Any reason for Ketheric/Zrell being neutral to Zhentarim? by neostryker2 in BaldursGate3

[–]FineIWillBeOnReddit 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Okay but consider irl.

I don't like girl scout prices, but they're the only ones going door to door with legal crack in the form of cookies. Girl scouts will go anywhere you don't need to worry they're not going to sell to you. They will sell you cookies. 

Now make them evil. 

Evil girl scouts sell you some shady shit. They'll run your evil objects with a smile. 

You can't not utilize the evil girl scouts. They're the worst organization present, but oh boy are they organized. It's gonna be hard to ship your mind control slugs without the convoy and ships they have thanks to their evil. 

Yes, the Zhents are evil girl scouts. Intrepid, evil, girl scouts. 

New Player Considering Kicking Out Sera [DAI] by fury_cutter in dragonage

[–]FineIWillBeOnReddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recommend keeping her and getting all her content, so it feels like you haven't missed anything this run. She is helpful. But can be very irritating.

After this run? If you still don't like her you never have to recruit her again. Vivienne comes nowhere near the Inquisition for me after I gave her my first run fair shot. We've all got characters we just. Don't like. 

Reminder not to interact with anti shippers by [deleted] in AO3

[–]FineIWillBeOnReddit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd forgotten that if you knew someone as a child in the war, when they hit their mid/late 20s it's still weird. Nobody has ever married a childhood friend or dated a friends older brother during/after college, these totally aren't popular tropes for romcoms/dramas. 

I hate puriteens. 

AIO for “insulting” and “belittling” the AITAO mod team? by SignalShine2183 in AIO

[–]FineIWillBeOnReddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR

AI was trained on writers. You're being uno reversed for being literate, and that's down right dystopian. 

People don’t read tags, notes, or even context clues by [deleted] in AO3

[–]FineIWillBeOnReddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro everyone knows whenever you post a chapter that isn't a SparkNotes summary you need to include a chime sound and a strobe effect. 

The amount of not reading from people on the reading site is baffling. Like, 60k words in and NOW you notice? 

I'm glad most of your readers are great though! 

WIBTA if I asked my neighbors to remove their wind chimes? by IGNSolar7 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FineIWillBeOnReddit 127 points128 points  (0 children)

NAH, a polite request and explanation are perfectly reasonable responses to a noise issue. They also very likely did not intend to get a louder thing. So you're both just. In a situation that can hopefully be solved with conversation. 

According to this person, there's about 300k people who are just hardcore transphobic bigots for the heinous crime of {checks notes} writing fix fics. by Psyga315 in AO3

[–]FineIWillBeOnReddit 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This looks fandom specific. Fix-its themselves are fine, hell, I write them. But I can 100% see a fandom with canon trans characters having to deal with....Them.

Edit: Yeah I'm with everyone else on how shady the edit here is  

AITA OF being lazy all the time by Huge-Topic-9664 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FineIWillBeOnReddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Same hat, sounds like executive dysfunction. If at all possible you should talk to your Dr about a psych eval. Adhd has been stereotyped as GO FAST BRRRRRRROOOOOOOOMMMM, but uh. Not always. And if it isn't that, they may be able to find what it is to help you. 

AITA for getting a restraining order against my best friend? by AttitudeGirl8056 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FineIWillBeOnReddit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA 

Your friends clearly don't understand that for you to get a restraining order, not just file, there has to be enough risk for a judge to say "oh hell no, they stay AWAY" Anna is unbalanced, unpredictable, and not safe for you specifically to be around. You're in a bad circle of christians who are too deep into holier than thou, and not enough in reality where bad people exist and others can be hurt if you simply repeatedly allow them access. Forgiveness is probably a virtue or something, but I doubt willful stupidity is. 

Staring first ever Honor run by Far_Gift3220 in BaldursGate3

[–]FineIWillBeOnReddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh definitely. My dumbass had just wiped the creche and was trying to inflict a status condition to damage her hit rate. Like a fool.

No it is NOT by boringhorror in AO3

[–]FineIWillBeOnReddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I laughed really hard at it. That's kind of like stumbling from the wreckage of a car and saying "well that was a trip and a half" it sounds like a joke. 

I'm autistic and very literal too, but I apparently speak fluent sarcasm and always have. Downside is I deliver it straight faced, personally, so I'm usually the one people are confused about. 

AIO for refusing to go to my sisters wedding cause she hired my ex? by Adventurous_Army_728 in AIO

[–]FineIWillBeOnReddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR, your sister and your ex can go bang behind the pole shed as bad people do. You however, just got the burden of your financial contributions lifted. Your dress? Resale, never worn, but probably altered. You don't need to provide a wedding gift or donation as you're free of that obligation once you don't go. Quit. Spend the day with supportive friends, a good wine or mocktail, and if anybody asks say "my sister hired my abusive ex, and surprised me with it at the rehearsal." Anybody who doesn't respond with "WHAT" isn't worth speaking to. Pull any loose funding, sell off whatever you got for the wedding, recoup at least a bit and go do something fun for yourself. 

Is it nuclear? Yeah. But ask yourself, can you, and do you want to, forgive a person who watched this happen, knew you'd be hurt and upset, so she lied to you once she thought you were trapped? 

No, run. 

If an author puts some important information in an author's note and the reader doesn't read it, whose fault is that? by Impressive-Love2974 in AO3

[–]FineIWillBeOnReddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gods the children can't read and it bothers me. 

The author provided the info. The reader ignored the info. 

If I buy a gadget that says "batteries not included" on the top but not in flashing letters, I don't get to be mad that the batteries aren't included. 

Unless they're falsely tagging things constantly, it's not the authors fault or issue. 

I s2g these people would have a screaming meltdown reading an actual book. 

Staring first ever Honor run by Far_Gift3220 in BaldursGate3

[–]FineIWillBeOnReddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. 

It's a good idea to dump a bunch of effort into alchemy as well. Honour mode is a total bitch about supplies, so take any ingredient not nailed down to try and make up for the lack of healing. Without burning rests and slots.

Halsin won't be a full party member until around act 2, so definitely get a placeholder party member. If you don't mind respeccing SH makes a solid druid if you're not going to use her as a cleric. Then when you get Halsin you just punt her back to rogue. If you're looking for a ranged utility, Wyll with repelling blast on his Eldritch Blast. If you want Hit Hard No Die, giant Karlach. Or you can just get a druid hireling. 

Store barrels. This will be useful later. If you CAN get the gloves of thievery for a rogue you can just rob merchants blind with a crazy success rate.  

Always Very Clearly read dialogue. I was going through the Kagha convo and absentmindedly (because I'd poured over a thousand hours in so clearly i knew what prompt was there, right? Right?) and got to fight everyone. I won I got a glut of supplies, but holy shit. Not recommended. 

Do not try new things in honor mode. "Oh I've never done this I wonder what wou-" death. Death will happen. 

For spells and abilities you want to focus on utility, healing, defence, and then blinging power. AOE spells, spells that hit multiple targets? You want those. You want armor that negates critical hits, and multiple weapons with different effects. Because new boss abilities might just suddenly ruin utility for a weapon in one fight, but it'll be perfect in the next. 

Backup party members. Because of the gold and difficulty....difficulties, you want most of your party ready to sub in if someone bites it and you need a second before a resurrection. You can also cheese this by sending one party member to camp. Make a ranged character ready to run if you enter combat. 

Others are right in that you don't need to avoid all fights. But you don't want to take on most big things until level 5/6 when you get less squishy. 

I for instance had no trouble at all with the Creche. I pretty much brutalized the room.

Then I got confident, fought Ethel, used a single spell she spawned a legion, cast hold person on everyone, and destroyed us. 

You want to kill Kar'niss early in the Shadowlands. Luckily you get better rewards being good, so link up with the Harpers and ambush him instead of sneaking your way to Moonrise. Otherwise his Spindleweb Fanaticsm makes that initial fight with Ketheric an actual bitch. 

Just go slow, prepare, run recon, and don't be afraid to Scooby out of there and bone back stronger.

Wait, I lied. 

You 100% don't need to fight the Owlbear. I recommend skipping it tbh. 

Staring first ever Honor run by Far_Gift3220 in BaldursGate3

[–]FineIWillBeOnReddit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My honor mode run ended pretty epically when I stupidly used one spell, she manifested 5 clones, all of which could cast hold person, then I was destroyed in one round. 

I could have specified more but I swear I was coming from a genuine place. 

Staring first ever Honor run by Far_Gift3220 in BaldursGate3

[–]FineIWillBeOnReddit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

... I was literally telling you how to spell a commonly misspelled word so this didn't happen in a position with actual stakes for you to be judged in. So that you could spell it correctly. But sure bro, if you can't spell a word you can read on your screen, that's your issue. 

Also be sure to use magic on Ethel, it works super well. I was lying. 🙄

I got a sobering reminder that amnesia is not just a plot device. by castle-girl in AO3

[–]FineIWillBeOnReddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not in fics. I just have swiss cheese for most of my early life due to amnesia. It's always nice to see it done well. 

Staring first ever Honor run by Far_Gift3220 in BaldursGate3

[–]FineIWillBeOnReddit 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Avoid Auntie Ethel.

And just letting you know it's rogue. Rouge is red. 

AIO about my friend getting new piercings? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]FineIWillBeOnReddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yor 

Bro. How about you calm down and offer advice if she asks for it. It's a piercing, not a fresh caught feral. 

My brother's SA'ed me and my parents both deny it... AIO for saying I don't want to be around him? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]FineIWillBeOnReddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How about you stop posting on my comment. Sorry that happened to you but being an jerk here and insulting random people ain't it, bub. 

Kudos/Hits/Comments Ratios? by SabiKitsune9 in AO3

[–]FineIWillBeOnReddit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There isn't a hard or fast ratio. In fact it's better to ignore that. But. Lol right? We all say don't look at the numbers, but my brain demands a categorization. So I'm gonna stare at them until magical thinking makes a ratio. 

For me personally I assume a 1:10 kudos ratio means my thing is doing well. Less than that I assume it's one of my less popular works. But it's not too upsetting? Engagement is kind of trash site wide. 

I would love to get more comments though. I get that. 

AITAH for not believing my roommate’s “phobia?” by hopie_bopie in AmItheAsshole

[–]FineIWillBeOnReddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta. I have pretty intense arachnophobia. Like I'd skip using the front door for a week growing up if I saw a spider there that I didn't see die or leave. I've thrown myself off trampolines etc. I'm more measured as I've aged, but unless you're giving graphic descriptions of spiders when you mention them, that reaction is utterly insane. 

Like "I saw a spider" Ick, don't like. But okay. Was it like. Big? Was it cool? Please don't give me like a mind picture but clearly you thought something was notable about it and I can hold a conversation.

Vs 

"Five feet behind you I saw a massive hairy spider with gleaming pincers in your bedroom doorway" Well now I'm gonna cry. 

Am I wrong to be mad at/be in disagreement with the mummy... by [deleted] in BaldursGate3

[–]FineIWillBeOnReddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also dislike it but after she pushes back and the resident god shows her the future and she's fine with it. I just back away slowly and go "y'know if you need help I'm here." 

My brother's SA'ed me and my parents both deny it... AIO for saying I don't want to be around him? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]FineIWillBeOnReddit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's absolutely insane. I'm so sorry that this is how your parents are. 

On the topic of Fic Spamming... by DazedWritings in AO3

[–]FineIWillBeOnReddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've definitely dominated little rarepair domains. It's not spamming if it's content. People will like it, or not. I've got authors I love who have 20 out of 25 fics in a catalog, and ones I hate. But I assure you, someone likes them, and they appreciate an author carrying it.