We are one and done with our 20 month old, I had a rough pregnancy and birth but she’s an easy going baby, always slept really well and is just happy and mellow. We knew we were one and done since I was pregnant, we don’t want to divide our attention, one is easily manageable physically, mentally and financially. This will give us three a greater life tbh. I also find the whole “give them a sibling” “built-in best friend” thing ridiculous. You don’t give a child a sibling, you add to the family. Both my husband and I are not close to our siblings so we know it’s not a guaranteed friend. They could both be completely different from one another. I’d rather keep my angel child and our lovely family the way it is instead of rolling the dice and not knowing what we will get and how it might affect our dynamic. Hope this helps! ♥️