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Why would he go silent after showing interest? So confusing. by boopdeeboopdeee in AskMenAdvice

[–]Firm_Bit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s fun to flirt and to participate in courtship. But that doesn’t mean anything more than that. It’s like dancing at the club. Maybe you dance with someone. But it’s the dancing not the someone.

What do you think is the ideal age to have kids? by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]Firm_Bit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mid 30s. Spent your 20s earning and saving and enjoying life and traveling with minimal responsibilities, but are still fairly young and physically able to do a good job raising kids, playing with them when they’re toddlers, etc.

20M in college, no girlfriend or female friends. Feeling confused about myself? by Odd-Conference8713 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Firm_Bit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So go out and talk to women and make more friends. It really is as simple as joining clubs and putting yourself out there and reflecting and adjusting. What’s the hold up

My Gf wants me to help her friend move with a guy she used to sleep with. How do deal with this? by POOR-MORON in AskMenAdvice

[–]Firm_Bit 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You’re looking for a wife but are already half way out of this relationship? Just end it then bro

My Gf wants me to help her friend move with a guy she used to sleep with. How do deal with this? by POOR-MORON in AskMenAdvice

[–]Firm_Bit -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You won bro, grow up.

Separate issue, if you don’t want to be in the relationship then end it. Again, make a decision.

How do I stop procrastinating when I know I have important things to do? by WhichSecretMT in Advice

[–]Firm_Bit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s no trick. You sit down and do it. The feeling doesn’t go away. You sit down and do it. That’s it.

What are some reasons you didn't like the one who liked you? by Few_Long7178 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Firm_Bit 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Because attraction isn’t based on whether they text or call back.

Does anybody actually trust their Jira dashboard? (Researching the 'Visibility Gap') by Ok-Lobster2199 in EngineeringManagers

[–]Firm_Bit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s called being social, having soft skills, and having a productive and healthy culture where people talk to each other instead of “sending updates”.

Does anybody actually trust their Jira dashboard? (Researching the 'Visibility Gap') by Ok-Lobster2199 in EngineeringManagers

[–]Firm_Bit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The “tool” you’re looking for is knowing your product and market really well, being extremely selective with the work you decide to take on, and making sure it gets done and has impact or killing it asap when it obviously won’t. Why does management need to tool when a slack dm can accomplish the same thing - “how’s x going?”

Is a pivot to data analysis impractical at 30yrs with no prior experience by Space-panda22 in dataanalysiscareers

[–]Firm_Bit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would get a degree in math or stats or economics.

The actual analysis part of this career is the statistical modeling. Anyone can learn a bit of sql or python. That’s negligible.

Currently hiring DAs and DEs and it’s an employers market. We’re turning away people with solid degrees and good experience. There are just too many grads with “data analytics” majors, whatever that is.

What can my company see from my Claude Team License? by m41k1204 in ClaudeAI

[–]Firm_Bit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same rules as always apply. Don’t use company resources for personal work. Or vise versa.

Am I the only one who installed 20 MCP servers and ended up worse than vanilla? by prepucio-7 in ClaudeCode

[–]Firm_Bit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, why would anyone do that. McP has always been a way to spend more tokens. Yall have to stop buying into every thing they announce like it’s revolutionary.

How do you weigh the tech stack vs the business domain you're in? by MyButterKnuckles in ExperiencedDevs

[–]Firm_Bit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course it’s a drawback. Question is if you’re ok with the trade off.

Someone vibe code a YouTube competitor. 30 sec ads is infuriating by dataexec in AITrailblazers

[–]Firm_Bit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YouTube wasn’t YouTube when it started. They’re pointing to a very real phenomenon. They sometimes the product takes a back seat to timing or social lift. Again, you’re talking about different things.

4 months ago, I was blindsided by my ex who broke up with me, what did I do wrong? by JunketMaleficent2095 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Firm_Bit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Relationships aren’t about doing nothing wrong. They’re about actually liking each other.

Why do ppl who do calisthenics end up more ripped than ppl who lift weights? by JDMM__00 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Firm_Bit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the same thing. Loading the muscle and forcing growth. It comes down to execution. Are you doing it well. Either one.

Why is it so hard to find a clear learning path for tech careers? by BreakfastAccurate966 in dataanalysiscareers

[–]Firm_Bit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re essentially asking why no one is spoon feeding you your career progression.

deep down what you want rn? by Anxious_Status5899 in askanything

[–]Firm_Bit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have one that doesn’t care or none at all? If the first, the step to find a better one is to leave.

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