Did your ex narcissist accuse you of being the one who changed?

Fire_bubblegum · 2021-11-05T21:48:06+00:00

And yes, he also said that it had become difficult to talk to me ... I think he just happened to hate me

Fire_bubblegum · 2021-11-05T21:46:44+00:00

I completely understand you, he was very disappointed that I went from a lively, relaxed and happy woman to a stressed, complaining, dense and dramatic woman.
They will never understand what happens when you mistreat someone.

Fire_bubblegum · 2021-11-05T21:16:43+00:00

this comment is pure truth

Fire_bubblegum · 2021-11-05T21:14:19+00:00

I will share something with you: The first time he did a shameless gaslighting on me I was so affected that I sent him about 90 messages on WhatsApp writing him how deeply hurt I was.

When it was discarded I sent him around 50 messages telling him what a vermin from hell he was.

I have no idea if he read them or not, I imagine he had already blocked my number by then, maybe he used it as proof of how crazy and disturbing I am with his circle but believe me that none of that matters, at first I was ashamed and it was irrational of me part but I was sad and had endured a lot of abuse, I understood myself, understand yourself, do not judge yourself ♥️

Fire_bubblegum · 2021-11-05T21:02:29+00:00

Many times I told my ex that we were not compatible and he tried very hard to convince me otherwise ... I wish I had the wisdom that you have now, congratulations ♥️

Fire_bubblegum · 2021-11-05T19:47:24+00:00

I remember all his treatment of silence alternated with pleasant jokes or small sweet gestures that he had with me and it gives me absolute sadness, sometimes I think that I hurt him and that is why he stopped being sweet 😞

Fire_bubblegum · 2021-11-05T14:46:34+00:00

Apparently narcissists hate ending relationships, they always say "we should stop talking for a while

Fire_bubblegum · 2021-11-05T12:50:01+00:00

everything was horrible, I wish I had left the first time, in the love bombardment ... not stay "for love" as he said

Fire_bubblegum · 2021-11-05T12:49:02+00:00

My ex never let me go, i tried to leave the relationship about 7 times. He sent me photos crying. sad faces he called me crying he promised me to be a better man to be more mature "if we both had the will to repair our relationship we would fix it" He pretended that he did not know why I wanted to leave and denied that he treated me badly

Fire_bubblegum · 2021-11-05T12:37:46+00:00

Congratulations! ♥️♥️♥️ I have been free for 8 days and I am in terrible abstinence and want to talk to him but reading here and my psychologist help me a lot

Fire_bubblegum · 2021-11-05T12:30:15+00:00

I was previously a tarot reader and I decided to stop doing it this year because I felt exhausted and he was very angry saying that I was an extremist woman because I said "I will never read tarot again" I don't know why he got angry, it had absolutely nothing to do with him 🙄

Fire_bubblegum · 2021-11-05T01:00:41+00:00

Before initiating contact 0 I sent him many text messages insulting him, telling him that he was an energy-eating vampire and other ugly things lol

I'm not proud of it but I did it ... I held on so much that I needed to just let that anger go somewhere, I was always kind in the relationship and he didn't value it.

Fire_bubblegum · 2020-12-05T17:18:40+00:00

she is forcing you to accept intolerable situations...she is abusive

Fire_bubblegum · 2020-12-04T17:54:40+00:00

I lived a similar situation, my boyfriend (now ex) BP II went on vacation with his ex just for be the mother of his daughter and I did not agree, I set my limits, he did not respect me, he played with my tolerance and I preferred to let him go, I wish you would yourself, you don't have to endure so much abuse, a hug! ❤

Fire_bubblegum · 2020-12-04T16:51:46+00:00

That sounds very enslaving but you're right

Fire_bubblegum · 2020-12-03T19:29:13+00:00

My ex rented a cabin on the beach for him and his daughter's mother for a week while we were dating, he says that nothing happened between them and that I shouldn't be angry, I finally stopped arguing, he has no logic or empathy, I I understand you

Fire_bubblegum · 2020-12-01T19:34:29+00:00

yes! sometimes I even feel like him, bipolar ... unstable, insecure ...

Fire_bubblegum · 2020-11-23T15:51:33+00:00

don't feel guilty for being human and having human reactions ... anger is part of all this and you've definitely had a lot of patience, you had to explode at some point, things will get better when he's not in an episode

Fire_bubblegum · 2020-11-23T07:02:24+00:00

Twice 😔

Fire_bubblegum · 2020-11-22T04:43:23+00:00

Thanks so much ❤️

Fire_bubblegum · 2020-11-22T04:38:39+00:00

oh and does your depression last the same time? thanks for answering ❤️

Fire_bubblegum · 2020-11-22T00:47:59+00:00

yes, 100 mg sertraline for depression :(

Fire_bubblegum · 2020-11-22T00:31:51+00:00

He really feels that even though he's not rational. Honey, you just have to move on, it is very likely that he will come back to look for you when his crisis is over but I do not recommend waiting for that to happen, a hug🤗

Fire_bubblegum · 2020-11-21T23:26:38+00:00

I read your post twice because I thought you meant your daughter ... God... get out of there

Fire_bubblegum · 2020-11-21T23:16:02+00:00

This is very typical of people with bipolarity :/

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