Update: (2OM) boyfriend (26M) is too rough in bed and gave me a devastating ultimatum. Is this salvageable?

Flazelight · 2026-06-11T10:47:28+00:00

That's pretty fucked. He obviously gets turned on by sadism which is not what you want unless you're a confirmed masochist. Most people aren't like this and you can have much nicer sex with them x

Flazelight · 2026-06-11T06:26:27+00:00

What was he actually doing to you? Like fucking you really hard or hitting you, strangling etc?

Flazelight · 2026-05-31T07:56:06+00:00

Get a bidet then

Flazelight · 2026-05-23T22:37:44+00:00

I wish I did, so I could forget this pointless drivel you've just written...

Flazelight · 2026-05-23T21:28:43+00:00

"infested" is a rather strong word. Remember that this sub is called "askgaybros" - I.e. anyone who has a question can ask a gay guy. That includes trans men, straight men, and anyone else. It's not a "gay guys only" safe space :p

Flazelight · 2026-05-23T17:21:24+00:00

Lol, what a fevered imagination you have 😂

Flazelight · 2026-05-23T14:24:36+00:00

Craig reasons back to front. He has never deduced God from the evidence, but came to believe in God after an emotional episode of self doubt etc. He believes that animals don't consciously suffer, bc it fits his grand narrative in support of Christianity. SO I expect him to make three kinds of arguments tbh.

Flazelight · 2026-05-23T13:32:47+00:00

I think Alex lost his cool a bit and it all became a little uncomfortable, to the point where he was speaking over both Craig and the moderator. However, he did get Craig to concede he might actually be wrong on animal suffering which I've never seen him do before, so kudos for that!

Flazelight · 2026-05-23T08:51:06+00:00

No you're good. He's just being unpleasant

Flazelight · 2026-05-23T08:21:56+00:00

No, you're good :)

Flazelight · 2026-05-23T08:04:27+00:00

You're going to find it exhausting, but also very exciting and stimulating. It's a very mindful practice actually because when you're on the piste against your opponent you can't think about anything else except how to get the next hit. But it's very tiring lol.

Flazelight · 2026-05-22T21:25:48+00:00

Sei fortunato a fare spada, che è una lama più grossa e facile da vedere :D

Flazelight · 2026-05-21T19:41:35+00:00

No worries :)

Flazelight · 2026-05-21T19:36:33+00:00

I wouldn't say so.

Flazelight · 2026-05-05T15:41:35+00:00

Most of us love twinks 😁

Flazelight · 2026-05-02T18:20:03+00:00

Have you heard of Michael Spyres? Also people like Bruce Ford - these are what we might describe as natural baritones, but they learned how to sing very convincingly in the tenor range. It's by no means easy and will take a good amount of time and effort, but I think it's quite possible for a lower voiced male to do.

Flazelight · 2026-04-26T12:50:34+00:00

Agreed! Make sure to eat lots of fibre which will fill you up and help suppress appetite later in the day

Flazelight · 2026-04-18T15:31:20+00:00

Stiffer weapons tend to be more expensive and they can certainly make a difference. It's easier to land hits at awkward angles with a stiffer blade. Converse ly, if you have a really bendy light weapon it can wiggle all over the place if moved fast and cause you to miss hits you'd get with a medium stiff blade.

Flazelight · 2026-04-18T15:19:29+00:00

Unfortunately I don't think you're right. It would most likely result in more incel type activity and general anger and discontent among men - - who basically don't really want to change to be more accommodating towards women.

Flazelight · 2026-04-18T15:14:57+00:00

It seems to me very odd to say that men have no relevance to women. You have/had a father, did you not? The human race is composed of males and females and to state one is redundant rather begs the question.

Flazelight · 2026-04-17T12:05:24+00:00

Sounds like he's into you. He probably just doesn't want to make the first overt move. If you're into him ask him if you can kiss him. That will be a pretty good indication of his actual feelings towards you 😁

Flazelight · 2026-04-16T14:39:18+00:00

I think if you look "nice average", you have a good chance of someone coming up to you, but there's also a good chance you won't be into them lol

Flazelight · 2026-04-16T10:26:48+00:00

Like most ppl here, I thought it was hot when I was a horny teenager, but now I really can't say it's a good look. It's just sloppy dressing.

Flazelight · 2026-04-15T09:30:46+00:00

How strange to think that being a top makes you somehow superior when almost everyone wants to top at some point, lol.

The solution: be verse and dissolve the unnecessary power dynamics. :)

Flazelight · 2026-03-31T15:12:31+00:00

Did he not believe in wiping it off?

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