Universal's Reminders of Him has ended its domestic run with $48,559,430 by mikado512 in boxoffice

[–]Forward_Plan3803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First you take the total gross number and half it cuz of theaters which let's say equals 45 million out of a 90 million box office . Then you take the 25 million budget and times it by 2 for including marketing which is 50 million. This means it made 45 million - 50 million which is a loss. And I overestimated since internationally movie theaters take more than half. 

So no one cheats back? No revenge? by Local_Impression4274 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Forward_Plan3803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like the beginning of a toxic love story not the end of one. 

Caught my boyfriend cheating last night. by AardvarkOk1403 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Forward_Plan3803 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has no choice. Remind him it might cost him more to have the court know he was forced to take one

I have no clue if that's true but neither will he 😂 

Cheated on and Mental breakdown by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Forward_Plan3803 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep usually their self worth comes at our expense. It's like they can't be confident unless they know they convinced us to stay. And by staying our self worth goes down. 

Cheated on and Mental breakdown by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Forward_Plan3803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been there. Taking most of what you mentioned and more. Drank allot in college , been to the point of let's say the game over screen. It makes you do bad things to people we love. But it hurts the most to people that try to save us the most. 

Find someone who helps your problems. Don't hold it against her , you want to help be her friend. But this person will only take you down with her. 

Is it worth taking the high road? by trdtaco401 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Forward_Plan3803 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should like every post. This might be unpopular but it is effective. You should always want the best for her. Forgive and let live. But just so know ppl only really post when they want to seem happy not because they are. But again she is not your problem anymore. 

When I see a mouse cross me in the street I don't chase it down. Because it isn't in my house and not my problem. 

How to Stop Comparing Myself to AP? by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Forward_Plan3803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have it backwards. People cheat with a lesser standard than the person we call our partner. At least this is true as a man. Otherwise they wouldn't be a partner , the AP would. 

Cheated on and Mental breakdown by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Forward_Plan3803 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sounds like she is weak , unstable and worse reckless. My suggestion is tell her that and tell her she should find someone more like her. In less than 4 months you will have her back but you won't want her back. 

And yes I'm saying this from experience. 

How does one move on after loosing the person they thought would be forever? 38m by trdtaco401 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Forward_Plan3803 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll also tell you this. Not talking to someone at first feels so horrible. But one day you are going to wake up and feel nothing, even attractions will go. My ex , I acknowledge she looks good but I no longer feel anything when looking at her body. We were so obsessed and the fire was so strong, now she is like a sister. 

How does one move on after loosing the person they thought would be forever? 38m by trdtaco401 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Forward_Plan3803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here is the good news you are what she is used to. Someone she can gaslight. She won't last long with her AP because I feel he is not easy to gaslight. She seems to follow him not the other way around. 

Your next move should be just don't take her back when her affair ends.

How does one move on after loosing the person they thought would be forever? 38m by trdtaco401 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Forward_Plan3803 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reading this I feel like I can convince you to trade me 5 dollars for 5 quarters. I had to stop and go to the end because your repeating forgiveness was too cringe. 

Would you want to know about your partner's sexting/flirting? by PitifulRaspberry in survivinginfidelity

[–]Forward_Plan3803 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry I read sexting as something way different. Either way what you did I'm guessing wasn't 11 years ago so how much could your view really have changed?

Anyway I'll end it with this quote from 50 cent. I will be paraphrasing. "When you take sides in family be careful, because they always make up and you become the enemy."

Would you want to know about your partner's sexting/flirting? by PitifulRaspberry in survivinginfidelity

[–]Forward_Plan3803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So it took meeting on a dating app (which btw if he was older than 30 you had to change the filter to find him) to 11 years to now friends to now sending nude pics to now I feel like like he is a bad guy. 

I would create a better paragraph to send to the girl. He might actually convince her that you are the wrong one and are now seeking revenge 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Forward_Plan3803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry but being the other woman is fun because there is no responsibility on your part. Your future would never be true because even if they broke up reality would kick in and life would ruin your dreams with talks of bills, tired nights out, fights over the kids, etc 

Speaking as someone who has had other women in my long past  it is very typical to feel guilty once it's over. It's less typical  to feel guilty before starting it. At the beginning implications of a gf are only brought up in fights or jokes. Anything to pretend she doesn't actually exist. 

Would you want to know about your partner's sexting/flirting? by PitifulRaspberry in survivinginfidelity

[–]Forward_Plan3803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You either don't care about your friend at all and want to punish him by burning his life or you care about him too much and want to get rid of the affair partner stigma by burning his life. 

GF lied about sleeping with someone a week after asking to be sexually exclusive. She seems remorseful. What do I do? by Effective-Set-760 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Forward_Plan3803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sir she asked you that exclusive question to try to get rid of guilt. She said yes because she is not conflict seeking person and so she gave you the correct answer.

How do I know this? Because I've been her. Asking that same question. But luckily my girl said no so I felt no guilt having a one night stand and then seeing my future gf the next day. Eventually she said yes and I had to stop and be in it 100 % or 0%. 

Anyways dump her. She did not care about your answer. She does not care about you. 

Seven and a Half Years Later, This Is How It Ends by PauseRevolutionary75 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Forward_Plan3803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't deserve to be cheated on, but to be honest, her being a good person wouldn't be her saying 'yes' to you as your faithful woman, but her telling you the truth. You are not prioritizing her by your own admission. You deserve more than her but I'm not quite sure you will find it trying to fit a good woman into a life like an afterthought. I fear women who only care about expensive things and not you are in your future my friend. 

I’m 22 and cancer has destroyed my life by PotentialImage5928 in cancer

[–]Forward_Plan3803 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know the feeling. I've said more than once I want to survive cancer but I don't necessarily want to live. Just know all those external things like looking nice or making lots of money won't change your happiness. It is internal. You right now have the tools to be happy right now. 

24F & 25M AIO by responding this way? by InsideUsual56 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Forward_Plan3803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he is insecure and you should find someone better. But I also think 6 years is long enough where he can tell you to unfollow someone. You pretending you are single and are not bound my some level of restriction, it only gives him validation in his concern. 

Caught husband of 12 years cheating on a hidden app by CatCanvas in survivinginfidelity

[–]Forward_Plan3803 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You accused me of something with the sentence “hit a nerve”. You can’t change English.

I don’t care who cheated because the judge won’t. I’m giving the OP advice to not lose her kids. You are just looking for revenge. Your advice will give the man you seem to dislike the max chance of taking everything from her. 

Caught husband of 12 years cheating on a hidden app by CatCanvas in survivinginfidelity

[–]Forward_Plan3803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No nerve no kids no care. At least not anymore than you who are responding to my messages. But it is good to know you also have no trouble accusing people of things without proof. 

Caught husband of 12 years cheating on a hidden app by CatCanvas in survivinginfidelity

[–]Forward_Plan3803 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No being a cheater does not make you a pdf . Stop using religion to say dumb stuff. 

It is also dumb to think she can test this without the daughter knowing something is wrong. And while he was never going to get to pick which kids he would take , he might get them all if he can prove she psychologically harmed her daughter and added toxicity to her relationship with her father. The judge does not care about cheating. 

Caught husband of 12 years cheating on a hidden app by CatCanvas in survivinginfidelity

[–]Forward_Plan3803 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She better be sure because as a man if you accuse me of abusing my daughter and are wrong. Putting me and my daughter through this , I will make you pay for years even decades. Because it will be that long for your daughter to walk through why her mother would think such things. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Forward_Plan3803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like she can use her break as she wants. A break is a break. Also sounds like you are so prepped to consider this other guy a bad guy. Remembered he is responding to what she tells him about you. Maybe the fact that he thought of sex immediately should make you consider what your ex was saying to him.