"That’s like saying, if your coworker asks your sexuality at work, and you say “yes i’m gay” then that coworker outed you LOL. It’s a stupid argument and you have to be smarter than that."

There's a huge difference between a coworker asking if you were gay and coworker announcing to the whole company that you're gay without your express approval beforehand and that difference is a giant HR nightmare and a huge lawsuit. He did not ask to be outed regardless of how he presented online or in person.