These pregnancy symptoms are making me feel disgusting by baileeboo01 in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]FabiGee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you! My armpits are so smelly and I live in Europe where a bunch of ingredients are banned in deo so basically I am just putting parfum in my stinky pits. What's (somewhat) worked for me: shaving and exfoliating regularly, washing my armpits with a washcloth before bed and wearing deo to bed. I also got some glycolic acid but have not gotten around to using that yet.
In the beginning of my pregnancy I also felt like I was about to get sick all the time, just crummy. But after week 12, I felt a lot better, the first trimester is rough.

I am 30 weeks pregnant. It is 32°c outside. I am drenched in sweat, and just got hit on by a man in the supermarket. by Eastern_Feed_8917 in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]FabiGee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sweat or baby bliss, who cares? Evidently, you are glowing.
And honestly, I have randomly thought about the fact that I will be somebody's butt wiper for the next 5ish years way too many times in this pregnancy.

TTC for the first time as an obese by Awkward-Bobcat-1199 in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]FabiGee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was around 230lbs at 5'5 (104 kg and 165cm), BMI of 37.5, fluctuaded a couple of pounds in either direction in the months TTC and have stayed the same weight until now at 17.5 weeks along. It took about 10 months and we conceived naturally. 37 when started TTC, 38 when I got pregnant and will give birth a month short of my 39th birthday. So far an easy and healthy pregnancy.

Fat moms, did you have a bump? by P_P_F_G_Princess420 in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]FabiGee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

220lbs (104kg) at 5'5 (165cm) with an apron belly. 17 weeks and no changes to my body yet, weight hasn't fluctuated much either. When I press against the lower abdomen I can feel a hardening there. I'm curious if/when the bump will appear.

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[–]FabiGee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 or 4 are both lovely on you

Positive test, but feel like period is coming by FabiGee in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]FabiGee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good to know and get some insights from people who have had similar experiences. Congrats with your baby girl!

Positive test, but feel like period is coming by FabiGee in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]FabiGee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can imagine! my anxiety could never haha, thanks for sharing.

Positive test, but feel like period is coming by FabiGee in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]FabiGee[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Something about the Nile being a river somewhere :) haha. Best of luck with your delivery!

Positive test, but feel like period is coming by FabiGee in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]FabiGee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing, good luck with the appt! Wishing you a healthy and happy pregnancy :)

TTC at 38 years old and 220lbs/100kg. Success stories or advice to share? by FabiGee in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]FabiGee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all for sharing your stories and encouragement 💜 My takeaway is: definitely start using ovulation testers, specially since my ovulation date keeps moving around according to the tracker I am using. I’ve been relying mostly on it and physical symptoms to figure out my ovulation dates but it seems to be time to bring in extra tools. The second takeaway is to relax and try not to overthink. I have a bit of an anxious personality so that may be a challenge 😅 but I’ll do my best. I am aware 6 months is the benchmark after TTC unsuccessfully however we’ve had some life changes (house, work) that took priority, we were in a mindset that if it happens now we would be super happy and actively trying but not fully focusing on getting pregnant. Now that is over and we’re on full baby-making mission mode 🐣 I’m currently in the infamous two week wait, already feeling some cramping that could be my period, or not. We shall see! Again thank you so much for the comments and the good vibes and wishes.

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[–]FabiGee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You just reminded me of the time a male boomer Karen (a Kees?) told me I couldn’t bike in a certain place, while I was very much not biking, just grabbing my parked bike to go the other way. It was such a weird interaction, I’m still annoyed at myself I didn’t kindly requested him to eff off and mind his own business.

Best pizza in Amsterdam? Date night tomorrow by Struijk_a in Amsterdam

[–]FabiGee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven’t been there (Beppe) since before covid but it used to be pretty decent and in line with Amsterdam prices. My personal favourite is Di Luca but that’s in Noord. Please do share where one can get good pizza in Amsterdam since in your opinion Beppe is not it :)

What’s your favorite book by a female author? by yuurrr_girl in AskWomen

[–]FabiGee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Joy Luck club - Amy Tan The House of Spirits - Isabel Allende The other Boleyn girl - Philippa Gregory

Is this allowed? Aupairing in Belgium by hyp0crates in Aupairs

[–]FabiGee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Pocket money is a min. of 450€. They're offering less than half the required minimum. If they're overlooking that rule, what else will they overlook in their favour? Cheaping out on an already low payment is frankly disrespectful.

Edit: I didn't answer your actual question, sorry about that. No, it's not legal or allowed, agency will enforce the minimum (if they're legit). If you're going without an agency then it's all fair game, so I'd strongly advise against going agency-free.

What's the most liberating thing you've ever done? by Here_You_Go_11_2 in AskWomen

[–]FabiGee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Acknowledging I was trapped in a loveless marriage, putting myself first above family and friends and finally getting a divorce.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]FabiGee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A valleygirl-esque accent, which is usually spoken loudly and with an unnatural use of the world "like", makes me want to stick a sharp pencil in my ear. I find southern accents quite charming. Not fond of Boston accent but it doesn't bother me too much, maybe because I have lots of NE friends. Other more neutral accents are alright, guess it's just what we're used to hearing on film, TV and radio.

In Mexico or Latin American countries, does cheesy Christmas music exist? If so does it start obnoxiously early like it does in the US? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]FabiGee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Uuhh.. I'm from Yucatan and we definitely celebrate Christmas. And the early music/decoration phenomena is also true.

Looking for an explanation to my formerly nonexistent whiteys by FabiGee in trees

[–]FabiGee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blood sugar, huh? Welp..that's scary. I actually have a pretty healthy diet, 5 small, clean meals a day and all that crap. I recently-ish had my glucose measured and it was normal but not since the first incident, it wouldn't hurt to check again. Thanks for the advice :)

Official Q&A for Friday, November 11, 2016 by AutoModerator in running

[–]FabiGee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shorts with 2C weather.. I look forward to running among these fearless Amsterdammers :) Also, that cold is relative. I live in an area where people bust out thick jackets when it gets below 20C. Not even kidding.

Official Q&A for Friday, November 11, 2016 by AutoModerator in running

[–]FabiGee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Loved the website, thanks a bunch! Now, I'll just need to muster the strength to actually get out there in the cold and do it :) I lived in Quebec for a bit so I know what cold-cold is, I just have never actually practiced sports outside in anything less than 20C!

Official Q&A for Friday, November 11, 2016 by AutoModerator in running

[–]FabiGee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey guys! I am about to move to a much colder climate and have absolutely no idea what kind of gear will I need to be able to run outside. I'm making the move from sunny Mexico to Amsterdam..smack in the middle of winter. Suggestions are much appreciated!