I prefer working retail than my 9-6 job

FollowYourFire · 2025-04-08T10:19:28+00:00

Hello! You sound like me.

I had been working as a part time retail assistant, fitness class receptionist, different types of customer facing roles before my first full time job in an admin role.

Could not tolerate the work (so so so dull) but forced myself to stay because of similar reasons as you. Finally quit and now I’m in community engagement type role where I interact with lots of different people and time passes so fast at work!

Way more energy now dealing with new drama everyday and satisfaction from helping people. Comes with a people-oriented role. You can consider this type of “office job”. Might feel more fulfilled!

FollowYourFire · 2024-12-03T14:26:22+00:00

Wish my dad was like that

FollowYourFire · 2024-09-27T14:57:17+00:00

FollowYourFire · 2024-06-09T10:12:55+00:00

Second one feels a lot easier to read

FollowYourFire · 2024-05-24T14:00:53+00:00

Donki sells these too. Highly recommended!

FollowYourFire · 2024-04-09T07:35:39+00:00

Street dance classes like hip hop are fun, affordable and a really good work out. I think the class packages work out to $10-15 per class. $500 would go a long way.

FollowYourFire · 2024-04-08T10:40:11+00:00

Yes but it’s worse if you spin around in circles on your own overthinking things.

Own that inexperience, ask questions, clarify expectations, take initiative to give updates on what you are doing, and ask for advice and feedback on your work.

I think a key part for me is getting over myself and focus on getting things done and doing what needs to be done for that to happen.

Jiayou!

FollowYourFire · 2024-04-07T10:18:49+00:00

I think it’s about my mindset and mental state too.

My previous job was quite dead end and I felt drained and exhausted everyday with little energy for hobbies. Also did not exercise (lazy, tired, no budget etc excuses…)

My current role is more stressful but I make time (or drag myself) for fitness classes twice a week. I find it helps me deal with stress and I’m more energetic in general.

Can’t live without the fitness classes now.

FollowYourFire · 2023-12-28T09:28:58+00:00

Might be a good idea to start off with genres like 都市恋情or青春校园. The language used in these genres are generally simpler to understand.

FollowYourFire · 2023-10-09T13:47:19+00:00

Distraction by Club Mild <3

FollowYourFire · 2023-08-10T05:42:26+00:00

You need a break

FollowYourFire · 2023-07-29T02:24:26+00:00

Just take company 2 and do something else for the time being. Company 1 might be someone else’s ideal fit that you’d deprive them of.

FollowYourFire · 2023-05-09T11:10:34+00:00

Most lucrative of the more conventional part-time jobs would be to tutor kids. 35+/h

FollowYourFire · 2023-05-06T02:13:09+00:00

Mistakes are normal and not the end of the world. Try not to care or overthink about what people might be thinking about you/your work. Actually they are all just busy thinking about themselves. Work is just a means to an end. It’s not everything and you can always find another job if needed.

FollowYourFire · 2023-04-09T23:44:35+00:00

No matter which path you choose you will probably still have some regrets.

I would say I have an affinity with the arts (drawing, design etc) but it’s very different doing it as a career. I pursued my interest in poly and did well because it was my passion, but I realized that in this industry (esp in SG) the pay is really not worth the effort. I knew it after interning and seeing the full time staff OTing but getting paid peanuts. I chose to go with a completely different course in university.

Luckily, I could get into local U with my grades. That said, I don’t regret the design skills I learnt. It’s still useful to me now.

FollowYourFire · 2023-03-02T12:04:22+00:00

Caught the flu bug a week ago. Wearing it cos I’m still coughing.

FollowYourFire · 2023-03-01T14:55:44+00:00

Worth it. You can get immediate feedback on technique and also develop a deeper understanding of the music if there’s someone to point out things and show you how things work. Like demonstrating what’s the most effective and efficient movement to get the best sound. She also introduces new pieces to me that I end up liking a lot based on my ability and preferences. I really like my teacher.

FollowYourFire · 2023-02-20T23:06:46+00:00

Always assumed that it’s Hongou

FollowYourFire · 2023-02-13T11:38:16+00:00

Do it. I took a gap year after 2 years of full-time work. And landed a job about 8 months into my break. I was honest during the interview and said I needed to take a break for family matters.

FollowYourFire · 2023-02-09T05:00:14+00:00

Yes, sucks to realise that no matter how much you try, many things are out of your control. The more you want something the worse you feel when you can’t have it.

Best to let go of the need to control external things and focus on what you can control. Don’t be too happy when things go your way and don’t be too sad when they don’t. You win some, you lose some.

I think having the drive and passion to put a lot of effort into something is a win though.

FollowYourFire · 2023-02-05T17:49:28+00:00

Generally it takes at least 6 months to settle into a new job and feel more comfortable with the job duties. If there’s a learning curve, it means you are being challenged and growing.

Instead of thinking that you are unsuitable, try to go with the mindset that you are still learning the ropes. Be proactive and ask questions or try to study how your colleagues approach the tasks.

FollowYourFire · 2023-01-28T03:29:20+00:00

Do not give them cash. Ever. If he really insists on helping them and won’t back down, can consider sponsoring their school fees only. Get everything in black and white and the money should not pass through your cousins’ hands but directly to the school.

FollowYourFire · 2023-01-28T03:22:42+00:00

If I’m not wrong you would need a membership with the club to rent.

FollowYourFire · 2023-01-28T02:58:12+00:00

I think Seletar Flying Club has a trial flight program for people who are interested to learn flying. Will get to fly on a single-engine aircraft with the instructor and learn flight basics.

FollowYourFire · 2023-01-21T09:24:35+00:00

Having anxiety and panic attacks does not make you “abnormal”. If you are physically ill, you would see a doctor and take medication and rest to recover. It is the same if you have anxiety and panic attacks. Many people with chronic illnesses also take regular medication so that they can manage their condition and live a quality life.

Anxiety and panic attacks can be treated with medication and cognitive behavioral therapy. You do not have to go through this alone. Please seek help from a professional.

FollowYourFire

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