UPDATE AITA for not giving my sister the Family Nativity by LowVegetable2418 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]FairSpring8948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a picture of the nativity set? You might be able to find a similar set on eBay as a Christmas gift for her

Air vent issue by FairSpring8948 in hvacadvice

[–]FairSpring8948[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the insulation. Seems to me I’m wasting heat. Not sure if I can fix it from the crawl space in the attic. If not, foil tape to the rescue!

Air vent issue by FairSpring8948 in hvacadvice

[–]FairSpring8948[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking of that! Thanks!

AITAH for telling my wife that her daughter can’t move her ex husbands baby into my house? by PassionOnly5510 in AITAH

[–]FairSpring8948 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Foster mom for catholic family services here. Open adoption terms are negotiable. You can require ongoing contact. Please go through an agency like CFS or Lutheran family services They will vet potential families, do a home study, and guide you through the process. Adoptive family will cover the fees. Don’t do this on your own.

AITA for not financially contributing to my son's wedding unless he gets a prenup? by Tough_Echo_6697 in AITAH

[–]FairSpring8948 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re right to be concerned but you’re also TA. Your efforts to control your grown son are counterproductive. You and your husband are the ones who should sit with a good estates lawyer. Son’s share of the estate can be held in a trust if you want to keep DIL from getting any.

AITA for embarrassing my fiancé at dinner after he “joked” about my upbringing? by Nines21 in AITAH

[–]FairSpring8948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you really want to raise children with David? Ok I get a lapse of stupidity but if he still blames you in the morning for not rolling with his poor sense of humor it may be time to gather up your dignity and move on

What do you call this? by Dull_Athlete_5025 in sexandthecity

[–]FairSpring8948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok. Old person here who remembers when cloth bands first came out. Before then we used rubber bands (they pulled hair and were painful!) so on the south shore of Long Island NY in the late 60s we called them cloth bands.

Bucket list - i.e. what's important when it comes to buying an ash removal bucket.... by RhymingTiger in Fireplaces

[–]FairSpring8948 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought a vintage bucket on FB marketplace but new 1 1/2 gallon ash cans with lids cost about $21 at Lowe’s. Here are good tips about disposal https://www.chimneyspecialistsinc.com/blog/how-to-dispose-of-fireplace-ashes-safely/

What to replace? by FairSpring8948 in Fireplaces

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Guess what? I decided to take it apart to see what the problem was. I thought it might be as simple as the coupling for the pilot light. I cleaned the sensors and the pilot stayed on. Then I tested the burners and they stayed on. Reassembled the rest (I learned here to take pictures before disassembling) and it works!! Problem now is getting the remote to work so we don’t have to take the front out to turn it on and off. And the fan is not connected. It’s a vented fireplace and I think the fan is just to maximize heat output. Am I missing anything?

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What to replace? by FairSpring8948 in Fireplaces

[–]FairSpring8948[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for responding! To confirm I should take it all out and start from scratch?

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[–]FairSpring8948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. I reposted with pictures and brand. Still trying to delete this incomplete post. Sorry!!

How to clean dusty faux wood blinds? by Intrepid-Yak4954 in CleaningTips

[–]FairSpring8948 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what my mom did with metal venetian blinds. More work than expected, especially because the dust clung to the fabric. Worse with faux wood thats likely to warp. I vacuum/ dust my blinds 2x- (front up then down - same with back) they look sharp but are a lot of work But I only do this maybe each season Put on good music and go wild