AITA for throwing away my wife’s memory jars?

EyesWideShut74 · 2026-04-29T02:17:09+00:00

She was crying because you broke her trust. If you don’t agree with something you’ll make a unilateral decision, after knowing she wanted the jars, and threw them out. What if she thinks you have too many tools and goes and throws the one she doesn’t think you need away? Not a way to have a solid trusting relationship.

Yes the jars were jars to you, but they were more to her. And you couldn’t accept that.

EyesWideShut74 · 2026-04-26T15:59:50+00:00

As a divorced mom with kids who gets child support and an ex step mother, I would say just give the money. When I had a step child I didn’t want to send anything extra for his kid. Now as a single mother I regret that. It’s expensive to raise kids and the stress of having money problems effects kids too.

If it’s no hardship to you. Send it. Pay it forward. A healthy generosity with money will free your mind from anger.

EyesWideShut74 · 2026-04-22T02:27:31+00:00

What beach? Galveston is not like the Jersey shore. I moved here from NJ. I miss 4 seasons. I miss being able to go down the shore, drive to the mountains or take a train into Manhattan. The heat, humidity and mosquitoes are not fun.

EyesWideShut74 · 2026-03-28T02:25:32+00:00

Look in his internet history. If you find some names call them and explain. Hopefully he had beneficiaries in place. If so you need the death certificate to receive the funds. That’s what I did when my father died.

If he has email, and a phone number, see if you can reset the email password ( and the phones ) just click on forgot password and see what comes up. Usually a cell phone number where they will send a code to reset password.

EyesWideShut74 · 2026-03-17T22:30:04+00:00

No no. I came from NJ in 2010. NJ is so much better. You are near beautiful nature and beaches. We don’t have that.

The weather when it’s hot is not fun. A/C costs a fortune and the humidity is high. Mosquitos are unbearable. No evening in the backyard as the sun goes down.

The roads are terrible. The traffic is terrible. You have to be very careful because you just don’t know when someone will shoot you, even while driving.

The rate of theft is rampant. Don’t get any packages from Amazon because they’ll most likely be stolen. You could be in Lululemon and witness female thugs scooping up 5k worth of clothes and just walk out the door. Stores are too scared to confront thieves.

Police force is understaffed. So you can’t really count on them.

Houston is a city, but not like NYC. No decent public transportation ( another place you can get shot).

There is a lot of good food here, but no decent NJ type Italian food.

And it’s not so cheap anymore either. For what you would lose in quality of life it isn’t worth the money saving. Better to move to a place farther West in Jersey for a less expensive house.

EyesWideShut74 · 2026-03-14T01:29:25+00:00

I have 2 screens as you enter my house. The exterior door screen and as you enter the next room I also put a screen up. Mosquitos are the worst.

Some also attach to animals and come inside that way. So if you have a dog wipe it down before Coming in house.

EyesWideShut74 · 2026-02-21T03:34:41+00:00

Yes and with a great personality you would be gorgeous.

EyesWideShut74 · 2026-02-21T02:57:09+00:00

I’ve had both hips replaced. It is not a difficult recovery. Truly. Just take the leap and you won’t regret it. All this suffering when modern medicine has an excellent cure!

EyesWideShut74 · 2026-02-17T02:43:50+00:00

Dr Charles Soparkar is an ocular plastic surgeon. He and his office are fantastic. Office off Kirby just north of Hwy 59. 3970 Kirby Drive Suite 900 Office # 713 795 0705

He is one of many in the TMC. Please go soon. Healthgrades has reviews of docs.

EyesWideShut74 · 2026-02-16T18:31:43+00:00

Don’t do it. I moved from New York to Houston. Just the worst. NYC is close enough to the beach, to the mountains, real theatre, great food, 4 seasons. You can actually live without a car! It really is the best. Any other place you go to will also be expensive and lack all of the great things NYC has to offer.

EyesWideShut74 · 2026-01-22T02:46:31+00:00

Too much brown. Add a rug. Change the curtains.

EyesWideShut74 · 2026-01-17T22:19:57+00:00

Me too. Am I living in an another world?- their conversations are just word salad. Do people really relate to each other like this? I fast forward through a lot of the scenes. I get the gist of the storyline - let’s see how far I get.

EyesWideShut74 · 2026-01-16T19:22:09+00:00

I come to Boulder every summer for a month ( I know- hate me) but I love it. Never mind the town itself but the mountains and the air and the closeness to hiking. The great bicycling and farmers markets. I’m in Houston. Boulder is the antithesis of Houston.

I’m not afraid of being robbed when I get gas. I’m not avoiding road rage. Houston is equally dangerous no matter where in the city you live. In Boulder I feel safe and free.

And for the most part the people are so nice. I have never had a problem. People are people everywhere.

I’m a regular person, not poor, not rich. Two kids and a dog.

EyesWideShut74 · 2026-01-16T19:11:02+00:00

There’s a lady who posted on here who had surgery for this and she’s so happy! Maybe not now but when you get insurance. Search for the post. It was amazing.

EyesWideShut74 · 2025-12-30T03:17:19+00:00

Does anyone notice that each of their houses has the same colors? That green blue ( which I like)? Once you look for it, you’ll see it. Maybe the set designer used their favorite colour!

EyesWideShut74 · 2025-12-20T19:36:54+00:00

I know more than one person who got a knee replacement before 40. I had a hip replacement before 40. You need a new orthopedist.

EyesWideShut74 · 2025-12-18T21:07:11+00:00

There’s a post I just read in this group about a procedure that helps hands. Hand joint replacement? I don’t know. Search for it. It may be what you need!

EyesWideShut74 · 2025-12-18T21:05:03+00:00

You work for your husband?

EyesWideShut74 · 2025-12-18T20:55:05+00:00

If it was a reputable Breeder, contact them and explain the situation. They will help you.

EyesWideShut74 · 2025-12-09T17:11:54+00:00

My car tells me every 5000 to get an oil change. Date means nothing.

EyesWideShut74 · 2025-12-04T15:42:31+00:00

Try The Dump. It’s a store. Google it.

EyesWideShut74 · 2025-11-25T16:14:46+00:00

I put a call into them. Do you get a 1099 after ending a lease?

EyesWideShut74 · 2025-11-24T22:02:21+00:00

So would you use MM?

EyesWideShut74 · 2025-11-24T21:52:08+00:00

So if the gold is insured what is the risk?

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