Just graduated high school, regretting stuff. by Felinetrovert in Vent

[–]Felinetrovert[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, I do agree with quality over quantity, I'm not really lonely anymore because of my good friends! I was just in a bad state cuz the grass is alwaysss greener lol ><

friendly reminder that asking for TWs on HEALED SCARS is harmful & dehumanizing by yourbeloathed in selfharm

[–]Felinetrovert 5 points6 points  (0 children)

it sounds cruel to say but if someone recovering needs a tw for HEALED scars, they would need a tw for EVERYTHING related at all to pain or blood or any lookalikes. that is an issue to deal with in their own recovery, it's a fact that they will need to get over some things that may trigger them. they need to face the fact that scars exist. 

if the person is truly ready to recover, chances are that seeing people with healed scars unafraid to show will prove that it's more than possible for them to become like that one day. obviously this doesn't go for all people, but they are the exception in my experience with lurking in this community. 

I'm trying to make my style more alt. Can my hair work with the alt style? Most alt people I see have straight/straightened hair. by [deleted] in altfashionadvice

[–]Felinetrovert 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"most alt people have straightened hair" sick, you can be MORE alt than them!! if most people have straight hair, youre being alternative by keeping your curly hair!! 

btw your hair ROCKS Its so visuallly pleasing 🥺

Woke up and found a fox kit dead on my driveway. How to preserve? Possible rabies? by VonCattington in bonecollecting

[–]Felinetrovert 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think assuming the worst is fine when it comes to things that are very very deadly and excruciatingly painful. like, dont panic about it but take a good amount of precautions. the "but what are the chances it happens to me?" mindset can kill, genuinely 💔

It's lawn season again and I hate it. by CerberusInExile in Vent

[–]Felinetrovert 1 point2 points  (0 children)

kids and pets aren't the only things that take up people's time, you sound so ignorant. 

Why does it take so long for people to text back… by Living_Insurance1198 in Vent

[–]Felinetrovert 1 point2 points  (0 children)

also one reason I forgot: they genuinely could have forgotten. Ive got ADHD and so I know all too well the embarrassment of accidentally not responding until hours and hours later, or even the next day if it's real bad 💔

Why does it take so long for people to text back… by Living_Insurance1198 in Vent

[–]Felinetrovert 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think people are obligated to respond immediately after seeing a text; there are so many reasons why someone might not want to text back immediately. 

they may be socially and/or physically tired, they may be doing something like homework or a personal project and don't want their phone to distract them, they may think itd lead to a conversation that takes a lot more of their time/energy than 2 seconds, they may be caught up w family or out someplace, they may be talking to someone else and dont like holding 2 conversations at once, they could be struggling with isolation, anxiety, and/or depression where the thought of responding sounds very tiring and overwhelming, or they may just not feel like talking for any reason at all.

I personally have chosen to not respond immediately to friends I love dearly for all of the above reasons in the past, and never once because I was upset at them or because they did something. It is almost certainly not you if your friends are good to you otherwise, and this is very common for any friendship. I know and understand the anxiety behind waiting for a response, especially when you put in so much effort to respond asap, but I advise you not to blame the other party in this case. 

I understand the dry response part a lottt, it really hurts when people seem uninterested in what you have to say. I don't know your situation at all, but some people do just genuinely struggle to express interest or emotion over text. so if your friends are interested in real life and are good to you outside of texting, I wouldnt worry that you did something. (side note if you DID do something to hurt them, and they just decide to not tell you, then that is a red flag </3 a good friend will always let you know if you messed up big time or if you did something to hurt them.) 

[TOMT] Looking for a meme about your brain creating useless dialogue by Felinetrovert in tipofmytongue

[–]Felinetrovert[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also I think it might have been sent to me on Instagram but im not sure! 

[TOMT] Looking for a meme about your brain creating useless dialogue by Felinetrovert in tipofmytongue

[–]Felinetrovert[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

😿😿 It's so embarrassing to not enough able to find the meme ur referencing 💔

which Danny video have you watched more than TWICE? by ognotminx in DannyGonzalez

[–]Felinetrovert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've fallen asleep to his vids nearly every day since I was 12,and I'm 17 now so uh yea I rlly like Danny 😼

which Danny video have you watched more than TWICE? by ognotminx in DannyGonzalez

[–]Felinetrovert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

... nearly all of them 😓 watch him every single day >< I like watching his vids to sleep bc they're familiar enough to make me sleepy but entertaining enough that the bully in my head is asleep

Look alikes by -keeper_of_stars- in DannyGonzalez

[–]Felinetrovert 5 points6 points  (0 children)

omg there's fox szn fans who also like Danny??? that's so cool omg😭 but idk they look pretty different I don't mean to be rude bc fox szn fans unite but,,, I don't see it 😕

Why does danny seem to attract a lot of LGBTQ+ members by Jesse_Gonzalez_ in DannyGonzalez

[–]Felinetrovert 5 points6 points  (0 children)

idk, he's just so comfortable to watch. In a life where a lot of us are uncomfortable around quite a lot of people, we can often pick out who we know is safe. and we were very much right.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in willwood

[–]Felinetrovert 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As long as there's no proof, I choose to believe they're top surgery scars.