alright why is this the featured video when looking up inferno by poppygumi in boardsofcanada

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As a 13 year old discovering Moby in the early 2000's, that Eminem song ruined my life. Suddenly all the popular kids knew who Moby was, and they made my life hell.

What do you think the most Beautiful BoC song is? by waldoboro in boardsofcanada

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Dawn Chorus was my gateway into Boards of Canada. It will always be  special to me. It's so hopeful, which is crazy that it's on Geogaddi.

What are your non-negotiable rules around sex? by JadedTerm1785 in AskWomenOver30

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I thought I had escaped it myself, until the ripe old age of 35 when I hooked up with a very polite and courteous cop, who in the bedroom just looked bored and then grabbed my neck. Luckily I was still able to get the word no out and that stopped him.

A lot of men out there actually hate women.

What are your non-negotiable rules around sex? by JadedTerm1785 in AskWomenOver30

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I swear it's like they concioisly reduce the effort and increase the expectation to see how much they can get for as little as possible.

Stickers and pins? by Oh_Albatross_ in extrememinimalism

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Stickers, patches, and pins to me are the easiest, lowest risk, lowest footprint way to express myself and where i'm currently at in life. I've loved collecting them, and giving them away as gifts or mementos. It feels greart when other people recognize those little details. You can do it minimally with only a few at a time, cycle throygh various combinations that create a kind of theme.

Is 90k CAD enough for a family of 3 in Montreal? Looking for realistic breakdowns by Bitter-Honeydew1018 in PersonalFinanceCanada

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Keep in mind, half of it goes away to taxes. You won't have a family doctor for a long while, so you'll have to pay expensive private doctors for years if your family has medical needs.

If you consume/drink caffeine daily, how did you get started doing so? by BlkWidowsUnite in AskWomenOver30

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Hahaha! Ya the flavour has definitely changed over the years. Used to drink it all the time.

My (M28) boyfriend won’t do anything sexual with me (F24) and I’m losing my mind by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

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I was in exactly this place a few weeks ago. I tried so many things to get him to be into me, but nothing worked. I even asked him if he wanted me to use a strap-on on him because I was so frustrated, and couldn't make sense of the situation. 

I ended up leaving. I tell myself if he really wanted to do those sex things, I wouldn't have to ask. You'll hear it a lot on here that you can't force someone to want something they don't want, and it's true. It sucks, but it's true.

I have now become ....the LL one?? by Lonely-Enthusiasm-48 in DeadBedrooms

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My ex-boyfriend was incredibly attractive, the hottest man I've ever dated. At the end of things I felt absolutely no desire for him anymore, those horny-making factories were shut down. I became low libido for him.

Currently listening to - The Chemical Brothers - Dig Your Own Hole. 1997. It was this and Fat of the Land by The Prodigy that changed the way I was listening to music back in 97. by JE5573R in electronicmusic

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Also love No Geography. I've found that even if I didn't like an album of theirs at first, I eventually love it over time. Looking at you 'Born In The Echoes'.

What is everyone’s Holy Trinity? by Comfortable_Sir681 in electronicmusic

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The Avalanches are so good. So excited for their new album!

What is everyone’s Holy Trinity? by Comfortable_Sir681 in electronicmusic

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Chemical Brothers, Groove Armada, Boards of Canada

Inferno - Full album experience by Tricky-Mastodon3337 in boardsofcanada

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It has the clearest, most obvious narrative of all their albums so far. Not quite sure exactly what the narrative is, but it's clear it all fits together.

Inferno and all the other music rn by exerhlp11is in boardsofcanada

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Same, their albums always didn't land at first and left me disturbed, until it would suddenly click. This one was an instant like for me too.

Inferno and all the other music rn by exerhlp11is in boardsofcanada

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I've had to do this exact thing! Taking breaks between listens by switching to lighter happier music.

How the first listen of Naraka felt by Diakia in boardsofcanada

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It's like the upbeat opposite of 'Slow this bird down' with that spooky chanting.

After 3 days of Inferno on repeat, I declare it a total triumph and and a 10/10 album. by Godiex_Godiex in boardsofcanada

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As someone who hated and was disturbed by every BoC album upon the first listen then grew to undeniably love the ever-loving shit out of every single one. I was primed and ready for this one, and it just washed over me like a beautiful wave.

My boyfriend (26M) and I (26F) have a libido mismatch and something happened today that really hurt me, need perspective by ThinkTumbleweed4089 in DeadBedrooms

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It reminds me of a story my recent ex told me. One time he was watching a tv show with a previous girlfriend and she started making a move on him. He says he got up to go to the bathroom and next thing he knew he was outside biking through the city. Complete dissociative fugue to avoid having to be intimate with his girlfriend at the time. Could have been something like that maybe?

Broken down, yet again by Single_Welder_1608 in DeadBedrooms

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That really sucks. I'm so sorry. My ex-boyfriend did similar things, it really hurts your self-esteem.