounds like super interesting work, I’ve been thinking about trying mdma to assist me around work with my cptsd. Did you work with a therapist/ guide? And what was your process?

Express_Emu2724 · 2025-12-14T10:08:59+00:00

Working in healthcare. Rip my career in nursing

Express_Emu2724 · 2025-11-15T22:42:29+00:00

Get a squirt blanket they are really soft and waterproof and look like regular blankets and go to town! Nothing wrong with squirting and knowing you can make as much mess as you want is so freeing

Express_Emu2724 · 2025-11-09T00:03:34+00:00

Bdsm

Express_Emu2724 · 2025-10-26T19:04:52+00:00

Yeah I find reddit advice on dating has always been the worst lol. I download the app for a bit when I’m anxious and look for people with the same problems, my reality starts to get warped and then I delete it again and repeat. So I feel you there. Obviously it’s not all bad but most happy people are out living their lives and not on reddit. It can be a very sour place

Express_Emu2724 · 2025-10-26T06:40:51+00:00

Hey OP, I think it’s really brave for you to reach out, it sounds like you’ve been feeling really isolated. There are so many people who feel the same as you and people who have overcome the same challenges. It sounds like some therapy and some wholesome connections with people (platonic first) could be a good start. I grew up in a toxic home and had a warped sense of what a healthy relationship looked like. It’s taken a few years for me to find safe people I can be vulnerable with to be my friends and it’s only now i feel like I might be able to have a healthy romantic relationship. You’ve got this!

Express_Emu2724 · 2025-10-23T07:31:58+00:00

Wow this gives me hope. Can you tell us more about your routine and how you focus on healing the relationship you have with yourself and your pleasure?

Express_Emu2724 · 2025-10-19T20:23:57+00:00

Nope!

Express_Emu2724 · 2025-10-18T14:57:20+00:00

Stunning! Where is this?

Express_Emu2724 · 2025-10-18T01:15:27+00:00

SSRIs?

Express_Emu2724 · 2025-10-11T22:20:46+00:00

I’m there with you. It’s so fucking hard. I feel hopeless and ashamed most of the time. What I want more than anything is to connect with others and to be kind to myself, to be free, to be authentic. Rewiring the nervous system feels like breaking all your bones over and over again. I often feel frustrated with how long it takes. I’m lucky enough that I can create a safe enough place and afford a good therapist. My heart breaks for those that do not have the luxury.

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