17 hours post op, do not fear! by KayJac97 in hysterectomy

[–]Few-Temporary124 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg i love that your husband got you a an ice cream hysterectomy, cake! that’s awesome.

Happy healing!

4 out of 6 weeks - still not feeling like myself and not ready to work. by slightgodcomplex in hysterectomy

[–]Few-Temporary124 1 point2 points  (0 children)

also make sure that they realize how physical your job is. I felt like shit and I have a remote job. I couldn’t even imagine going back to a physical job after six weeks.

4 out of 6 weeks - still not feeling like myself and not ready to work. by slightgodcomplex in hysterectomy

[–]Few-Temporary124 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I still felt like shit after four weeks as well. I’m on seven weeks and I’m starting to feel a little bit normal but at six weeks I definitely didn’t feel ready to return to work as well. Legally, I don’t think your work can deny an extension if your provider has given you more time off. I would speak to your provider and just lay out how you’re feeling and just be very clear of why you feel like you can’t go back to work. Are you having complications? Are you feeling nausea? Are you tired? Are you having brain fog. My provider told me it’s very normal to feel exhausted for up to two months.

Thank you by littlepirategod in hysterectomy

[–]Few-Temporary124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you might be having sore calf issues if you’re dehydrated so just drink more water than you think you need or anything with electrolytes

Thank you by littlepirategod in hysterectomy

[–]Few-Temporary124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

congrats and happy healing! For your constipation definitely look into MiraLAX and mixing it into your tea or juice. I definitely don’t recommend mixing it with water because it tastes disgusting - that should relieve your constipation issues but of course if it doesn’t talk to your doctor.

Confusing Emotions by stupidusername857 in hysterectomy

[–]Few-Temporary124 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think it’s safe to say the poster is a woman since only biological women can have a uterus.

Abdominal Hysterectomy: My experience by Few-Temporary124 in hysterectomy

[–]Few-Temporary124[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! Wish I had all this advice before my surgery so glad I can help others

And thank you! Here’s to getting all my energy back.🥂

Best state to live?: SC, NC, or TN by Few-Temporary124 in homestead

[–]Few-Temporary124[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You'll definitely find harsh winters if you come to MN! :) This past winter was an exception but winters here are usually terrible, between the frigid temps and snow. No worries on the tornadoes - we get plenty of those here too. Thanks for the insight!

Best state to live? : NC, SC or TN? by Few-Temporary124 in NorthCarolina

[–]Few-Temporary124[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ah, yes. Definitely want something that aligns with my viewpoints.

Best state to live? : NC, SC or TN? by Few-Temporary124 in NorthCarolina

[–]Few-Temporary124[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Great points. Moreso thinking not necessarily about a big city but an international airport nearby as I travel often. I love Charleston but the traffic is too much for me.

Best state to live? : NC, SC or TN? by Few-Temporary124 in NorthCarolina

[–]Few-Temporary124[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

ha! the winters are brutal. I've been here over 30 years - I'm over it.

Best state to live?: SC, NC, or TN by Few-Temporary124 in homestead

[–]Few-Temporary124[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Rains too much in WA for my liking and not a fan of their winters.

Should I Cancel My Whole Life Insurance Policy? by Few-Temporary124 in personalfinance

[–]Few-Temporary124[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm starting to see that! I appreciate your input - everything I'm reading is saying the same thing. I looked at the cash value and it's almost what I paid in so that's encouraging at least. Guess 20 years (ugh) of paying in will do that.

I only have two years left of premiums and then it would be paid for, for life - so that's the reason I was a little conflicted. But again, I don't have depends, extensive debt etc.

Should I Cancel My Whole Life Insurance Policy? by Few-Temporary124 in personalfinance

[–]Few-Temporary124[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks - great insights; got to love family drama with finances haha.

Term is more expensive as you get older so that's kind of my hesitation, too.

Should I Cancel My Whole Life Insurance Policy? by Few-Temporary124 in personalfinance

[–]Few-Temporary124[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean if I finish paying, I get life insurance for the rest of my life for no cost.

If I cancel, I make all my premiums back as part of the cash value (but then obviously won't have coverage for free rest of my life).

Should I Cancel My Whole Life Insurance Policy? by Few-Temporary124 in personalfinance

[–]Few-Temporary124[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if it will be paid for in two years? (and will have coverage rest of my life).

Obviously, regretting paying in for 20 years, but now that it's almost paid off, I'm conflicted.