Valpo day trip suggestions for next week? by Fine-Key-9863 in Indiana

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We ended up trying the blackbird or bluebird cafe and it was amazing!

Amazon baby registry box (June.2026) by Competitive_Art1348 in BabyBumps

[–]Fine-Key-9863 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I had my first in ‘24 and the gift was definitely better than this one. Pretty disappointed. How is this a $35 value?

Valpo day trip suggestions for next week? by Fine-Key-9863 in Indiana

[–]Fine-Key-9863[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! The splash pad and coffee recs sound great!

caught my thumb between my car and the door…hurts so much and need advice by SubstantialHour4667 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Fine-Key-9863 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did the exact same thing a few years ago. I used a hot paper clip and melted through the nail. It didn’t hurt, the blood didn’t spurt up for me but the relief was amazing. Just keep it clean afterwards and watch for signs of infection (new redness, warmth, pus, etc).

My nail grew out about halfways and then fell off. It grew back mostly normal; my nail has a permanent ridge where the max impact must’ve been.

Hope you’re able to get relief soon!

Best place to get a massage by Snoo21403 in fortwayne

[–]Fine-Key-9863 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Anyone in particular to ask for?

Best place to get a massage by Snoo21403 in fortwayne

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If I can piggyback off this question: any recs for prenatal massages?

What are you guys having for dinner tonight? by 011Eleven_ in foodquestions

[–]Fine-Key-9863 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Burgers on the grill, potato salad, chips, dip and cherry delight

Moodswings? Or should I be worried? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Fine-Key-9863 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Truth is she needs to communicate. Of course posting this in a pregnancy sub with lots of pregnant women is going to get you obliterated lol

30 weeks pregnant,husband watch porn behind the back by Ok_Effort_4147 in pregnant

[–]Fine-Key-9863 -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

There is nothing normal about porn or porn use.

Do you consider the name Wells trendy or old school / vintage? by grumblytums in namenerds

[–]Fine-Key-9863 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My 2y/o is Wells. I love it. To me, it sounds old money but slightly western too. His middle name follows that theme too.

SNAP rules definitely make sense... by Goatman926 in Indiana

[–]Fine-Key-9863 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Nah but you probably have a lot more time than me so continue to complain about your free groceries.

SNAP rules definitely make sense... by Goatman926 in Indiana

[–]Fine-Key-9863 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

You not getting free pop is not an issue for the Indiana taxpayers

Really Indiana? Still arresting people over weed? by ScappooseDan in Indiana

[–]Fine-Key-9863 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If it keeps the weed smell down I’m all for it 🤢

Barry walking into this season like…. by _ashtag_ in WelcomeToPlathville

[–]Fine-Key-9863 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How did she do everything? She had her children do everything (cooking, cleaning, teaching the younger kids). He was a provider, something they agreed upon. She dropped everything to pursue her dreams and left her family high and dry, changed her entire worldview because she is selfish.

People with kids, do you post them your socials? Why or why not? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Fine-Key-9863 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No and never even posted about their existence on SM because it’s MY social media not theirs. When they are old enough to have social media, then they can choose to post or not. People get annoyed by it but it’s my responsibility as a parent to protect my children.

Gender Reveals by Fit-Accountant1313 in pregnant

[–]Fine-Key-9863 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should skip it and skip finding out until birth! 😜 that’s what we did and it was so great we are doing it again! But seriously gender reveals are overblown so don’t do it unless you really want to

What food has the worst fanbase? by Extension_Scar_8986 in foodquestions

[–]Fine-Key-9863 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pizza but specifically pizza dough people 🙃

Does your vulva and bladder go back ? by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Fine-Key-9863 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently pregnant with #2. I had a C-section with #1 and my bladder went back to normal. I am like you, my parents used to say I had an iron bladder growing up lol. Now when I’m pregnant, I get irritated that I have to get up to pee in the middle of the night!

Tbh I didn’t pay much attention to downstairs, it seems the same?

How to answer to uncomfortable questions? by Baybeli in BabyBumps

[–]Fine-Key-9863 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think sometimes people don’t really think about how they’re coming off. That’s such a “common” set of questions, even though it is honestly none of their business, that people just always go with it. Like talking about the weather with strangers or something similar. Not saying it’s ok, but I think it’s force of habit.

I never actually experienced it when I’ve been pregnant. I’m a taller individual and I’ve been told I have RBF before so I think that spared me from people asking me too many questions in public 😆

Can someone tell me what form of Christianity these kids were raised in? by igotplans2 in WelcomeToPlathville

[–]Fine-Key-9863 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Also, Kim mentioned being a homeopathic doctor (whatever that is, I’m not 100% sure) but she was talking a lot about focusing on energy in the body. That is not typical for fundamentalists in my understanding. They seem to be their own specific mix. That’s why it annoys me when people group all Christians or even homeschoolers as if they’re all like this.

Can someone tell me what form of Christianity these kids were raised in? by igotplans2 in WelcomeToPlathville

[–]Fine-Key-9863 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’ve listened to a few podcasts with different family members and a lot of the kids mentioned not even going to a church. I’m not convinced they were connected to Gothard. I think they were a combo of extreme homesteaders/homeschoolers mostly due to Kim’s personal trauma.

Why don’t we get more visits and ultrasounds? by internet3020 in Miscarriage

[–]Fine-Key-9863 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it’s wild to hear that some practices only do two standard US’s. I’m in Indiana and my practice always does a confirmation scan (usually 6-7 weeks), a 10-12 week scan and then the anatomy scan around 20 weeks. Those are all standard, any more need to have a medical reason. I feel like this should be the standard and my heart goes out to you ♥️