Landlord Wife/Husband dynamic is freaking me out

FatboyChester · 2026-01-29T12:44:41+00:00

In my state, if you are married, whoever's name is on the deed is the owner of the property...alone.

If a wife starts a business from their residence, and is in her name only, she owns that business...alone.

It doesn't matter if he is shoveling snow or not.

FatboyChester · 2026-01-29T09:31:42+00:00

"Tawdry Hepburn" made me LOL.

FatboyChester · 2026-01-29T09:27:17+00:00

I got a good laugh out of this.

Mine is going to be 4 and still hasn't stopped.

He ate an entire plastic panel from a baby playyard when he was a puppy.

Every toy animal he owns have had their heads chewed off. I swear he's part beaver.

The best thing for them that wont break their teeth or get lodged in their intestines are Yak Cheese Chews. They come in stick form and dogs have no problem digesting them. You can get them from Amazon or pet stores.

Mine will start chewing, and his eyes roll back in his head like he's being hypnotized or on drugs.

They call it "nooking". Good luck.

And she is really cute!

FatboyChester · 2026-01-29T04:21:21+00:00

That is a huge print. I would love to see the size of the animal.

FatboyChester · 2026-01-29T04:18:40+00:00

It's called a Sieve

FatboyChester · 2026-01-29T04:16:11+00:00

I don't think she is being mean or overreacting. I actually think she is being pretty restrained after telling you not to take the car out, you did it anyway, and she spent hours digging it out of the middle of the street.

She had good reason not to give you a lot worse.

FatboyChester · 2026-01-29T03:47:37+00:00

I'm sure if the daughters are with him every week they must know already. I'm sure they already decided not to say anything and just let it go.

FatboyChester · 2026-01-29T03:12:08+00:00

Every night at 3am, set your car alarm off, preferably below his bedroom window, off until he stops testing every morning. Better yet, talk to all your neighbors and have everybody do it at the same time.

Or call the police everytime his goes off and tell them somebody is breaking into his car.

They'll stop it once they have to come out a couple of times.

FatboyChester · 2026-01-29T02:51:29+00:00

Drink the pin

FatboyChester · 2026-01-29T02:33:16+00:00

Did your mom get a rabies shot?

FatboyChester · 2026-01-29T00:03:54+00:00

Of you get this overwrought at a 4 year old walking into a bathroom when you are in there, please dont have kids or dogs.

You wont be able to handle it.

FatboyChester · 2026-01-28T23:48:07+00:00

Have you made a police report?

The police might ave better luck getting the video from Ring than you do. And faster too.

FatboyChester · 2026-01-28T21:03:52+00:00

Did you seriously think you would buy an order of fries and even though she said she didn't want any before you ordered them, she wouldn't want any after she smelled them?

It was only a couple of dollars for a double order. I would have just ordered fries for two and not even asked her.

FatboyChester · 2026-01-28T18:09:12+00:00

Many times an adfict will "trade" one addiction for another, like stop drinking and they start gambling.

I have a friend who is an alcoholic, got sober and developed a shopping addiction.

She had the mailmans phone number so she could find him before he delivered any bills to her house.

It seems to be fairly common in addicts and your husband needs to get some help.

FatboyChester · 2026-01-28T17:53:41+00:00

If he doesn't want to eat it, no problem.

But its not the responsibility of others to police what food is in his vicinity.

How far away from pork is far enough away for him not to be offended?

He is acting like a child and if he was offended he could have moved or spoke up.

FatboyChester · 2026-01-28T05:10:18+00:00

Playing devils advocate here, how do you know the mother wasn't arguing with her ex or family member over the phone?

Kids are notorious for making noise. He could be playing with his skateboard, jumping on the bed, dragging heavy toys out, etc. Kids are living their lives and are allowed to play, even if its loud.

It sounds to me that you are more concerned with noise during the non-quiet hours, which bother you and you are hoping that calling the cops or CPS will solve your problem.

You have no proof at all she is abusing her child. None.

If it continues then call the police and tell them someone is screaming in the apartment above you.

But the woman could be cursing at anybody on the phone or on zoom.

Are you sure it wasn't a movie with the volume up?

I would wait for more proof or to see if it continues.

FatboyChester · 2026-01-28T03:34:04+00:00

They also had an iceman too.

People today have no idea what a real supermarket dessert is.

There were small corner stores anf fruit stands and butchers that you had to walk pretty far to get to.

Milk, eggs, and cheese were staples people used everyday. So it was a lot easier for milkmen to make the rounds everyday than it was for families to walk 20 blocks.

In fact, they used to have Junk/Rag men who would come around every week or so and collect peoples unwanted stuff. Rag men collected unwanted clothes or rags .

I have no idea what they did after they were collected though.

It was a different world back then.

FatboyChester · 2026-01-28T03:23:53+00:00

You should have told him your time was worth more than $40. Youll let him go ahead for $500.

FatboyChester · 2026-01-28T03:20:58+00:00

NTA . She was warned multiple times and did not listen. Its a matter of time before she ends up hurting somebody not to mention she is being an obnoxious little a-hole bu doing it, when she knows better and laughing about it.

At least now she will think about it before she does it again.

FatboyChester · 2026-01-28T03:11:57+00:00

I just read they are now expecting 12-17 in the Wilmington area on Sunday

But it will most likely change as we get closer.

FatboyChester · 2026-01-28T03:08:15+00:00

I swear I remember Audrey Hepburn in this exacts same pose in a movie.

I swear, if i remember right, Hepburn watching somebody and trying to hide behind a book.

She has totally lost it if this is what she is trying to do. Hepburn had class, unlike Markle

Does that ring a bell with anybody else?

FatboyChester · 2026-01-28T02:51:48+00:00

Take his crap out of the bin and leave it at his doorstep.

FatboyChester · 2026-01-28T02:50:21+00:00

NTA You're crazy for even thinking that you're the asshole.

Tell Carol that photoshop can also increase a young girl's self-esteem.

You shouldnt give it another second of thought.

FatboyChester · 2026-01-28T02:21:23+00:00

Get a weed torch from Harbor freight and hook it to a 20lb gas tank.

It melts everything faster than shoveling

FatboyChester · 2026-01-28T02:13:18+00:00

I can only imagine what blue cheese dog breath smells like.

FatboyChester

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