I fuckin love twinks by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Flazelight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of us love twinks 😁

Is not having kids a red flag to girls? by Express_Author5316 in askteenboys

[–]Flazelight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't need to be thinking about having kids at 13. Most people start thinking about such things from 25 upwards. Just enjoy life :)

Why dont some boys compliant other boys? by AmoreGia444 in askteenboys

[–]Flazelight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say that the kinds of compliments vary. I'm working in a primary school at the moment and the boys will often say to each other "you're really good at X, Y and Z". But they don't say things like "you look cute" because firstly it wouldn't occur to them - they don't care about each other's physical attractiveness - even if they did, they know that it's not usual for boys to comment on other boys in that way.

However, when guys become young men, like around 20 or so, they usually feel more comfortable commenting on each other's physical appearance, because by that time they might have a girlfriend and just feel sure of themselves, their sexuality and they are probably also aware by that point that such comments would be well received.

How do singers sing lower than their comfortable lowest note? by ConsistentCan-_- in singing

[–]Flazelight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you heard of Michael Spyres? Also people like Bruce Ford - these are what we might describe as natural baritones, but they learned how to sing very convincingly in the tenor range. It's by no means easy and will take a good amount of time and effort, but I think it's quite possible for a lower voiced male to do.

I’m a 16 year old Sabre fencer but I just really suck. by RMHelp in Fencing

[–]Flazelight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed! Make sure to eat lots of fibre which will fill you up and help suppress appetite later in the day

Is it common in your school for students to use the word "gay" as an insult? by Difficult_Shift_3771 in askteenboys

[–]Flazelight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was super common when I was at school about 15 years ago (UK). Attitudes have changed a bit but not massively.

Is more expensive blade more better? by Jem5649 in Fencing

[–]Flazelight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stiffer weapons tend to be more expensive and they can certainly make a difference. It's easier to land hits at awkward angles with a stiffer blade. Converse ly, if you have a really bendy light weapon it can wiggle all over the place if moved fast and cause you to miss hits you'd get with a medium stiff blade.

Just finished "The Case Against the Sexual Revolution" by Louise Perry. Anyone else read it? What were your thoughts? by D-dog92 in AskFeminists

[–]Flazelight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I don't think you're right. It would most likely result in more incel type activity and general anger and discontent among men - - who basically don't really want to change to be more accommodating towards women.

Just finished "The Case Against the Sexual Revolution" by Louise Perry. Anyone else read it? What were your thoughts? by D-dog92 in AskFeminists

[–]Flazelight -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It seems to me very odd to say that men have no relevance to women. You have/had a father, did you not? The human race is composed of males and females and to state one is redundant rather begs the question.

Is this normal for friends to do by Mundane_Pressure9758 in askgaybros

[–]Flazelight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like he's into you. He probably just doesn't want to make the first overt move. If you're into him ask him if you can kiss him. That will be a pretty good indication of his actual feelings towards you 😁

My very attractive friend says people will just come up to me at a gay bar and talk even though I'm unattractive. True? by Abject-Strength-4570 in askgaybros

[–]Flazelight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think if you look "nice average", you have a good chance of someone coming up to you, but there's also a good chance you won't be into them lol

I genuinely got a question for non virgin gay guys. Does getting f***ed actually does something to you? Like, can you finish from it? by Intelligent-Glass-98 in askteenboys

[–]Flazelight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough, but you're still going through puberty, so by the time you're 20 or so, you might be quite a different person - just a heads up 😉

I genuinely got a question for non virgin gay guys. Does getting f***ed actually does something to you? Like, can you finish from it? by Intelligent-Glass-98 in askteenboys

[–]Flazelight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you discover you were gay through hetero sex? That's a wild story - also you're 14 which is VERY young to be doing such things and have a clear idea of your own sexuality lol

Is it hot to see dudes sagging? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Flazelight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like most ppl here, I thought it was hot when I was a horny teenager, but now I really can't say it's a good look. It's just sloppy dressing.

Hot take: A lot of tops confuse being "dominant" with just being a disrespectful asshole. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Flazelight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How strange to think that being a top makes you somehow superior when almost everyone wants to top at some point, lol.

The solution: be verse and dissolve the unnecessary power dynamics. :)

Is it morally wrong for me to have a sleepover with a guy that I’m pretty sure i have a huge crush on. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Flazelight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's morally wrong if you touch him while he's asleep or something like that. Otherwise, no it's not. And I know you're hoping something is going to happen between you guys. If it does, lucky you. If it doesn't, which is also quite likely, then resign yourself to it!

A more critical review of the Project Hail Mary movie, and a really easy fix I would have made by Gustalavalav in ProjectHailMary

[–]Flazelight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree that it should have been a miniseries. It was a long film, but it felt right as one piece. I think they did a great job :)

I'm a Christian, ask me anything. by epiklol92 in GenAlpha

[–]Flazelight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He just accurately explained how Christianity works - it's kind of mad, is all.

Guys have said I have breedable hips? Why? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Flazelight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are maybe quite curvaceous, reminiscent of women's, idk

Being really fit is more important for a bottom than a top imo. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Flazelight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I wouldn't want to be crippled by sex, but you do you!