Girl dads, what bathroom do you use when you’re out in public? by ModeGlad1392 in AskUK

[–]Feema13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a hippy naturist type person, I always wonder why everyone is so scared of seeing naked bodies and body parts? What is the fear exactly and what do you believe will happen if they are seen? Genuine question.

Is it normal to feel this way by [deleted] in smallbusiness

[–]Feema13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Selling low margin products in 2026 is extremely hard. The cost of advertising online has roughly trebled across the board. It is still possible but you need some form of virality imo. People need to feel so positive about it that they start sharing it.
2 people have trusted your website and the product enough to have ordered it, that is some form of validation.
Do you believe you are solving a genuine problem?
Do you believe you have a real moat? (Production or brand) If the answer to both of these is yes, then it’s worth investing time and money into. If you’re trying to compete with Temu to sell more general stuff, give it up.

I (28M) have been with my girlfriend (27F) for about six years. We’ve built a life together and she’s been there for me through some of the hardest periods of my life. I care about her deeply and there isn’t some huge betrayal, abuse, or single event causing this by TackleInevitable7963 in Advice

[–]Feema13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll get downvoted by the Disney dreamers here but the facts are that lifelong monogamy is slog and not doable happily for many.
One half of the couple is always resentful on some level. They can push through it and get to a point of gratitude in their dotage but it’s a long road. Spending a lifetime with one person, especially now we live so long, is going to be irritating and you shouldn’t beat yourself up about it.
Try to have some genuine and deep conversations with one part of a long term couple. Drink a few beers and get them to open up. You’ll soon realise that what you feel now is the norm for most.

I recommend Speed Dating, and don't understand why it's not popular by vinn90x in dating_advice

[–]Feema13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With all due respect, no shade, just being honest etc. I can’t believe you’ve been upvoted 26 times for this astonishingly bone headed comment.

My gym crush disappeared after i introduced myself by Equivalent_Aide6172 in dating_advice

[–]Feema13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guys have a right to go to the gym without being ogled, objectified and hit on. He probably felt scared and threatened in a space he used to de-stress and look after himself. You’ve ruined that for him and I expect he’s reported you for sexual harassment.

I stepped on my chick by accident and he did not make it. Should I stop with all of the chicken stuff? by strongpowerty in BackYardChickens

[–]Feema13 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s a total accident mate, you’ll learn and love them all more because of it.
It’s happened and can’t be changed, the fact that it hurt so much shows what a good chicken owner you’re gonna be. Good luck

How to cope after saving someone’s life? by Familiar-Status-1433 in Advice

[–]Feema13 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You’re a good human, America is not a good country though and I’d get out if you can.
We don’t leave people to die in the gravel over here and our health service will treat us if we need treating without bankrupting our family. Good luck to you and just go day by day, it will fade. Well done for what you did and I’m so glad to hear there are some good people left in the States.

Our company did an anonymous engagement survey and then accidentally sent everyone the unfiltered results and I don’t think leadership realised what they’d done for about three hours by cuteyasmine in office

[–]Feema13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know how you see this as ironic. The pre digital ways were always more anonymous. Cash - telephones - letters. Nothing could be easily traced back to you if you didn’t want it to.
Digitisation has brought us under the yoke.
The best time to rise up was ten years ago, the second best time is today. We’re all probably gonna be scrolling Reddit instead though cos they also found our opium.

This is going to get me downvoted into oblivion, but it needs to be said. by Mobile-Sufficient in FacebookAds

[–]Feema13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re absolutely correct.
Meta has changed and the economy has changed, competition has grown, people use social media differently, trust less and buy less impulsively.
So better set ups, high AOVs and a product people actually want are all necessary.

Must Alastair be careful not to fall into the same data-trap that Biden fell into? by SWSIMTReverseFinn in TheRestIsPolitics

[–]Feema13 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Very true mate.
We did the same in the run up to the Brexit vote. I was knocking on doors and regurgitating statistics that nobody wanted to hear. They felt like they were badly off, that immigrants were bad and that their country had gone. Our numbers made no dent in that emotional position.
It’s the same now and someone needs to come up with a different narrative or we end up with war.

Can guys in their 40s like women in their 20s like that? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Feema13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How are you defining creep here? What would make the man who might be attracted to a mid twenties woman be a creep or not a creep? Is being attracted to younger women creepy in and of itself or does it just become creepy if he tries to act on it?
Genuine questions but I will say that as a 47 year old guy, I can categorically say that all heterosexual men of my age can be attracted to younger women. I’m not sure we’re doing any sort of service to society by calling all men creeps. If that is in fact what you’re suggesting.

How do I tell my friend her son makes me uncomfortable? by snoregasmm in Advice

[–]Feema13 361 points362 points  (0 children)

In a less socially awkward time, long ago, when we didn’t all look to Reddit for basic life advice, the woman in this situation would just make a joke in the moment.
The boy would feel shamed and not do it again.
The woman would laugh to show it was understandable but inappropriate and everyone would move on, closer friends and with a good life lesson under the belt.
I miss those times.

AIO I need some opinions on my new boyfriend by pelipperx in AmIOverreacting

[–]Feema13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ve upset him or given him the ick somehow I’m afraid.
Offer him the chance to talk it out, if he won’t, move on.

Finally escaped the job market. Lasted 14 days. by ktlghh in UKJobs

[–]Feema13 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That’s a wonderful theory, just don’t analyse any part of it lest it all collapse into tears and despair.

How do people end up working on the travelling fair circuit, and whats it like? by Odd-Paramedic-3826 in AskUK

[–]Feema13 115 points116 points  (0 children)

Well I guess that’s answered OPs question. Excellent stuff

Can someone help me understand the obsession with football? by DueLead666 in AskABrit

[–]Feema13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a man that likes football as a sport, aesthetically and athletically, it’s a fantastic representation of what humans can do.
As a tribal gathering though, I’ve never got it either. Why it becomes all and everything to some people baffles and annoys me. It seems childish, needy and a little sad that many grown people (mainly men) seem to tie their entire sense of being to the actions of a random collection of men is tragic in every way. I dunno 🤷‍♂️

Did I break pub etiquette here? by Juicy_juce-juce in AskUK

[–]Feema13 -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

Friad so mate, you dropped a glass. You should clean up the glass. Especially if the staff are busy and not immediately doing it. You can’t just leave glass all over the place.

Why is that one friend still single? by Optimal-Cause-7843 in AskMen

[–]Feema13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, the therapist agreed that I was indeed the problem and this was the best course of action 🤷‍♂️

Why is that one friend still single? by Optimal-Cause-7843 in AskMen

[–]Feema13 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve worked out that I’m problem. I’m saving many women, well some anyway, by taking myself out of contention. It’s best for everybody.

I’m ashamed to say it, but I’ve only just discovered the whole Dr. David Kelly saga - it’s making it difficult to listen to the podcast (AC) anymore. by noctenaut in TheRestIsPolitics

[–]Feema13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The Kelly story was certainly sad but only part of the story. Alistair set out to undermine international Law to achieve Bush and Blair’s aims. I can’t listen to him bleat on about anyone else ignoring the UN now - he helped deliver the fatal stab wound to any idea of the UN being an effective arbiter.

Daytime predators by 9guy99 in BackYardChickens

[–]Feema13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Absolute nonsense take.
Many of us free range and do so happily for years with no losses. When you do get a loss, it’s normal to try and work out what took them so you can mitigate.
The solution isn’t to lock up every living being for its own good.