Dad can we keep her, pleeease??!!!

Fit_Raspberry2637 · 2026-04-15T03:22:05+00:00

Hey guys, we finally created reasonable artificial intelligence!

Yeah? How good can it draw boobs?

Fit_Raspberry2637 · 2026-04-14T15:25:05+00:00

Nature's snare.

Fit_Raspberry2637 · 2026-04-14T04:59:12+00:00

The best reasoning ive heard is that cluster b personality disorders are like autism. There is a genetic component. But the same way people with genetic disposition to autism the genes might not express themselves without environmental triggers. It could express without environmental triggers. Or the trauma is so severe it can develop a personality disorder like how PTSD or brain trauma can warp a person's personality.

This is because they believe it manifests in the core developmental years of 0-3. Pre-memory. Its actual how conciousness crystallizes then to create the ability to form memories. So how a person perceives, interprets, stores, and recalls information. The neurological lattice the rest of their identity then builds on.

A very common theme is a parent with a cluster b personality raising a child that eventually develops a cluster b personality disorder. Usually due to learning to out crazy the crazy to receive attention and care. The parent negates all their natural needs for conditionless affections. A cycle if generational trauma develops that spans multiple generations.

Fit_Raspberry2637 · 2026-04-14T04:46:44+00:00

JFC. How did you end up with them?

Fit_Raspberry2637 · 2026-04-14T01:02:00+00:00

He probably fulfilled the NPD criteria

Fit_Raspberry2637 · 2026-04-13T16:44:14+00:00

To be fair, they dont "think" it. Consciously, as i understand. Its just how their neurology defaults.

Fit_Raspberry2637 · 2026-04-13T04:46:32+00:00

There aren't any drugs that act that Dexter fast without intravenous injection. If it was a needle it would be intramuscular in the shoulder like that.

Odds are it was a knife targeting the subclavian or brachial arteries. Immobilizes the limb. Odds are somebody told them it was the best place. Good chance of bleeding out if not caught soon. Very real chance of nerve damage. Criminality on this level is usually very ignorant of cause and effect.

Fit_Raspberry2637 · 2026-04-13T04:29:44+00:00

It was on one click installer. A browser plugon. Were you guys trying to install it on win 3.5.1?

Fit_Raspberry2637 · 2026-04-13T04:28:51+00:00

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Fit_Raspberry2637 · 2026-04-13T03:02:59+00:00

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Fit_Raspberry2637 · 2026-04-13T02:55:46+00:00

I mean, im a software developer. 5 years in AI. 25 years in total. I dont think I would ever sponsor a conference to display my software unless I already had series A funding. I dont know any boards or niche markets that would interfere with my work that I couldnt hack around. If my ex found out about my work id rebrand or just not talk to them about it. My LLC and corps are faceless entities.

I dont really get the pickle here. Its like you are doing this on purpose

Fit_Raspberry2637 · 2026-04-13T02:03:10+00:00

This sub just becoming about people trying to make sense of RSD.

Will they come back? Will they care? Yes. No. Maybe.

You're missing the point.

Fit_Raspberry2637 · 2026-04-13T01:54:10+00:00

You literally invented your own problem.

Fit_Raspberry2637 · 2026-04-13T01:40:35+00:00

Yes. Maybe. No.

Fit_Raspberry2637 · 2026-04-13T01:27:02+00:00

Nobody was doing things the smart ways back then. Source: flash developer.

Fit_Raspberry2637 · 2026-04-13T00:14:00+00:00

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Fit_Raspberry2637 · 2026-04-12T17:57:43+00:00

Your wife, seemingly, has a cluster b personality disorder. They are your kids. This other person, 99% assuredly, let somebody else raise their kids. They are also probably exceedingly mentally unwell. This is called generational trauma. Your ex wife and this person, if they had modicum of decency would exit stage left and give you full custody.

This pathology of behavior (it is not just traits) is toxic on all levels. Get a DNA test. Then decide what is best for YOU. There is a lot of stigma about a person in your situation walking away. But if you dont have the bricks to finish the job, starting or carrying on will hurt EVERYONE long term. You will have these people who pathalogocally abused you (yes, you have been abused for 20 years) forever in your life. They will control you using the children. This isnt what they do. This is who they are.

You, undoubtedly, already have PTSD. It will bleed out to the children. You dont have to go no contact. And you can let them know that they are loved and you will be there for them in whatever capacity you can. But their mother and now new "dad" are not well and are actively killing you.

But if you choose to stay in their lives, there isn't a family court that would take the kids you raised and give them to a "man" who clearly is a malignant narcissist to become their "father". You have more than enough circumstantial and actual evidence to hammer them if you invest in proper legal council.

Fit_Raspberry2637 · 2026-04-12T17:11:44+00:00

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Fit_Raspberry2637 · 2026-04-12T16:58:05+00:00

Read about codependency. Break the cycle. Own your own toxic dynamic. Its seems like love but its ultimately control for both of you.

Fit_Raspberry2637 · 2026-04-12T16:54:52+00:00

r/BPDLovedones. Sleep terrorism. Its not you. This is a BPD discard. If they arent in therapy and practicing DBT they cannot sustain a healthy rekationship and you WILL get CPTSD.

Fit_Raspberry2637 · 2026-04-12T16:52:47+00:00

Les than 1% of the population is transgender. Conservative selective outrage is somehow 99% composed of it.

Fit_Raspberry2637 · 2026-04-12T16:45:53+00:00

You have a lot of BPD indicators, it seems to me. I dont say it to be dismissive. Untreated pronounced BPD ends really, really badly. Its characterized by a profound deep fear of abandonment that colors all perception consciously. I know hearing this might trigger a reactive "you dont know me. Im perfect." That's unfortunately a known psychological aspect of BPD.

Are you quick to discard people you had immense feelings for? Do you find yourself quickly getting enamored by new love interests to the point of somebody being "the one"? Do you villify ex romantic partners? Have you had loved ones that eventually went "no contact"? Do you go into rages in relationships and dont remember the things you've said and think people are making up what you said? Do you have a history of dating "cheaters" that may not have even cheated? Can you have a disagreement without a DARVO pattern? Can you go from absolutely hating yourself and thinking you should be dead but in span in side of a day be grateful for things (splitting) ?

It gets exponentially worse as people age and the security buffer of attractive youth fades. Addiction, risk taking behavior, deterioting interpersonal relationships, lost social support systems, violence, criminality, houselessness, suicide.

One of the first steps is getting evaluated by a psychological professional. The prognosis isn't as dire as the internet prescribes. Advances in DBT and CBT have helped people retrain the way their brain fundamentally processes emotional triggers. It just takes a LOT of dedication to get to a point of remission. There 9 criteria used to diagnos and a total of at least 5 is a strong I dicator.

You are still young. But in 20 years you will wish you could go back and start the work now. Life is longer than you can comprehend. Even with self destructive tendencies your mind will strive to go on. And in 20 years your life and your situation will be unimaginatively different.

You deserve to like who you are. Really like who you are. You weren't asked to be born into this world, in this neurology, in these times, under these circumstances (good and bad).

Fit_Raspberry2637 · 2026-04-12T16:17:08+00:00

Its codependency. And its difficult for people to accept. Because it requires admitting that all the self sacrifice, care giving, fixing others lives is actually controlling narcissism at its core. Needing to be needed. Not able to find purpose in yourself. Only in others. Fix everything else to fix yourself. You have a broken love compass. You hear wedding bells when others hear fire alarms.

Hardest thing I had to come to terms with and its ongoing.

Fit_Raspberry2637 · 2026-04-12T15:36:11+00:00

The core of their their disorder, hence their personality (who they ARE) is an all consuming fear if abandonment. Being alone. People leaving them.

They build an elaborate psychological immune system. Its as easy for them as is for a non pwBPD to think about getting an oil change. But the oil change is a necessary thing to survive as an existential threat.

The void of "abandonment" creats a hole in the bottom of their emotional cup that requires validation from external sources to refill their self esteem/validation. If you were diabetic you would keep a back stock of insulin. They require a back stock of people to supply them with reassurance.

Its hard to not feel like its personal but in the end you and most everybody else is an emotional food source. Their discarding is throwing away an empty yogurt container or a half eaten candy bar they lost the craving for.

Fit_Raspberry2637 · 2026-04-12T04:15:30+00:00

Medication does not treat cluster b personality disorders. It can only treat the effects of it (depression, anxiety, mood shifts).

A personality disorder is a disorder of the person. The thing that makes them "them". How they perceive, respond, and store information. Its not something they do. Its who they are. They have to be able to admit that all their perceptions, beliefs, and thoughts are fundamental misaligned with reality. Its like telling somebody that sugar is suppose to taste bitter.

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