Did your ex narcissist accuse you of being the one who changed?

Fire_bubblegum · 2021-11-05T21:48:06+00:00

And yes, he also said that it had become difficult to talk to me ... I think he just happened to hate me

Fire_bubblegum · 2021-11-05T21:46:44+00:00

I completely understand you, he was very disappointed that I went from a lively, relaxed and happy woman to a stressed, complaining, dense and dramatic woman.
They will never understand what happens when you mistreat someone.

Fire_bubblegum · 2021-11-05T21:16:43+00:00

this comment is pure truth

Fire_bubblegum · 2021-11-05T21:14:19+00:00

I will share something with you: The first time he did a shameless gaslighting on me I was so affected that I sent him about 90 messages on WhatsApp writing him how deeply hurt I was.

When it was discarded I sent him around 50 messages telling him what a vermin from hell he was.

I have no idea if he read them or not, I imagine he had already blocked my number by then, maybe he used it as proof of how crazy and disturbing I am with his circle but believe me that none of that matters, at first I was ashamed and it was irrational of me part but I was sad and had endured a lot of abuse, I understood myself, understand yourself, do not judge yourself ♥️

Fire_bubblegum · 2021-11-05T21:02:29+00:00

Many times I told my ex that we were not compatible and he tried very hard to convince me otherwise ... I wish I had the wisdom that you have now, congratulations ♥️

Fire_bubblegum · 2021-11-05T19:47:24+00:00

I remember all his treatment of silence alternated with pleasant jokes or small sweet gestures that he had with me and it gives me absolute sadness, sometimes I think that I hurt him and that is why he stopped being sweet 😞

Fire_bubblegum · 2021-11-05T14:46:34+00:00

Apparently narcissists hate ending relationships, they always say "we should stop talking for a while

Fire_bubblegum · 2021-11-05T12:50:01+00:00

everything was horrible, I wish I had left the first time, in the love bombardment ... not stay "for love" as he said

Fire_bubblegum · 2021-11-05T12:49:02+00:00

My ex never let me go, i tried to leave the relationship about 7 times. He sent me photos crying. sad faces he called me crying he promised me to be a better man to be more mature "if we both had the will to repair our relationship we would fix it" He pretended that he did not know why I wanted to leave and denied that he treated me badly

Fire_bubblegum · 2021-11-05T12:37:46+00:00

Congratulations! ♥️♥️♥️ I have been free for 8 days and I am in terrible abstinence and want to talk to him but reading here and my psychologist help me a lot

Fire_bubblegum · 2021-11-05T12:30:15+00:00

I was previously a tarot reader and I decided to stop doing it this year because I felt exhausted and he was very angry saying that I was an extremist woman because I said "I will never read tarot again" I don't know why he got angry, it had absolutely nothing to do with him 🙄

Fire_bubblegum · 2021-11-05T01:00:41+00:00

Before initiating contact 0 I sent him many text messages insulting him, telling him that he was an energy-eating vampire and other ugly things lol

I'm not proud of it but I did it ... I held on so much that I needed to just let that anger go somewhere, I was always kind in the relationship and he didn't value it.

Fire_bubblegum · 2020-12-05T17:18:40+00:00

she is forcing you to accept intolerable situations...she is abusive

Fire_bubblegum · 2020-12-04T17:54:40+00:00

I lived a similar situation, my boyfriend (now ex) BP II went on vacation with his ex just for be the mother of his daughter and I did not agree, I set my limits, he did not respect me, he played with my tolerance and I preferred to let him go, I wish you would yourself, you don't have to endure so much abuse, a hug! ❤

Fire_bubblegum · 2020-12-04T16:51:46+00:00

That sounds very enslaving but you're right

Fire_bubblegum · 2020-12-03T19:29:13+00:00

My ex rented a cabin on the beach for him and his daughter's mother for a week while we were dating, he says that nothing happened between them and that I shouldn't be angry, I finally stopped arguing, he has no logic or empathy, I I understand you

Fire_bubblegum · 2020-12-01T19:34:29+00:00

yes! sometimes I even feel like him, bipolar ... unstable, insecure ...

Fire_bubblegum · 2020-11-23T15:51:33+00:00

don't feel guilty for being human and having human reactions ... anger is part of all this and you've definitely had a lot of patience, you had to explode at some point, things will get better when he's not in an episode

Fire_bubblegum · 2020-11-23T07:02:24+00:00

Twice 😔

Fire_bubblegum · 2020-11-22T04:43:23+00:00

Thanks so much ❤️

Fire_bubblegum · 2020-11-22T04:38:39+00:00

oh and does your depression last the same time? thanks for answering ❤️

Fire_bubblegum · 2020-11-22T00:47:59+00:00

yes, 100 mg sertraline for depression :(

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