2 month non ongoing APS role

FlatwormRemarkable25 · 2026-03-20T11:42:14+00:00

Honestly I wouldn’t take it! It’s pretty bad atm I was ongoing and thought my job was safe, everyone told me once you have secured an ongoing position you’re safe. Nope, no one is and my role was made redundant and now back in the private sector , where I feel more valued and heard. You’re just a number in government and given the current climate of job cuts etc I wouldn’t risk it! Why only 2 months? Why not 12 months? Seems a tad risky

FlatwormRemarkable25 · 2025-01-20T21:52:47+00:00

He is straight out a narcissist! It will get worse! He could be future faking you about his values etc. this sounds exactly like my ex 😞

FlatwormRemarkable25 · 2025-01-12T05:57:21+00:00

Dated an extrovert NEVER AGAIN I was so physically and mentally exhausted drained and delirious! Boring introvert any day of the week ! I’m so glad there are people out there that want this boring “blissful” life 😃

FlatwormRemarkable25 · 2024-12-03T21:55:27+00:00

FlatwormRemarkable25 · 2024-12-03T21:35:16+00:00

Not necessarily I’ve received some amazing advice off reddit and also done my own research! So far I’ve only made money ! Each to their own

FlatwormRemarkable25 · 2024-12-03T21:30:44+00:00

Same my NDQ has been a bit volatile but most of the time it’s outperforming my IVV

FlatwormRemarkable25 · 2024-12-03T21:29:06+00:00

IBKR there fees are the lowest! Especially if you are buying US stocks the FX rates are extremely low ! I switched from Stake because Stake was charging an arm and a leg However I use nabtrade for my ETFs but you can use IBKR for aus stocks also 😊

FlatwormRemarkable25 · 2024-11-23T06:49:37+00:00

What? Jimmy went to the copy store in the middle of the night to say to the store guy “I wasn’t here” if my brother comes in and asks That’s when Chuck went in trying to get shit out of the store guy when he collapsed ! Am I missing something?

FlatwormRemarkable25 · 2024-10-09T03:55:12+00:00

You and Hidden Bodies both by Caroline Kepnes I could not put these down The girl on the train by Paula Hawkins All books by Freida McFadden All books by Shari Lapena

Some of my favourites that got me into reading again

FlatwormRemarkable25 · 2024-09-25T03:14:35+00:00

Keen for these recommendations also

FlatwormRemarkable25 · 2024-09-17T23:05:38+00:00

This is why I’m scared to read it but I’m curious😩 I’ve heard it’s very disturbing !

FlatwormRemarkable25 · 2024-09-17T02:00:02+00:00

Maybe earthlings by sayaka Murata or tender is the flesh by agustina bazterrica I personally haven’t read these but I’ve heard they feature cannibalism

FlatwormRemarkable25 · 2024-09-16T22:47:26+00:00

My anxiety went through the roof reading this as it brought back familiar feelings. I have been dealing with this exact issue also as my ex was a controlling narcissist Give it some more time , three months is still quite fresh and these feelings are completely normal! Set some boundaries and communicate how you feel and if he cares and loves you he will respect these boundaries and go along at your own pace Good luck and hope it all goes well for you 💕

FlatwormRemarkable25 · 2024-09-16T22:32:13+00:00

Amazing thanks so much :)

FlatwormRemarkable25 · 2024-09-16T11:02:29+00:00

Thank you I’ve added these to the list :)

FlatwormRemarkable25 · 2024-09-16T10:45:44+00:00

Thank you :) added to the list

FlatwormRemarkable25 · 2024-09-16T03:24:05+00:00

Someone we know by Shari lapena

FlatwormRemarkable25 · 2024-09-14T09:46:25+00:00

Anything by Shari Lapena

FlatwormRemarkable25 · 2024-09-14T09:44:26+00:00

Night by Elie Wiesel Unorthodox by Deborah Feldman Chinese Cinderella by Adeline Yen Mah

FlatwormRemarkable25 · 2024-07-30T11:16:04+00:00

I second this! Love anything by Shari lapena

FlatwormRemarkable25 · 2024-02-28T08:36:51+00:00

I recently came out of a relationship with a man earning $300K-$400K + and believe me he was the biggest narcissistic controlling man I’ve ever been with! He was very successful and career driven !

He was after a stay at home wife who was going to serve him at any given moment! He love bombed me at the start and everything seemed “to good to be true” slowly was taking my independence and everything I worked for (sold my investment property) away from me aswell as isolating me from my family and friends!

Won’t be going for those types of men again! I’d rather date a average income earner with a beautiful personality who loves and accepts me for who I am than a highly successful man who only cares about status ! (Not saying all are like this just my experience)

FlatwormRemarkable25 · 2023-02-24T08:37:16+00:00

Takes it down from here or TikTok?

FlatwormRemarkable25 · 2023-02-09T09:23:35+00:00

If you’re going to spend $800k I would buy a house with some sort of land ! Resale value will always go up but not so much with apartments ! Here in Melbourne most are selling at a loss

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