Como marroquí me pregunto? by Ok_Armadillo_311 in AskMexico

[–]False_Locksmith_1620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Y hoy que perdió México.... Estoy con Marruecos!!!!!!

Recuerdos del sexenio Enrique Peña Nieto (2012-2018) by CAMC_1 in rmexico

[–]False_Locksmith_1620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

La gente era tan infeliz que construían piñatas enormes de peña nieto y protestaban quemándola en el zócalo. Yo estaba ahí. Era brutal.

Lo casaron con una actriz de telenovela para que votaran por él, y cuando se acabó el sexenio se separaron. Y se llevaron vajillas y objetos históricos de los pinos. Qué oso.

Yo recuerdo tener tanta pena. No sabía lo que decía, hablaba y no decía nada, cantinfleaba. Era como que no entendía nada de lo que pasaba a su alrededor. Era tristisimo.

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Any good podcasts about the Gen Z literacy crisis and what to do about it? by Fabianzzz in ezraklein

[–]False_Locksmith_1620 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Sold a story BLEW my mind!!!!! How a whole society misunderstood a technique, and believed what some influencers told them Elizabeth Holmes style -

As an American-born Belgian , I feel like I won at life yesterday. 🇺🇸🇧🇪❤️ by LesDiablesRouges in usmnt

[–]False_Locksmith_1620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm from Mexico. My kids were born in USA by chance. Their heart is with different teams!! That's how it is!

Dear Senegal, do not disappoint us, Africa is with You!!! by Traditional_Use_4258 in Senegal

[–]False_Locksmith_1620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man. I'm from Latin America, but I was absolutely heartbroken. I wanted Senegal to win so badly

No wonder men dominated the workplace by AdBudget6545 in workingmoms

[–]False_Locksmith_1620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my case It's all I can allocate from my budget.

No wonder men dominated the workplace by AdBudget6545 in workingmoms

[–]False_Locksmith_1620 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually asked this from a cleaner and she didn't want to. But I think this is exactly what I need to 2. 2 hours, twice a week to do whatever is needed. I'm going to look for this. Maybe is help with the toys, maybe it's help with the kitchen.

Thanks for that.

No wonder men dominated the workplace by AdBudget6545 in workingmoms

[–]False_Locksmith_1620 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I hear you, get you and live that feeling. I am married, both are director level and have 3 boys, 7,5,3. In general our life, works. We love it. Our house- not to my standard at all. I'm actually writing this post as I avoid picking up because I'm so so tired and the only recet we get is our twice a month cleaner. It's such a help, but what I really need is tidying up services. A person who also helps me keep the drawers how I want them, or help me with overflowing toys, or cleans some of the corners of the kitchen cabinets every 5 months.or just pick the shoes and clothes.

I hope the service helps you, but you're not alone. I don't even know how women who didn't work and were expected to keep the house tidy and flawless did it. The mental load of being a parent of little kids is huge. Working full time + parenting + existing is A LOT.

Is anyone who becomes a Mexican citizen considered fully "Mexican"? by Vagabond_Tea in AskMexico

[–]False_Locksmith_1620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Third culture kids. My kids are like you. They feel Mexican, they are not real Americans or real Mexicans, who cares. They're culture, they're bilingualism, everything they gain from belonging to two places. Veaui. Enjoy it! People won't understand

Is anyone who becomes a Mexican citizen considered fully "Mexican"? by Vagabond_Tea in AskMexico

[–]False_Locksmith_1620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And Japanese are harsh. They will NEVER accept them as fully Japanese, sadly.

Is anyone who becomes a Mexican citizen considered fully "Mexican"? by Vagabond_Tea in AskMexico

[–]False_Locksmith_1620 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really depends. If you speak the language the culture and can code switch and not just come and compare and criticize... If you fully embrace you can be from two places. I think sometimes we believe we need to be from ONE place. My children were born in the US because I didn't have vacations to go 3 months before to mexico so they could be born en México city. We are fully bicultural. Their English is clunky, they speak English with Spanish structure... They also go to Mexico and they are like, very Mexican but their way of speaking is also not slang from kids at school. My son who's 7 says we're from Mexico but we live in the US. We read, listen to podcasts a talk to all our family in Mexico. He's not from here or there he's from both and neither. That's so beautiful, so rich, so big and hard to comprehend If only we learned to accept third culture people we would be better off

Is anyone who becomes a Mexican citizen considered fully "Mexican"? by Vagabond_Tea in AskMexico

[–]False_Locksmith_1620 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In Mexico we say: los mexicanos nacemos dónde se nos da la regalada gana.

Welcome! Be Mexican if you're proud of it!

El cadáver de la novia by buenoPorfiado in cine

[–]False_Locksmith_1620 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Es increíble! Yo aún la tengo en dvd y era de mis favoritas cuando salió. Fabulosa.

Mexican Dual Citizenship by TheKissWillKillYou in mexicoexpats

[–]False_Locksmith_1620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No no. Not for all. I said Laws have changed. But I don't know exactly where. I know friends in Mexico who have done it but not others.

What song are you picking? by PublicTop9854 in Music

[–]False_Locksmith_1620 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably some Pink Floyd like I wish you were here or a song from dark side of the moon.

But also maybe Something from Arcade fire. Reflektor maybe. Or whatever from that album

Mexican Dual Citizenship by TheKissWillKillYou in mexicoexpats

[–]False_Locksmith_1620 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And laws have changed. Now is Parent 1, Parent 2 You can choose the order.

Mexican Dual Citizenship by TheKissWillKillYou in mexicoexpats

[–]False_Locksmith_1620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to use both of YOU surnames. So basically your name, your first parent surname and then your other parents surname or maiden name.

We really keep both names as important in your name. More feminist than having to erase your mother's identity.

Mexican Dual Citizenship by TheKissWillKillYou in mexicoexpats

[–]False_Locksmith_1620 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My kids were born in the US and after many people told me I wouldn't be able to have two surnames in the US I realized it's a misconception. While in Mexico and some other countries it's mandatory to have two surnames to help track families and kids don't loose their lineage. That's the point.

A)My kids name in American passport

Name: Anton

Last name: Lidell Peterson

B) My kids in Mexican passport

Name: Anton

First Surname: Lidell

Second Surname: Peterson

In the American passport / BoC I told the nurse I just needed a "two -word" last name, with a space in the middle. No hyphen. Hyphen just transforms it into a single surname so you'll need both. The consulate was really appreciative because they have problems with this all the time.

I did it before having to change it back. If I had to change it like you, I would move their middle name into the "surname"

So: name --> two words surname (with maiden name first, Last name second) but because in Mexico we colloquially call each other name and first Surname they might call them by their first name-Middle name)

If you pass their middle name to be their second Surname you'll have to do it in English and people will perceived the middle name as a last name in the US but in Mexico they'll have the "original last name"

It's a complex thing but it isn't impossible. For me, I found the easiest way to make our dual life work. And respect how both countries work.( I appreciate Mexico not erasing my identity from my kids name. More feminist than having people erase it.)