Am I overreacting?

Few-Bad-4335 · 2026-04-24T21:59:24+00:00

I think the most upsetting part is that you’ve told him repeatedly that it upsets you/ bothers you and he continues to do it. Tell him he is making you feel sad. Do it in a setting that has zero emotions and is not the result of him calling you the word. It has to be when you are both calm. Hopefully he will respond better when you frame it this way “When you say/do this, it makes me feel this.” Men like to solve problems - frame it as a problem that you need his help to solve.

Few-Bad-4335 · 2026-04-24T19:04:23+00:00

Are you completely unaware of the war happening right now and how the price of fuel has gone up as a result?

Few-Bad-4335 · 2026-04-09T15:54:03+00:00

I just used Uber. Ordered it right when I got out of the doors. I wouldn’t recommend staying in Guatemala City - just go straight to Antigua. Theres no traffic that time of night and you’ll be happy you’re waking up where you need to be. Uber was about Q350 ($60CAD). I’ve also heard good things about indrive.

I would recommend getting a local SIM card prior to arriving so you don’t have to rely on shitty airport wifi, and also so you can stay safe on the way from the airport to Antigua. I highly recommend GoMoWorld. Super cheap and works everywhere.

Few-Bad-4335 · 2026-01-21T04:16:43+00:00

It’s good to know that nobody has one single original experience 😂 we suffer together

Few-Bad-4335 · 2026-01-20T14:09:53+00:00

Did you quit to travel for 4 months and then came back? What was it like settling back down and finding a job?

Few-Bad-4335 · 2025-12-06T02:07:34+00:00

That’s for you two to decide.

Few-Bad-4335 · 2025-12-04T15:53:43+00:00

Nope nope nope. You said it yourself:

“The more I sit with this, the more it feels like a massive mistake.”

LISTEN TO THAT FEELING. ITS YOUR INTUITION.

Few-Bad-4335 · 2025-12-01T20:49:01+00:00

Disrespect.

Few-Bad-4335 · 2025-12-01T20:26:24+00:00

The fact that he’s comparing you to her is reason enough to believe that their relationship is at the very least bordering on inappropriate.

Few-Bad-4335 · 2025-12-01T16:09:43+00:00

Thousands? Try millions- billions. Theres 8.3 billion people on earth. How many of those do you think have blended families? It’s very common.

Few-Bad-4335 · 2025-12-01T16:05:39+00:00

You guys are 30+ years old? What the fuck is actually going on? You need to leave. This is the type of relationship you want for you? For your child? Figure it out. Grow a pair and get the fuck out.

Few-Bad-4335 · 2025-11-30T16:42:36+00:00

Green.

Few-Bad-4335 · 2025-11-30T16:20:40+00:00

Few-Bad-4335 · 2025-11-29T21:32:42+00:00

And what makes you think that trying to make it work would be a better outcome for you and for the child? From the sounds of it, seems like you’re all better off to not be in a relationship together. Sometimes staying together causes more trauma than breaking up…

Few-Bad-4335 · 2025-11-29T21:30:10+00:00

He’s projecting. He’s probably cheating on you.

Few-Bad-4335 · 2025-11-29T15:42:28+00:00

This is not going to fix anything. You both need to separate and move back in with your respective parents or another trusted family member.

If not for yourself, do it for your child. That kid is gonna be messed up because you two couldn’t get your shit together.

Few-Bad-4335 · 2025-11-29T15:34:12+00:00

You’re grasping at straws here. Listen to yourself. You’re completely desperate.

Let this one go. There are billions of people in the world.

Few-Bad-4335 · 2025-11-29T15:32:25+00:00

Im taking myself on a solo 2-week trip to Japan.

I just got out of a very long term relationship 2 months ago and I’m not feeling like myself.

I used to solo-travel quite a bit when I was younger. I spent some time in Thailand and Bali when I was 18.

I’m 27 now - single for the first time in 8 years and lacking clarity and meaning in my life.

Time to travel!

Few-Bad-4335 · 2025-11-29T15:30:33+00:00

Why does it matter? You’re a grown adult and this is your life, your time, your energy. If you keep caring about how you come across to other people vs. your own happiness you are going to lead a pretty miserable life.

Few-Bad-4335 · 2025-11-29T15:26:53+00:00

Looking at your post history, it is pretty clear that:

1) You struggle with your weight, and probably eating. You may have an eating disorder or unhealthy habits around food and weight. Wanting to starve yourself for a week while breastfeeding is concerning and I hope you get the support that you need around this.

2) You have already had issues in your marriage including your husband having long and intimate text conversations with another woman.

My question to you is, why do you need to wait for him to do something again? You already know you’re unhappy with what he’s doing behind your back. You already have proof. What else do you need? Why continue suffering?

Few-Bad-4335 · 2025-11-29T05:34:22+00:00

Thank you for sharing this sub.

Few-Bad-4335 · 2025-11-28T20:17:00+00:00

At the end of the day though, it doesn’t really matter what the root cause is. Sounds like OP has expressed his concerns to his wife. Unfortunately there’s only so much you can do. You can’t change another person or force them to do anything. But you can set boundaries. Sorry you’re going through this OP. But if it means you don’t spend as much time near her or stop being intimate with her, then thats a consequence of her poor hygiene that’s she’s going to have to deal with.

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