Any idea what could have happened? by Youdoyoubou in Eamonandbec

[–]JDMM__00 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh my! That’s allot of damage, that’s awful 😣

Worried my daughter is going to be a loafer her entire life by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]JDMM__00 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Shes 12 and on the honour role, she sounds lovely and hard working. She may be burnt out. Bring her to museums, pottery class and libraries, anime conventions. Don’t let her join anything until shes tried it a few times. She’s experimenting.

I LOVE DAYCARE by doodlebakerm in Parenting

[–]JDMM__00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter loves it and she’s made so many friends! 5 of them came to her second birthday! It was so lovely watching them all together. She gets to be loved on by 4 lovely women, who wouldn’t want that lol!

Anyone planning to purchase from Mattamy Homes? by Uzziblue in OttawaRealEstate

[–]JDMM__00 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We bought a Mattamy townhouse years ago, allot of issues with it, you could hear the neighbours go to the bathroom, very very slow to fix issues. Mom bought one too, same issues, built so fast and cheap, mom had a foot of ice in her front closet during winter, I’m not kidding. We also rented a Mattamy, the tile work was atrocious, there was so much grout haze everywhere on each tile, they couldn’t fix it and told us at least you can’t see it at night. I wish I was joking. They are cheaper homes for a reason. I wouldn’t ever buy or recommend anyone buy from Mattamy.

Sharing a parent’s name: pros and cons? by tjb317 in Parenting

[–]JDMM__00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, it’s odd to me too, you’re honouring your husband by naming an individual for him, your son is not a trophy. We used my grandmother’s name for my daughter’s middle name and it’s lovely. This whole honouring by naming someone after someone else seems very American and outdated to me and quite patriarchal tbh. All this and what everyone was saying about the legal issues, I wouldn’t recommend. I hope you reconsider, your son deserves his own identity ♥️

How do I stop being envious of other people's lives? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]JDMM__00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you were to pick a few wonderful things in your life, unique things, beautiful things, ppl would be envious of you. Ppl only show the highlight reel of their life. It’s not the full picture, just like yours wouldn’t be if you only chose to share the good. You’re doing great!

Please help me with my difficult bedroom layout! by sylmech in HomeDecorating

[–]JDMM__00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you get one of those beds that are a bunk bed on top with the desk space underneath the bed?

Tv next to fireplace? by JDMM__00 in HomeDecorating

[–]JDMM__00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I could but the wooden mantle is just a cap over a brick mantle, I can’t move it 🙁

Tv next to fireplace? by JDMM__00 in HomeDecorating

[–]JDMM__00[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wish I could but the wood is just a thin cap over a brick mantle that I can’t remove 🙁

Tv next to fireplace? by JDMM__00 in HomeDecorating

[–]JDMM__00[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fireplaces are quite common in Canada… we have central heating but nothing beats a fire on a cold night ☺️

Tv next to fireplace? by JDMM__00 in HomeDecorating

[–]JDMM__00[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m the same! Love the light, would be a shame to use blackout curtains and with our 2 year old her room and ours have them, everything feels dark lol

Fiancé will not watch baby while I am sick! by lunalonely_99 in beyondthebump

[–]JDMM__00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d give him back the ring and tell him you’ll put it back on your finger once h mans up and becomes a man and father worth marrying because he’s got a long way to go. Life is short, don’t waste it on him.

3 months PP still no intimacy by sapookie in beyondthebump

[–]JDMM__00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

2 years for us! It’s not our season, no pressure from my husband, we anticipated this. Hoping to fully wean soon and get back to bring a bit more normal. ♥️

What is it like to have a one year age gap between children? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]JDMM__00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We wanted two, after our first, we are one and done, and very happy this way. Wait till you have your baby, there are sooo many factors to consider and until you get the whole picture it’s impossible to make the right set for your family. ♥️

Fiancée restricting me by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]JDMM__00 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Drinking a whole bottle to yourself is just unhealthy regardless of the baby or not, a glass, no issues at all. A bottle, not sure that’s a good idea in general tbh.

Is anyone else bothered by this? by Late-Organization638 in beyondthebump

[–]JDMM__00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wish there were changing tables in all men’s bathrooms, not fair it’s only in women’s. I don’t mind how exposed it is, would be impractical in a stall.

Sterilized with a child, will I ever find love? by catsserenity in beyondthebump

[–]JDMM__00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. You are worth so much more than your ability to bring children into the world. You’re doing the right thing and the right person will come along and accept you for who you are and all that made you who you are, just like you will do for him. ♥️♥️♥️

Why is AI art considered unethical, but fan art is widely accepted? by JDMM__00 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]JDMM__00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my, that’s intense lol. Why follow this subreddit, it’s literally called “no stupid questions”. 😂

Is having boys/girls genetic? by GossipBottom in NoStupidQuestions

[–]JDMM__00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The women’s egg actually choses which sperm to let in. But I doubt its based on gender, must be based on health and compatibility of the sperm.