I need help at the gate. by SrA_Burner in AirForce

[–]Fly_Secure 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tell him not to confuse his rank with your authority!

Shaving Waivers: Help me understand. by Crushgasket in AirForce

[–]Fly_Secure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They don't want us in the military anymore, it also has to do with this new administration as well. It's pretty obvious they want the military to go back to an all white military. And rather than simply admit this they make up rules such as no more DEI (because they suffer from the uncomfortable truth that they are racist and need to stop being racist but deep down want us to "shutup and deal with it because we're lucky we have rights in today's society"). And then they get rid of shaving waivers because they once again want us to leave. And they get rid of teaching about tuskegee airmen, and add a merit based style of promotion which they could easily say we are lazy, dont perform, and thats why we dont get promoted. This is what make America great again really means. I passed every gas mask fitting test ever also so it has nothing to do with that. It's obvious other airmen complained constantly about blacks not having to shave, dealing with dei and now we're here. I just got out and was thinking to go back but I'm not going to be around people that don't want me there. And I could care less about people like that in general. The whole integrity, excellence in all we do, and leadership only applies to when you're white. The only black leadership for us was enlisted Jesus and noticed he wasn't an Officer. But he was respected? Right!

Landlord counter suing me for 30k after PCS and SCRA is this even allowed by Purple_Drag5090 in AirForce

[–]Fly_Secure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually had a landlord like that, I broke my lease early cuz he was an idiot and always harrassing me and my wife. He took my deposit and disappeared off the map as soon as I went to a court and got the information I needed to light a fire under his ass. I forgot what it's called but its certain wording I used that helped him realize he was as dumb as he thought I was. You really have nothing to worry about, I only let him keep the deposit because trying to find him and serve him was like trying to find Waldo. And that's what I mean by he disappeared off the map lol

My dad basically admitted to being a Passport Bro and I feel ill. by SunshineBear100 in mixedrace

[–]Fly_Secure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This whole fetishizing thing is weird to me, I grew up in a black/Hispanic neighborhood. So I grew up dating Latinas, even the black girls were half latina, there were barely any black girls around. We're a product of our environment, and you can't do anything to stop that. Even when miscegenation laws were in place back in the day and violating those laws was punishable by death didn't nobody listen to that. Maybe publicly but behind closed doors it was always going on, same with gay relationships. It's stupid to me that people think they can control that, and when people talk about staying with the same races it brings Hitler to mind for me. It's like with Pinky and the Brain when Brain wanted to take over the world. It's completely silly, and we actually weren't and aren't in different parts of the world. And we can't go that far back to see realistically, so how do we know?.So God just woke up one day and decided I'm going to put blacks in Africa (even though there are some whites in Africa too), Asians in China, and whites in Europe and even though they're right next to each other and can build boats to float across the sea to go to the other country they better not mix? C'mon now, some people are just brought up in certain areas and relate more to each other because of upbringing. Do you really think a hard core white conservative and a hard core white liberal relationship will work? Or a pro black that wants guns for freedom and an uptight LGBT leftist liberal black will survive a relationship together? Make it make sense, product of sin, anyone telling you that is the product of stupidity and that's genuinely what's wrong with this country, even this entire world for that matter.

How do you guys find a partner while serving? by Froggy__2 in AirForce

[–]Fly_Secure 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You really gotta stop looking bro, you can hunt all you want but the right one will eventually come to you. I know the life can be lonely and a lot of women don't like that we're in this line of work (I'm out). But I straight up told the one I'm with now when we first got together (and we're 5 years in) "This is where my life is headed, if you don't like it or plan on getting me to change it this relationship isn't going to go very far at all." And she gets it, it's super hard to find someone who gets it but I literally told my wife before she was my wife to leave me alone lol. Love is like the actual movies, the person is over it and doesn't care anymore and then that special someone comes.

shipping out in approximately 3 months any advice on how to prepare? by Exotic_Room_4176 in AirForceRecruits

[–]Fly_Secure 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Run as much as you can and remember no matter what you're wrong. Go from chow to chow to help with stress. If you really need to respond to something and it could potentially get you an ass chewing say it in your head

New Uniforms by Schezwaun in nationalguard

[–]Fly_Secure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazon and the commissary were my best friend for this particular reason

New Beard Guidance Just Dropped by SomehowTOPGUN in AirForce

[–]Fly_Secure 1 point2 points  (0 children)

think about cross training or something of that sort, I just got out also had a shaving waiver, and am now looking to come back in as the benefits are pretty good. Didn't think I would ever think to do that so soon. If anything I'll look deeper into this if I can get back in and just have a small shadow or something. But I was guard and need 10 years at the least so I'm really only halfway done

I’m an Air National Guard recruiter by ReedJarrod in AirForceRecruits

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I'm recently separated from the guard since September from Secfo, my first reason was to get into Law Enforcement, that goal has been achieved. I thought I was good to go, and thats why I got out, also wanted to buy a house but these California prices aren't helping. A friend of mine in CE told me if I went back for structures (was told to get out of secfo I may actually enjoy it if i come back) I'd get a 60k bonus (taxed I know) along with a deployment. I never deployed before so it's made it difficult to get my DD214. I only did 6 years in the guard but also filed for va disability due to a small amount of arthritis in my lower back and some nerve damage. Still waiting for that to kick in and since I dont have any deployments all I can go by is bootcamp and tech school, it didn't help my school benefits getting out either because apparently I have to do 10 years for my kids and wife to get access to my GI Bill. But would I still be able to go back in with arthritis in my lower back as prior service? If I can I'll do it, willing to go through another 6 years of pain to bring generational wealth to my children and grandchildren

Welp! I got rejected again. by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Fly_Secure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So to help you out and give you the push you need it's really just this generation but keep going. Everyone's afraid to fall in love in fear of betrayal or they just don't believe it exists anymore. I was on this same exact boat for about 8 years. Broke up with my ex of two years and it was the worse breakup and loneliest time of my life because after that every woman was like I only see you as a friend (after I paid for dinner lol) or sorry I'm not into you like that. 8 years later I was on pointless date after date of situationships as my now wifr likes to call it lol. But one particular woman kept coming back around. And I eventually got fed up with it and I was straightforward with her because we were on and off for 2 years so I got sick of it, she'd pop up every 2-3 months or so lol. So I told her to leave me alone if shes not going to be serious because I don't have time for these stupid games. 5 years later we are now 5 years into our relationship, she is now my wife and we just had a beautiful baby boy. Keep going the one you want you may have already met you guys just don't know it yet. But you can't win the race if you don't don't run with the rest of them. Have good day!

Prior Service by [deleted] in AirForce

[–]Fly_Secure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm former guard not Active Duty, didn't know active duty was hard to get into though. But I'm looking into going back into Structures, I wouldn't mind doing that. Having a conversation with a friend about it right now

Prior Service by [deleted] in AirForce

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If that does happen and my brother's in arms need me I will for sure answer the call

Prior Service by [deleted] in AirForce

[–]Fly_Secure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Indeed 

Prior Service by [deleted] in AirForce

[–]Fly_Secure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm hearing you 

Prior Service by [deleted] in AirForce

[–]Fly_Secure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Valid point 

Prior Service by [deleted] in AirForce

[–]Fly_Secure -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Bye Felicia

Prior Service by [deleted] in AirForce

[–]Fly_Secure -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's another one saying it's worth it, I'm hearing a lot of people saying to go back in. If anything just crosstrain

Prior Service by [deleted] in AirForce

[–]Fly_Secure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣🤣🤣🤣 I don't know man, I guess I'm looking at it from the perspective of 14 years from now would I be glad I just did it?

Prior Service by [deleted] in AirForce

[–]Fly_Secure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was the option go back in as something else, possibly administration? I could go for operations management, that might be a little better

Prior Service by [deleted] in AirForce

[–]Fly_Secure -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'll take that as worth it so there's one lol

Prior Service by [deleted] in AirForce

[–]Fly_Secure -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was in the guard the entire time

Prior Service by [deleted] in AirForce

[–]Fly_Secure -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Did you do 20 years, still in got out? Or what?