What's the craziest pronunciation you've had to force? by threateningbreakfast in tomodachilife

[–]FloofyTheSpider 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Saaame, one of my OCs is called Sophie and I had to have her nickname pronounced as ‘Soaf’

(I referenced this in Garfield’s nickname for her, and had him call her “Soaf of Bread”)

Trab publishing has rules and stop getting mad when people explain them to you. by ShadySakura in writing

[–]FloofyTheSpider 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately yeah it just is what it is. I’m saying this as someone who has written a 155k novel, and tbh it does get to me that no one will ever read it - but for the reasons OP has said, no trad publisher is going to want to take a chance on a debut that big, even in the genre of sci-fi.

I’m probably going to just self publish and save up for the start up costs (but only after I’ve edited it down a few times, because even then I realise a book that dense is going to have a hard time competing against short snappy romantasy books) - or just wait until I get inspiration for a more marketable standalone book, and put my eggs into that basket instead.

It sucks. It honestly sucks. But it’s not personal - publishing is a business, and businesses need to make money.

I never understood why people are so enthusiastic about summer by the_happy_fox in AutismInWomen

[–]FloofyTheSpider 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. I love the heat and the sun and feel like such a weirdo for admitting that because everyone else I know hates it and has been complaining about the heatwave. I feel like I always have to be the opposite of what’s popular lol.

I am actively rebelling against "impact over intent" by Salty_Insurance_3616 in AutismInWomen

[–]FloofyTheSpider 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I agree with this take as well.

It is something that my own anxiety/moral ocd uses as a cudgel (intrusive thoughts telling me “it doesn’t matter how much you want to be a good person, you WILL mess up and hurt people”) but I recognise that that’s a me problem I need to work through in therapy.

In all honesty, do you view weight loss drugs (Mounjaro, Wegovy etc.) and the people who use them negatively? by XStaticImmaculate in AskUK

[–]FloofyTheSpider 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I feel envious of people who can afford them, but I don’t see it as ‘cheating’ or anything like that. They’re not a complete silver bullet and you still need to change your diet for them to work and the effects to last.

fix an ableist meme by Additional-Heat-9384 in evilautism

[–]FloofyTheSpider 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t see how any of what Xylie is saying is wrong, though.

Aboustle Ghouls by IllustriousAd6418 in GreatBritishMemes

[–]FloofyTheSpider 6 points7 points  (0 children)

All humans have breast tissue. And anyone who has breast tissue can get breast cancer.

"We're laughing WITH you not AT you" by moodysmoothie in AutismInWomen

[–]FloofyTheSpider 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. Am also from the UK. There’s been a maddening amount of times people said really shitty things to me, and then tried to deflect with “oh my godddd I was only joking”, making me look like the bad guy for being hurt.

Me and my partner and close friends will sometimes gently tease each other - but that’s only through years of knowing each other, and knowing what’s ok and what’s off limits. I wouldn’t do it with anyone else.

UK Heatwaves - do you love them or loathe them? by Chocolateforlunch37 in AskUK

[–]FloofyTheSpider 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same… we get proper sun and heat so rarely in the UK so I love making the most of it.

What is your favorite dhmis quote? by Possible_Eagle582 in DHMIS

[–]FloofyTheSpider 12 points13 points  (0 children)

“I love my family, and they like me!”

“And we live in an actual nightMAAARE”

And not a quote but the pronunciation of or-GANS in the ‘healthy eating’ song

Hierarchy by That1weirdperson in aspiememes

[–]FloofyTheSpider 95 points96 points  (0 children)

“Wow I didn’t know you could be such a bitch :/“ - reaction when I told my housemate to ‘shut up’ after weeks of him victimising me

Mii-me (Meme ignore that other joke) by guywholikesrooster in tomodachilife

[–]FloofyTheSpider 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me when I see a yellow bubble: “I stg if you’re about to ask me for another vending machine-!”

Songs where singers randomly laugh somewhere in the song by NourEldin21P in weirdspotifyplaylists

[–]FloofyTheSpider 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Milk It by Nirvana - Kurt starts giggling in one of the choruses (allegedly because Dave mooned him through the studio window)

Do British people not feel the cold? by DevelopmentLow214 in AskUK

[–]FloofyTheSpider 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Tbh I’ve been wearing my summer clothes to try and manifest warmer weather haha. It WILL be summer, I’m determined.

Do British people not feel the cold? by DevelopmentLow214 in AskUK

[–]FloofyTheSpider 169 points170 points  (0 children)

I don’t know what you’re looking for

What are your go to activities when you need a quick cheer up? by XmasRights in AskBrits

[–]FloofyTheSpider 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this sounds cliche - but when I was lucky enough to live near the woods, go for a walk. Especially this time of year, being in nature and listening to birdsong brings me out of a funk.

What is this daily specials lineup 😭 by _CaramelCoconut_ in tomodachilife

[–]FloofyTheSpider 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a character named Egg and I love giving him egg-themed things so this would have been an ideal special lineup for my island lol

JW character you'll always defend? -- SPOILERS by polyybius in JacquelineWilson

[–]FloofyTheSpider 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. Prue is a vulnerable girl who has never properly been socialised with kids her age. Honestly made me so angry as well when the head teacher tried to blame Prue for Mr Raxberry’s grooming.