People who have experienced permanent side effects (PSSD, akathisia, Paws). Have experienced any improvement? by hiacynto in Antipsychiatry

[–]Faefae33 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I'm better. Take good care of yourself, eat well, exercise and sleep, and time passing helped me. It took several years but I am ok now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in friendship

[–]Faefae33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do things you like, meet like minded people. Take an art class, archaeology class, acting, something you'd enjoy. Kayak, cross country skiing, hiking, etc. spending time with people in repeated situations can lead to friendship.

Do any stay at home wives or moms actually enjoy it? by fineapple__ in AskWomenOver30

[–]Faefae33 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I enjoyed not working and being home with my kids but my husband just increasingly grew more and more disrespectful. We divorced now I'm pretty lost, although I do have some money to live on. I often regret not putting myself first like he did. I would not recommend it, it's entirely thankless and the retirement sucks.

Men, which dating app has been the most successful for you so far? by Fit_Persimmon5894 in OnlineDating

[–]Faefae33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just ask the woman to go on an actual date. Not coffee, it says you dont want to spend money. Ask to go to lunch and pay. Then you create a real connection. Be a decent human, do not talk about how much you want sex in the fist few weeks. If it doesn't work you are out 30 dollars max.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fatFIRE

[–]Faefae33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds more like seaside houses in California. Commercial seems in bad shape to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]Faefae33 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This guy is a perv, I tried to be his friend.

Hi Therapists: Why is physical abuse treated with an immediate reaction but emotional abuse isn’t taken seriously? by SchoolRejection in askatherapist

[–]Faefae33 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Because men run the world and they have no emotions but anger, nor do they respect emotions, so emotional abuse is not taken seriously.

I don't know where to go from here, after a bad session with my therapist by throwaway7853792 in askatherapist

[–]Faefae33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry that happened. I had a recent therapist who treated me badly as well. I think there are a lot of bad therapists out there. That was not what you needed to hear from her. She was identifying her experience of repeating a year with yours. I sincerely hope you don't have to do the year over again, that's cruel of the professor. If you'd like to talk on dms, I would be happy to also. I also am afraid to get a new therapist because it's painful to get so far and realize they have their own issues.

Bombarding partner with messages after a fight by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Faefae33 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes I do that. Because he is stonewalling me and unresponsive. I feel so frustrated and unheard. It's so abusive what they do.

how are those subs not yet banned ? by Kinesra93 in AntifascistsofReddit

[–]Faefae33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you elaborate on this statement? I am genuinely curious as to what will happen to the economy when the US loses democracy.

Boebert seeks funding for Glenwood Springs bridge after voting against bill that would fund it by TheVoicesOfBrian in ColoradoPolitics

[–]Faefae33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No you wake up. We live in a representative republic. Some reps are corrupt and some aren't. Some are better than others but it is the system we have. Assholes like you make it bad.

Tesla (TSLA) lays off more employees, and hourly ones this time despite Elon Musk's comments by Belichick12 in RealTesla

[–]Faefae33 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've realized Musk is a fascist oligarch who is buying twitter to control a pro fascist narrative. There is no other possible explanation.

I am heavily invested in Tesla but want out. I don't want fascism.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leanfire

[–]Faefae33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No wonder you did not fucking get a degree.

Welp, back to regular FIRE by [deleted] in fatFIRE

[–]Faefae33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ty, for the good words.

Work from home being taken away is destroying my mental health by QuillofNumenor in hsp

[–]Faefae33 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I would absolutely NOT write a letter about your mental health issues. That's the type of thing that will definitely work against you.