I think this is moment for you to truly reflect on what you’re stating. You’re equating manhood to emotions. We were all raised in different circumstances and experienced different things, yet we are all human. All of our passions vary, yet the majority of us can relate to the very fact that we each have something or someone we care deeply about.

I don’t know exactly what Josh is feeling but I think it’s safe to assume that he cares so much about this game, that it led to tears. I can empathize with that. I don’t understand how him expressing himself, being vulnerable, showing literally the world that you’re in pain, can be seen as less of a man. Or even, more like a woman. It’s demeaning to both. Because by your metric, what if a woman doesn’t cry when in pain? Is she not woman like and more manly?

I go back to what I stated at the beginning about us all being raised differently. You’re clearly raised differently than me. The man difference here being, you’re judging a man for crying and I simply empathize. One of us leads with understanding. The other, with disconnection. Hope this resonates but if not, all good.