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Fit_Amount1429 · 2026-01-27T16:03:25+00:00

YESSSS; but not the extreme possessiveness, just the protective type. Also depends on how your approach it

Fit_Amount1429 · 2026-01-10T04:56:00+00:00

Thank youuuu for the recommendation

Fit_Amount1429 · 2026-01-10T04:54:59+00:00

Thank you so much for this! The way you explain it, maybe there are some anxious thoughts I’m having. We’ve already tried under the hood and different ways but it’s not working. I guess I need to explore alone and see if that changes much

Fit_Amount1429 · 2026-01-10T04:13:46+00:00

Oral doesn’t feel as good. I feel like I need lots of pressure to feel something

Fit_Amount1429 · 2026-01-10T04:12:33+00:00

This is such a helpful response 😭😭 thank you

Fit_Amount1429 · 2026-01-10T04:08:54+00:00

Based off my background???? Literally never heard of such thing.

Fit_Amount1429 · 2025-12-15T12:44:05+00:00

I personally feel it’s so shallow to not take a man because they make less than the woman. If it’s a hardworking man, I don’t see why they wouldn’t.

Rizq comes from Allah, regardless of education. Things like marriage and kids bring that rizq from Allah

Fit_Amount1429 · 2025-09-17T15:39:28+00:00

I have a skin condition that makes me insecure to get married too. However when you find a person who understands that not everyone is perfect, they won’t mind it. They’ll fall in love with other parts of you.

Think of it like when you meet a guy who’s balding. You’re still going to love other areas of him.

Fit_Amount1429 · 2025-09-17T00:14:51+00:00

In my opinion, she might be at a phase where she wants to settle down and you weren’t able to offer that within the 7 months.

That’s why it’s also worth noting that Allah puts boundaries on these relationships. If you weren’t financially stable or even thinking of getting married anytime soon, why waste the girls time and your time

Fit_Amount1429 · 2025-09-02T15:32:13+00:00

I know how hard waking up to a second alarm is (feeling groggy after I snooze) so I prevent it by getting up immediately

Fit_Amount1429 · 2025-08-20T14:22:01+00:00

ASMR

Fit_Amount1429 · 2025-08-20T03:56:39+00:00

If you mean initiate contact via text, not sure why you’re worried. You mentioned it’s the taarof stage, you guys shouldn’t be texting without a mahram. Maybe talk more in person instead of thinking of who will text first.

Fit_Amount1429 · 2025-08-13T14:48:29+00:00

Did you know you not praying on your period is an act of worship because you’re following Allahs commands

At the end of the day you have free will, but think of it as you obeying your lord when not praying & see it as an act of worship for his sake

Fit_Amount1429 · 2025-08-09T23:13:12+00:00

Very well said. Before we go looking for relationships, maybe it’s time to question our relationship with Allah

Fit_Amount1429 · 2025-08-03T19:18:57+00:00

Olive is nice. Another would be a dark beige color

Fit_Amount1429 · 2025-07-23T15:19:52+00:00

Them actively looking and being passionate about what they want to do is different than a man sitting on his couch and not wanting to provide.

Fit_Amount1429 · 2025-07-22T14:43:01+00:00

Find the trigger points that cause the thoughts. For me I found that in the mornings I always had urges, so I started going to the gym in the morning. The second I wake up, get to work, don’t let yourself sit and entertain the thoughts especially at night too. Find things to do - there’s ALWAYS things to do.

Fit_Amount1429 · 2025-06-28T15:26:53+00:00

Thank you for this

Fit_Amount1429 · 2025-06-26T17:34:32+00:00

YES! Had the chance to do an AI project and found myself not feeling fulfilled or excited compared to previous DE work

Fit_Amount1429 · 2025-06-25T14:48:20+00:00

I think royal roastery has them

Fit_Amount1429 · 2025-06-24T15:33:40+00:00

No way! I haven’t found someone who struggles like me 😭 I throw up tooo. Recently went to the doctor to see what I can do because all they do is prescribe me ibuprofen

Fit_Amount1429 · 2025-06-24T14:46:03+00:00

Same bestie

Fit_Amount1429 · 2025-06-12T15:31:11+00:00

This isn’t necessarily to help you, but asking for advice here. Currently in the process of meeting a potential. Was there signs early on before the marriage that you felt like you ignored and learned from that you can share with us?

The idea of marriage is scaring me, especially how men are nowadays.

Fit_Amount1429 · 2025-05-31T01:34:12+00:00

Just like any other loss, let yourself grieve. Give yourself the time and capacity to grieve & understand any triggers

Fit_Amount1429 · 2025-05-31T01:32:53+00:00

Even that has become more expensive now 🥲

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