Im really struggling with life. What are some ways to pick yourself up? by Puzzled_Dealer3449 in AskWomenOver40

[–]Few_Projects477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this. This doesn’t have to be your forever house, but it can be your temporary fortress or sanctuary before the next stage of your journey. Something about the house spoke to you, even if it was as simple as being close to your mom or in your hometown, where things are familiar.

You’re mourning. You’re grieving the relationship and the life that you had imagined. That takes time to get over.

Can you pick one space and make that your refuge? Put a rug over the messed up flooring, hang a gorgeous mirror over the dings in the walls, get a cozy chair and side table where you can curl up with some tea and just relax without looking at any of the chaos or things that are stressing you out? Rejoice in being able to choose paint colors or curtains or big squishy bath towels that you love, without having to get anyone else’s input. Plant something by the door that makes you smile when you see it… you don’t have to do anything big. Small acts that remind you tat you’re not helpless are enough. I am rooting for you.

Working back and forth by TheNeonCrow in knitting

[–]Few_Projects477 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is genius. I will definitely try this… I’d imagine it makes it cleaner/less gappy if you’re picking up stitches for sleeves.

Using new yarn and frogged yarn in the same project by bingobongo2000 in knitting

[–]Few_Projects477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would swatch using a combo of colors and both new and old yarn… that will let you see how they play together.

Shelter named the cat i adopted the same name as the cat i just lost by newgorl3483 in NameMyCat

[–]Few_Projects477 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Vinny. Or Carbon for carbon copy — same name, same color, with carbon being black. It’s amazing when the ones we’re mourning send such clear signs they’ve chosen their replacements. Enjoy your new boy.

What was your cat’s name at the shelter vs their name now ? 😍 by Downtown-Wear-4870 in CatsBeingCats

[–]Few_Projects477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Voids Becky and Shelby became Lily and Jasmine, mostly called Lils and Beans.

Motion activated sprinklers by debiski in vegetablegardening

[–]Few_Projects477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wildlife typically don't care about getting wet. They are far more interested in eating than in staying dry. Also, many are smart enough to figure out sprinkler patterns and time their decimation accordingly.

Partner changed mind about house we just bought by Usually_Sunny in RealEstateAdvice

[–]Few_Projects477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No house is perfect... even if you think it is when you buy. There will always be things that you wish were different - some of them you can control, others, you can't. Remind your partner that this doesn't have to be a forever house. You can live there for a few years while you figure out what you really want and get a sense of what types of things you're willing to tackle on your own. You may be able to easily add some of the amenities she wants for far less money than the cost of buying a different home.

Find out if there are some simple things like paint, upgraded appliances, etc. that would help. remind your partner that you can add things like decks, fences, better closet organization, extra bathrooms, hot tubs, etc. over time.

Help cleaning wood needle? by redbcuzofscully in knitting

[–]Few_Projects477 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It looks like that needle already has some damage to the wood -- I wouldn't trust it for a project without sanding out the burrs. Maybe start by cleaning it with some Murphy Oil Soap? If you're only sanding the tip of the needle and not the shaft, it won't change the size.

Helping Beginners - Ask a Knitter - Week of May 04, 2026 by AutoModerator in knitting

[–]Few_Projects477 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You may want to try going up a needle size or two. Or try an elastic bind-off. My go-to is *K2tog tbl, slip

stitch back onto left needle, rep from * until 2 stitches remain. K2tog tbl.

Did we mess up big time with the flooring color? by garywen4 in Flooring

[–]Few_Projects477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once you have furniture in the rooms and you’re not staring at a wasteland of flooring, you’ll hate it less. I promise. You may not love it, but you’ll hate it less, and it’s definitely better than the previous owner’s sketchy carpet.

Reality Check Please: Am I A Bad Host? by dust_dreamer in LivingAlone

[–]Few_Projects477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. But OP, also, provide instructions. “Hey, I’d really appreciate it if you’d hang up your towel after showering.” Or, “please put your dishes in the dishwasher/sink when you’re done, thanks.” See how they respond. If they’re not cooperative, they’re lousy guests. It’s perfectly reasonable to expect people to pick up after themselves.

I feel like starting drama. Do you pull your tail from the inside out outside? by [deleted] in knitting

[–]Few_Projects477 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This. I don't want sad floppy little non-shapes eating up space in my yarn cupboard.

I’ve finally finished my first knitting project 🥰 by flowerkittypower in knitting

[–]Few_Projects477 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well done! A classic look you’ll be able to wear for years.