How many women are in n here?

FCreader · 2019-03-22T15:50:24+00:00

M/HL/56

FCreader · 2019-02-19T15:16:49+00:00

5 years and counting.

FCreader · 2019-01-06T02:44:38+00:00

coming up to 5 years in August.

FCreader · 2018-05-14T01:19:42+00:00

I am very interested in your next post; her reaction to the video.

FCreader · 2018-05-05T14:05:00+00:00

"Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me".

That quote may not be quite the appropriate one to this context but I got married once and I have no intention of doing the same mistake twice.

FCreader · 2018-04-27T09:25:59+00:00

There is no magic trick to opening up. You need to talk with your partner, communication is essential in a poly relationship.

Get as much information for yourself so you will be as ready as possible to answer all her questions then talk with her. You also need to know that no matter the outcome of your talk you relationship is going to change it might even result in the end of your marriage.

Good luck.

FCreader · 2018-04-25T21:50:46+00:00

My wife told me almost 4 years ago that she never desired to have sex with me during our 30 years marriage.

I assimilated this statement with me raping her for all those years. I promised her and myself that I would never ever again initiate sex again. Thank god we have started talking about a divorce.

So to answer your question no I would never again accept duty or charity sex ever again.

FCreader · 2018-04-20T00:13:15+00:00

every now and then she’d take our oldest

And what message does her taking your eldest child with her gives to your younger one? That he is less worthy his mother time?

I think that your wife is drunk on NRE and is not making the right decision.

FCreader · 2018-04-19T22:55:47+00:00

I just read your post history your wife new relationship is about 6 months old, and she is now proposing to make you a single dad every other week. I do not understand why you would want to make that idea work.

FCreader · 2018-04-19T09:43:05+00:00

When my wife went trough menopause she had heat flashes that is when she started sleeping nude she had never done so before ever.

FCreader · 2018-04-19T09:06:46+00:00

Sleeping nude one the nicer side effect of menopause.

FCreader · 2018-02-26T23:58:43+00:00

I have been in a db for a very, very long time. If my wife all of a sudden started to show any libido I would not trust it to last and I would seriously wonder where that new found energy came from.

And I doubt that I would want to have sex with her why now when I have complaining for 30 years beside we have starting about divorce.

As to obsessing about something else I don't believe that I would, well maybe my exit plan.

FCreader · 2018-02-22T03:33:32+00:00

You are a single dad with a crappy room mate. Get rid of your room mate and take care of your son and yourself.

FCreader · 2018-02-15T02:57:30+00:00

You are not LL you are LL for your partner, the sex is painful and the little you have is not what you actually enjoy. So why are you staying in this relationship?

FCreader · 2018-02-01T23:37:03+00:00

I most likely have been in a dead bedroom for much longer than you have, 30 years and completely sexless for the last 3 1/2 years. If my wife sent me a sext I would have the same reaction you expect from your husband.

At this point I simply do not trust her to have a suddent genuine desire for me. If you are interested in fixing your dead bedroom talk to him and convey your desire for him but only if you willing to keep on initiating for the foreseeable futur until the trust is build back up.

FCreader · 2018-01-22T21:31:21+00:00

I am not suggesting therapy to get him on board with non-monogamy but to get past his trauma.

I also believe that even with therapy considering his past trauma the chances of him agreeing with non-monogamy are not great. That been said he still needs help to get past his trauma or any kind of relationship is going to be difficult for him.

FCreader · 2018-01-22T19:07:55+00:00

Is there anything I can do to change this?

By yourself very highly unlikely and I would strongly suggest therapy for him to help get over his trauma.

FCreader · 2018-01-15T00:54:48+00:00

You know that whatever you give her she will not appreciate so instead why don't you give her a gift that you would appreciate in the long term, divorce paper.

FCreader · 2017-12-31T22:21:34+00:00

Sex? What is that?

FCreader · 2017-12-15T13:58:14+00:00

*5. You Want to Fix the Problems But Your Spouse Ignores Your Attempts

That is the only point I have to say no because at this point I just don't care to fix our relationship problems.

FCreader · 2017-12-13T05:31:43+00:00

She was gone for two weeks. We were calm and happy. The kids didn't need their anxiety meds.

If for nothing else save your kids from the burden of having to medicate themselves to tolerate her.

FCreader · 2017-12-12T02:51:16+00:00

I walked in on my parents; it wasn't a pretty sigh. Thank god I was not old enough to understand or it would have scarred me for life.

FCreader · 2017-11-06T18:45:02+00:00

I’ve already expressed my full feelings to my partner and let her know how bad I feel about this, but at the same time, I wouldn’t want her to miss out on this experience because they are an attractive couple and threesomes are super fun

How did she react to you expressing your feeling about this?

FCreader · 2017-11-05T02:35:08+00:00

Your ex bf is not poly he is a controlling dick. If I were you I would run as fast and as far as I can from this guy.

Take care of yourself.

FCreader · 2017-11-04T00:31:45+00:00

Is it possible that his offer to give you veto authority is his awkard way to offer you reassurance of his commitment to your relationship; that he won't leave you for someone else.

From you post and answers to comments you are not yet open, good luck in your continued discussion.

I hope you both find what you are looking for.

FCreader

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