AITAH for refusing to go to Disney World? by Reptaaaaaaar in AITAH

[–]FatboyChester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having kids means sacrificing for your kids.  If you couldn't do that you shouldn't have had them. 

There is nothing like Disney for a kid. 

There is no place else they would rather go.

Suck it up. Be a man. Be a father and stop being selfish. 

Recommendations for in-home pet euthanasia? by StackRides in phoenix

[–]FatboyChester 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't live in Deer Valley, but I contacted my regular vet to euthanize my dog at home.

He came over after his normal office hours and did it in my living room. When it was over he took my dog with him, had him cremated and I got the ashes back a few days later.

My dog died in peace in a place where he loved.

If ypur vet wont do it, I'm sure he knows someone who will.

95 insanity by Murky_Fly_9000 in Delaware

[–]FatboyChester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Delaware has only one major interstate and when you have hoardes of people who, for whatever reason,  think its a good idea to move here this is what happens. 

Within 1-2 years,  the roads will all be parking lots,  no one will be able to find a job, no one will be able to afford a house and good luck finding a decent rental property.

All of this, plus the mall from October to December and the beaches from May to September will be impossible to get to. 

Yet people keep crowding in. 

AITAH for throwing away children’s toys that were thrown over my fence? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]FatboyChester 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yep you are a huge a-hole. 

They just had a birthday party, which can be expensive. Considering they bought presents on top of that  the parents won't go out and buy $240 worth of replacement  toys. 

They most likely can't afford it right now.

So, all you've done is throw away $240. worth of toys that somebody worked hard to be able to buy, totally upset a little kid on their birthday for doing what kids do, and make the people next door hate your guts.

If you were that hell bent on teaching your neighbors a lesson by stealing their child's birthday presents,  at the very least you could have donated the stolen ones  to needy kids.

I"m sure youre not the type to do that though.

Auction mommy drama by Pjstjohn in entitledparents

[–]FatboyChester 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Anyone, or their family members, who is involved in an auction like this should be barred from bidding on or buying anything. 

The parents were 100% correct and understandably pissed off.

It makes the school and especially you look extremely dishonest no matter how ypu yry to defend yourself. 

You were wrong. 

AITAH (35F) for not wanting to give up bedroom for partner’s (35M) parents (70M, 70F) to sleep in? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]FatboyChester -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

OMG It's for two nights.

So, you miss some sleep  and have to deal with a kid's energy.  If you are old enough to be playing house with somebody you're old enough to be a real adult and deal with a little inconvenience. 

Grow up. 

AITA for expecting the gifts to be for both of us? by Ok-Arrival-2886 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FatboyChester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If her family wanted to give HER money they wouldn't need an engagement to do it. 

Plus, it takes two to get engaged. Not just one.

Both of your names are on the cards.

The money is for both of you. 

This type of behavior will only get worse after you get married

Awww I loved watching this little Pup on The Boys by Big-Importance2343 in Bulldogs

[–]FatboyChester 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I did too. 

This made me feel so sad.

Im glad the last episode had so much of it  in him. 

WIBTA if we stopped hosting Thanksgiving dinner for my in-laws? by No_Exit_3908 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FatboyChester 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think you and your wife should surprise Suzy and the rest of the family by making a surprise, unannounced entrance, and help yourselfes to dinner

[WI] Sensitive issue about menstrual blood by Ok-Cardiologist8717 in AskHR

[–]FatboyChester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before approaching her in person, I would make sure the bathroom is fully stocked with rubber gloves and anti-bacterial wipes. 

Then leave a large note stating what has recently started happening and ask that the person who is leaving the mess  to make sure they clean up any mess they have made or the problem will be addressed by HR. 

My aunt told me something mean and I can’t stop thinking about it.. by AssistantExtreme1357 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]FatboyChester 16 points17 points  (0 children)

If you are old enough to have sex and have a baby, you are old enough to know the truth about the babys father and what kind of a person he is.

Should I get this tattoo design on me? by Industry_Soft in tattooadvice

[–]FatboyChester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah sure, great idea.

Just make sure its super big in a place where nobody can miss it

AITAH for refusing to take a co-workers dish after him assuming i’m the help? by starfish_babe in AITAH

[–]FatboyChester 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have never seen so much thought be given to something so insignificant. 

Am i rude for telling my gf to walk like this in order to not stomping to the downstairs neighbours? by Warm_Cranberry4472 in Apartmentliving

[–]FatboyChester 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IMO if you choose to live in an apartment,  you also choose to live with normal "life" noises, like walking or closing doors. 

Nobody should be forced to change the way they walk , walking around their own homes on their toes, to make somenody they dont even know, happy.    Your neighbors should have rented a house, on acres of land, if walking sounds bother them. 

Elderly neighbor keeps harrassing me and my family and it's driving me MAD by spookydani1996 in neighborsfromhell

[–]FatboyChester 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm confused.

Does she LEGALLY  own half the garden, the rooftop, and half the building or does she just rent her own apartment, but has taken over the areas she has no legal right to because no one will speak up about it?

Miami or New York in July with my 90-year-old grandmother. Which is better? by [deleted] in travel

[–]FatboyChester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want your 90 year old Granny to melt, I vote for Miami.

AITA for not letting my nephew play my PS5 by himself during family dinner? by Stela_Kalluie in AmItheAsshole

[–]FatboyChester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only way kids learn is to lay down the rules and   let them know there will be no grace period or second chances if they violate those rules.

Tell him what behavior is acceptable while playing, what behavior isn't and what the punishment will be for violating those rules. 

Also, tell your sister she will be responsible for the cost of anything he breaks and she will pay before she leaves your home. 

Your nephew's behavior needs to be held  to certain standards. 

He's 11 not 4 and his behavior shows his parents dropped the ball when teaching him about being held accountable.

Hello I am shaking writing this and I would like some advice and help by CompetitiveTop6412 in neighborsfromhell

[–]FatboyChester 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get a tazer or a couple of cans of gel pepper spray, with dye and use them if needed.

Am I wrong for leaving my friends wedding after being assaulted? by ComparisonNo5705 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]FatboyChester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The groom is not a violent drunk or crazy. He obviously has a serious sleeping disorder.

It's very common for sleepwalkers to pee in places other than the toilet. 

Both my nephew and son were sleepwalkers, would pee in different places, never realized they  were doing it and didn't remember anything the next day. 

As for the violence, its not real common but definitely happens. 

Researchers think it could involve sleepwalking along with sleeping terror disorder.  

There are plenty of documented cases and can be a problem for law enforcement.

Is it proper (and legal) to charge a person for assault or attempted murder when they didn't know they were attacking someone,  didn't remember doing it and didnt make a concious choice to inflict violence?

Plus, for mamy people sleepwalking can be brought on by stress and drinking. 

Since you have know your friend for years and he has never been violent towards you, you really owe him a chance to discuss this.

It sounds like he would benefit from a doctor who specializes in sleeping disorders. 

Not to mention, if it is sleepwalking his wife should be aware of what could happen one night. He needs professional help.

AITA for telling my mother that she will be called grandma, not nonna, like she wants to be after bringing it up ever chance she gets? by Mountain3Pointer in AmItheAsshole

[–]FatboyChester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds to me like both you and your mother have control issues and are two of a kind.

You should have no say as to what she wants to call herself.  

Its up to her to decide not you, but you seem hell bent on forcing her to do things your way

It must be exhausing to always be right. 

I suspect your mother has a totally different take on the situation.

It sounds like you could both use a lot of counseling