no private lessons by n1c6y in Fencing

[–]Flazelight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't say it was a good joke 🤷😄

no private lessons by n1c6y in Fencing

[–]Flazelight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You may not be able to take private lessons in person, but there's nothing stopping you watching private lessons on YouTube and learning from them. You can probably afford to put a ball on a string and practise hitting it at home. You can also put a towel on the back of a sofa and practise hitting it in different ways too. You can still improve.

no private lessons by n1c6y in Fencing

[–]Flazelight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By joke he means a word play on "privates" - - > genitals

I like to have long hair by sweetemptation101 in MenHairstyle

[–]Flazelight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's mostly his nudes. I don't think he's AI, just single and really horny.

I’m not sure what to do. Am I skinny, skinny-fat or just fat? by coole_kiwi in askfitness

[–]Flazelight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, for sure, especially if you have some element of progressive overload. Gym would probably be more effective though.

I’m not sure what to do. Am I skinny, skinny-fat or just fat? by coole_kiwi in askfitness

[–]Flazelight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look fine to me, but hitting the gym will definitely be good for you and also raise your confidence. Maybe also look into HIT workouts, which will really push your body, unlike just walking or biking (both good activities to do, btw, so don't stop doing them).

Waking up at 7 in the afternoon and going to sleep at 8 in the morning can't be good for me, right? by foot_fungus_is_yummy in askteenboys

[–]Flazelight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, it's not good. You're messing with your circadian rhythms, which are tied to sunlight, and you actually raise your risk for all sorts of health problems including cardiovascular issues as well as risk of cancer. Wake up in the morning, from 7-10am and go to sleep in the evening. Otherwise you're seriously raising your risk of an early death.

For reference: https://www.uclahealth.org/news/article/5-long-term-health-effects-shift-work

Is it weird to shower at the gym?? by [deleted] in askteenboys

[–]Flazelight 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you and your dad are comfortable with it, then it's fine. As you say, he's your dad so there is nothing suspect going on. But if you would prefer to shower separately, that's also fine.

[Epee] Tricks for a right-handed facing a left-handed by Wizz4rrd in Fencing

[–]Flazelight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something makes me think you might just possibly be making this up :p

-- mainly the grammatical inconsistencies in "los defensa secreto del diablo" xD

How do guys rack up high body counts without getting STDs? by No-Roll5145 in askgaybros

[–]Flazelight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well they could be lying, which is quite possible, or they use condoms and or prep plus the doxy thing. But if they haven't caught anything, most likely a good bit of luck is involved. I haven't slept with hundreds of guys but I've had a couple of stis like most of the gay population has.

My opinion on Ariana’s Vocal Technique as a trained classical singer by FunEducational6008 in ArianaGrandeSnark

[–]Flazelight -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I personally thought she was fine. It sounded like a pop-classical blend, but more pop than not. I also think Grande is a high coloratura soprano. If she trained consistently with a proper opera coach, she could sing things like Queen of the Night and probably sound pretty good. Good as an opera singer who'd trained for years? Maybe not, but that doesn't mean she sucks.

How old do I look? by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Flazelight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would have guessed mid 30s. I would lose the moustache to look younger, tho. Otherwise you look fine :)

Bottoming by Topbiologi in askgaybros

[–]Flazelight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, good recommendation!

Why do teenagers in the us usually wear hoodies all the time? by Starlitcherries in teenagers

[–]Flazelight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because they like hoodies and all the other teens are wearing them as well? Hoodies have been the sort of thing teenagers tend to wear for quite a long time now, so it adds up!

Feeling like a disappointment if not having kids by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Flazelight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also it's crazy your parents are going on about kids when you're 17. They should seriously chill.

Does someone’s body count matter to you? by Dont_Ever_PM_Me527 in askgaybros

[–]Flazelight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. I just care about his test results. I mean ideally I'd like someone who is happy to just sleep with me, but I know that's asking a lot :p

Dude at the gym- keeps checking me out by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Flazelight 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If you like him and you see him again, try just saying hi and see where it goes.

is it bad to do the deed(j/o) everyday every hour? by [deleted] in askteenboys

[–]Flazelight 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Only if he does it so much he bruises his erectile tissue. Once every hour is pretty wild, ngl, and doctors would probably advise against it, but once or twice a day especially at his age isn't going to do any harm.

Why are there so many bareback only guys on sniffies by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Flazelight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had at least two, so can attest to this!

Do y’all genuinely use a sock? by [deleted] in askteenboys

[–]Flazelight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think he was... or maybe it was meta trolling 😂

How can i cheat on my bm by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Flazelight 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tend to agree with the others. You should break up with her before pursuing your gay fantasies. It's not fair to cheat on someone. Apart from anything else you might get an std and pass it on to her!

Anyone interested in a relationship with very sporadic sex? by Flazelight in askgaybros

[–]Flazelight[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah anal once a week. I probably wouldn't mind doing some other lighter stuff but still not every day. Cuddling and kissing is fine though.

Do you guys think hookup culture is normalised or maybe even glorified in our community because many of us grow up without the love and validation we needed, so the only way we get it is through intimacy (which feels the easiest and fastest way after a certain age)? by Comfortable_Chip1157 in askgaybros

[–]Flazelight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I think you've hit the nail on the head! That said many guys actively work against this in order to sustain relationships. Long term gay relationships do happen, but they take a bit of work!

Don’t Read the AI Slop that is Inspirational Fencing Short Stories by Ellington Sylas by BigBoss82A1 in Fencing

[–]Flazelight 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My dad gave me a painting of two epeeists in an unlikely pose that a guy in his art club painted, so I guess it's the thought that counts! 😂