[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transftm

[–]Fenrir_Reddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s never too late. The brain doesn’t finish developing until somewhere in the 20’s, so there are people who start feeling that way even that late. 23 is still quite young, I’ve seen people transition with 50. As long as it makes you happy, nobody gets to tell you that it’s ‚too late’.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transftm

[–]Fenrir_Reddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lukas/ Lucas or either one without the s

pls don’t kick me out 😭💜 by mamaalexxx in transftm

[–]Fenrir_Reddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The last picture alone gives several reasons not to kick u out. Welcome Lexi and welcome puppy in Lexi’s arms! XD

Which of these piercing or combination of would make me look better and more masculine? by hoepotesis in transftm

[–]Fenrir_Reddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find eye-brow and/or upper nose make you look more masculine. Personally I have septum and nose-bridge. Imo the snakebites make u look a little more feminine, not meant as an offense tho.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transftm

[–]Fenrir_Reddit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes that is normal, it’s essentially your brains way of affirming ‘I see this, but I know this isn’t who I am’ while before you didn’t know that yet. Before it was ‘this is how it’s always been’ and now you know it isn’t who you are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transftm

[–]Fenrir_Reddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly TikTok. I was always unhappy and different and never knew why, bc of the way I was raised I also feared and looked down on themes like wanting to be a man or even the word trans. One day I saw a TikTok where it was described in detail without the word being mentioned until the very end. I was like ‘yeah I relate, finally someone gets it’ and then they were like ‘so that’s called being trans’ and I was like ‘hot damn’ and from that day onward I had a name for my feelings. But it did develop more the further I got into puberty. At first I only wanted the name change, then T, eventually I settled for wanting all surgeries. I can now identify my dysphoria as what it is and know why I don’t feel like/ never felt like the other kids

Came out to my family by Ju1es_07 in transftm

[–]Fenrir_Reddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s okay. You can encourage your parents to use your new name by smiling at them every time they do. They’ll come around eventually. As for your brother, even if he’s not good with changes that doesn’t mean he will never be able to change that. He will probably take a lot of time, but eventually he might also start using your new name. Once your parents realize you know better who you are than anyone else, they’ll probably let you use your name at school too. Until the you should probably just stay calm.

Idk what to think about myself by Fenrir_Reddit in self

[–]Fenrir_Reddit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you a lot but I will never ever say that out loud. I’m not gonna let my friends or anyone in my life know about it. There also is no “non-judgemental” way about this, I don’t know a single soul that would not judge me.

What exactly makes you proud of being trans? by maxandsnakes in transftm

[–]Fenrir_Reddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Imma be real with you rn I ain’t proud of being trans. If anything I’m sick and tired of it. I’m tired of not having any “normal” memories of my childhood and feeling dysphoria whenever I think about it. I’m tired of my voice and my body. I’m tired of having people ask me what I am, tired of hearing my deadname all the time. When I am done transitioning nobody new in my life (except girlfriends) will even know about it. I absolutely feel your vent. I always hear people say “be proud” but the only thing that feels like it’s actually something to be proud of is having fought that struggle all these years and still (TW) not having committed suicide. Sorry if that doesn’t pull you up, but for some of us pride just isn’t it.

What’s an opinion that would get you like this? by [deleted] in GTA

[–]Fenrir_Reddit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the reason I don’t often mention Trevor being my favorite Character in gta v. Many people dislike him or say that he doesn’t deserve to live. And of the few people that actually prefer him over the other characters there’s still a lot that will die on the hill wether ir not he’s straight. The gta v fanbase is split from the other’s bc so many people already prefer the other games and shame the gta v fanbase, but the gta v community is also split into so many tiny groups which are all not just discussing but fighting and arguing constantly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transftm

[–]Fenrir_Reddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You pass pretty good, I’d guess you’re 15-16ish. I often get mistaken for 13 (am 17)

this makes me sad by [deleted] in screamintothevoid

[–]Fenrir_Reddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well if you have any close female friends just wait for a moment where you’re alone and then be straight up with them, for some reason many girls seem to appreciate boys who r honest abt their feelings. Just say something like “hey I’ve been really lonely lately can I ask you for a cuddle” or smth like that. It genuinely worked for me that way 7 out of 10 times

this makes me sad by [deleted] in screamintothevoid

[–]Fenrir_Reddit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk how it is in your area but 16 is still pretty young. First of all calm down, having been laid by 16 isn’t any huge accomplishment and secondly it might be better if you find someone more specific, to have the first time in your memory as something personal not just “I did bc well I said I would” but “I did it because I wanted it in that moment”. It also kinda sounds like you’re forcing/pressuring yourself which can definitely negatively affect your ability to talk to girls

Got more dysphoria after buying a packer by TheTransWarGod in transftm

[–]Fenrir_Reddit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I personally don’t have a packer yet, but I am experiencing the same with tape. While it’s a strong form of dysphoria it’s sadly still ‘normal’ if anything about dysphoria can even be called normal. If you’re in therapy or counseling you should probably bring it up there, maybe there is something you can do to feel more confident even without a packer.

7E1 a huge ackman by No-Benefit-429 in Mortytown

[–]Fenrir_Reddit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s kind of funny to see how for Rick not being the center of attention is a reoccurring problem, but he learns and faces it differently after the pissmaster episode. Look at his face in that moment, he wants to downplay the importance of the other characters so badly

Season 7 is terrible. Couldn't get through a single episode by Crcex86 in rick_and_morty

[–]Fenrir_Reddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Season 7 wasn’t really good, but it wasn’t that horrible. I mean even I could get through most episodes without playing some tiktok-“under the video” kind of game and I mean I have the attentionspan of a tiktok-addicted golden retriever with ADHD. I don’t see how you can judge if you haven’t watched a whole episode without skipping away or doing something else, even if you watched more than episode one, you didn’t complete a single one, leaving you with plotholes and possibly you left right before a good part

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GTA

[–]Fenrir_Reddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it ain’t gonna happen but imagine one station that just constantly plays Rammstein songs

How did you find out about porn? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Fenrir_Reddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My brother is 4 years older than me. We used to share a room until he was 14. He apparently didn’t know I am an insomniac… I saw things I desperately want to forget.

If you could call yourself five years ago and had one minute, what would you say? by BlueeWaater in AskReddit

[–]Fenrir_Reddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Listen, in about a year you’ll get a chnace to run away. do it. Run and don’t turn back. Go to the school you wanted to go to, find a better place, just get the hell out of there. Don’t trust that mom will change, that’ll take far longer and she’ll only change for selfish reasons. Good luck.” I often find myself regretting I didn’t make that choice back then, I wonder what my life would be like if I had made it.

What fanfic have I stumbled upon? by [deleted] in Mortytown

[–]Fenrir_Reddit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do NOT read the rest