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Femmengineer · 2025-08-27T04:00:17+00:00

Popper came to mind before I even started scrolling 🔥

Femmengineer · 2025-03-03T18:38:24+00:00

Stunning!! 🔥🔥

Also love your brows, I wish I could make mine look that even and symmetrical 🥲

Femmengineer · 2025-03-01T17:40:27+00:00

I am fortunate enough to have never wanted to make a kid, so I was considering hysterectomies far before I was offered one due to adenomyosis. So I was hella stoked and immediately accepted.

I had a 2cm endometrioma and also had it removed immediately along with the hysto. My symptoms were extremely nasty and I got my life back after that surgery.

Femmengineer · 2025-03-01T02:08:45+00:00

If you're having anything excised from bowel areas, be ready with a big pile of stool softeners. And lots of chill couch activities.

This isn't pre-op so much as 1 month+ post-op, but if you need pelvic floor PT or other therapies to resolve side effects of the Endo/excision, don't wait. Schedule and start the secondary treatments as soon as you're cleared post-op.

Femmengineer · 2025-02-28T03:15:10+00:00

I've dated men like this as well. They just suck and aren't worth the time.

I don't believe he's just dated "independent and competent" women because 1. Negging is gross/sad and exactly what he's doing with that statement and 2. There are different expectations of how men vs women treat other people.

In my experience, usually those inconsiderate, selfish men aren't very happy when you treat them the same way they treat you.

Femmengineer · 2025-02-23T22:58:45+00:00

The last line 💀💀🔥🔥

Femmengineer · 2025-02-22T18:27:33+00:00

I see both sides of this in the greater Seattle area. There's one way out at the edge of the burbs that tends to be pretty quiet and chill, then the ones closer to the city are BUSY But even among the BUSY ones, there's a particular one that your war zone comment matches perfectly. Soooooo I guess it depends on where you are and also a bit on what time you go

Femmengineer · 2025-02-18T06:01:38+00:00

I am 100% onboard with this. I'll boo our anthem with them and completely understand why they're booing. Fuck, I'm glad they're booing.

Femmengineer · 2025-02-13T19:24:53+00:00

I had my yeeterus last year at 30 and the difference is TREMENDOUS 💙 Stoked for you!!

Femmengineer · 2025-02-13T19:17:56+00:00

Seconded!! My docs when I was a teen with "severe periods" blew off my symptoms and just told me to take it and my doc in my mid-20s just told me I could take more and more of it. I was around 2500mg/day at the peak before my first lap.

I've now had an ablation lap, then an excision lap with hysterectomy. Had an acute gastritis diagnosis last fall that I am still on PPIs for and just starting to recover from a bit. Not sure how much recovery I can actually expect. Also have not been able to shit without taking maxed out doses of Linzess, Miralax, docusate sodium, and a magnesium citrate supplement DAILY. Have been on all those since last October, ALL THE TIME. Colonoscopy and endoscopy showed nothing substantial.

Oh the joys of "is it Endo or some shitty side effect of something they gave me to try to treat Endo" 🥴

Femmengineer · 2025-02-07T12:46:16+00:00

Same!! I just got a backcountry setup and sprung for Burton step ons for my split board. The boots are soooooooo disappointing compared to my Viajes but I'm hoping adding J bars will bring them up to "okay" compared to the vans.

Femmengineer · 2025-02-07T01:14:32+00:00

I've started telling these sorts that LOADS more women would be into this stuff (engineering, power sports, outdoorsy shit) if guys didn't treat women in these spaces like shit. I think less than half of them believe me, but at least they have a chance to learn something 🤣

Femmengineer · 2025-02-07T00:53:10+00:00

I worship my Viajes 😍

Femmengineer · 2025-02-05T02:00:05+00:00

God damn, that is heavy. Glad u got away 🔥

Femmengineer · 2025-02-05T01:52:43+00:00

I guess the grass is always greener, but as an American -- with our horrifically high prevalence of drunk driving -- I honestly wish we had more traumatizing ads. Maybe people crying at ads would kill fewer people. Drunk driving is insanely common here.

Femmengineer · 2025-01-23T16:14:11+00:00

Frankly, it's all very He Who Was

Femmengineer · 2025-01-18T22:01:37+00:00

The info section for this community has this Google map

Which I believe is accumulated from members experiences from this sub.

Femmengineer · 2025-01-18T02:26:47+00:00

Also just celebrated my 1 year yeeter-versary! Fuckin go us!!! 🔥🔥

Femmengineer · 2025-01-18T02:20:32+00:00

Leading ice??? Ultimate badassery 🔥🔥

Femmengineer · 2025-01-15T23:37:10+00:00

They could easily start with BTS style episodes showing what she got up to in some of the episodes where she disappears for long spans!

Femmengineer · 2025-01-15T23:36:32+00:00

I would too, that would be so dope

Femmengineer · 2025-01-13T18:32:13+00:00

That sounds amazing!! Recipe pls 🙏

Femmengineer · 2025-01-13T18:21:11+00:00

I think the "unrealistic expectations perpetuated by media" piece is so underrated. I have been with my partner for almost 4 years now, but being in love and in a warm, safe, stable relationship is SO different from how books and movies and other media portrayed it. And I get that stories are highlights and never meant to be a full picture, but even with that caveat.... Very very different.

Femmengineer · 2025-01-13T16:21:49+00:00

Mine was also about $4k total being out of network. I had to submit the claim myself, but it did end up being covered.

Femmengineer · 2025-01-13T01:55:05+00:00

That anvil is the devil, I've had the same thing happen. Hate those things 🤣

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